Like whether they told you or you happened to find out yourself that your friend was cheating on their SO, would you do anything about it and would it change your opinion of your friend? Would you confront them or be upset with them? Or would you just let them live and not judge them?
I don't try to live from moral standards anymore. I try to live solely from natures laws.
I would confront her to check on her well being and what's going on but that's it.
It's her life and her decisions.
If that's how she wants to live so be it.
I don't agree with it but that's her right.
And I'd spend less time around her because I don't want to be that person.
Your opinion of them should change. Not to more good or bad.
But simply do you want to be influenced by having that individual around in your life.
Because make no mistake the people around you are programming you. Same with this site. I really gotta change the way I operate on here or leave. Because there is a lot of negativity on here. And I don't mean good nor bad. I mean ideas that aren't going to lift me up and only bring us down.
It may sound cold to a lot of people but that's because they are so caught up in good and evil.
u I've been in that situation before.
It was one of my best friends. I was the best man at his wedding; that's how close we were. Six months after their wedding, he ended up getting another woman pregnant.
I was so disgusted by his actions that I immediately lost all respect for him. I couldn't look at him, couldn't talk to him, and couldn't even be around him. I can't be friends with someone with whom I have no respect, and I ended up cutting him out of my life.
I have neither seen, nor spoken to him, for about 15 years, now.
I actually went through this with my now ex best friend when we were in our early 20s. She had two toddlers at the time, and there was so much trauma and turmoil between her and her baby daddy that they were basically together for the kids. I think because she had her kids so young, she felt like she was missing out on her youth and we started going out more.
She’d meet men and deal with them romantically behind his back. She had started an affair with one guy, and actually slept with her baby daddy’s best friend at one point. Sure those were things that I could’ve told her man, but my loyalty (and friendship) wasn’t to him, it was with her. Aside from that, it just wasn’t my place to interfere with their relationship or what happened within it. If they were to break up, it had to be on their own accord and not because I trifled with the relationship.
I would disagree with my friend on their actions but I would mind my business. I don’t have an objective to be friends with my friends S/O , so I don’t see how tainting my current friendship would benefit me in anyway.
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Depends if the So is also my friend because then I would tell them right away though I of course would tell my friend first to tell them first or I will.
If the So is not my friend, I wouldn't lie if the So just asked me about it or something but I wouldn't get involved otherwise.
I don't like to lie when asked a question, I just answer honestly. I do lie of course, everyone does but that would be in cases it's actually for good reasons. Lying about this wouldn't be for a good reason so why would I?
Well of course I'd have a problem with it. And I would lose respect for them and tell them so. But they're a grown f***ing man (or woman if it's a lady friend). I can't tell them how to live thier life. But as a friend I have to let them know when they're acting self destructively. And I might have to end the friendship if they continue along this path. But a lot of that depends on how healthy thier relationship is to begin with. I mean while I don't condone cheating maybe thier relationship is doomed anyway. You'll find as you age if you're in a healthy relationship you want to avoid couples in healthy relationships lest thier toxicity spread to yours.
I would not be all that thrilled with them and talk to them about it.
I wouldn't do anything. Why is everyone anon on this site? lol
Id ignore it unless I was really close with the girl who was being cheated on.
I would tell them not to be a piece of shit
would not like it butt not my business.
I think I would be upset.
I'd be LIVID.
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