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I would end the relationship, because instead of coming to me and having a mature conversation about their feelings and urges so we could work on our relationship so it does not have to gravitate towards a permit action, they took it upon themselves to go outside the relationship and work thier issues out with someone else.
This person not only does not trust you as a partner who can meet thier needs but also can not be trusted to be able to communicate when they have feelings or urges that could determine overall if the relationship is over or not.
It's honestly a pointless waste of time and life.
I'd End that relationship... What I wouldn't do is stoop to his level and cheat, because I'm not a cheater... And, marrying a rich man as revenge against someone that cheated on you? Yeah okay, sounds like you're using being cheated on as an excuse/justification to be a cheater and a user...
So it wasn't okay to be cheated on, but it's okay to use a man for his money or for revenge... Yeah, no just no... Two wrongs never made anything right!
I would not do any of that. I would simply break up and find someone better. Doing degenerate stuff myself makes me worse and many times it will backfire on you doing that sort of thing.
The fact that you are even thinking about doing that stuff sounds like emotional cheating to start with and I think you have the urge to do it anyways. I think you need to be careful
OP that is certainly a vindictive, retaliation heavy approach, which could work I suppose. Myself? I'd cut off all contact and any property of hers would be in a box on her front porch. I don't waste energy on cheaters. I don't need to know WHY WHY WHY idgaf... bye.
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Probably cry then move on with my life
u I would take the deepest breathe of air... and then I would release the biggest sight ever
and then I would scratch my head, right above my right ear, and would be like "well that sucks... and not the fun way"
and then I would give it a good thought to all
basically, I would not react, certainly not overreact and do something right away, first, I would have to assimilate things and think through about things
Literally. Dude's gonna get 13 slaps and I'm gonna get him out of my life in all the ways i can. Fudge you, dude.
I absolutely hate the mentality of people who cheat, and if i find out it's my own partner, I'd be more so really upset than furious.
But.
Guess who's singing I see red by Everybody loves an outlaw, actually meaning every word of the song?
Here is a summary of this Mytake.
'If I am cheated on, I will immediately lower myself to their level'
Imma agree with what someone else here said, it's ridiculous to go way outta your way to get revenge like that.
Besides, lol, you sound like you wanna do that anyways, you might as well break up with the guy and go fulfill your desires😂.
As for me, idrk, couldn't say unless something like that happens to me.
Have some time alone and evaluate the relationship later I would talk to her and ask her why.
If she can´t explain it and tries to play it down I would break up.
I don´t see a reason or need to play with their heart because that´s not going solve the issue.
Because it all ends up in the question of: Can we make it work again or not?
Anything is just stupid.
Let's see this was done to me
I beat the fuck out of them with a baseball bat, killed them and then ate their brains so I can have their soul and to stay young.
I hear their soul talking to me, begging to set them free. They will live in my hell forever
No one cheats on me, if they do. I will eat their brains with strawberry covered chopsticks, a flat green spoon, and a car tire.
Damn that's rough... if you're not hot though I wouldn't give a fuck. Fuck six black guys and screw my boss financially with child support. I'll fuck 6 black chicks, all your friends, your mom, and your 1st grade teacher in return.
If we were not married they would be finished that day, all of their belongings stacked outside, locks changed,
If married I'd see a solicitor/lawyer have papers for a divorce drawn up the same day or ASAP, going scorched earth.
No excuses accepted in either scenario.
I'm not doing anything because as soon as I found out she cheated, we're both single.
That's a single woman decision she made, it's none of my business and she should be on her merry way in life.
Just dump her. Seems easy and reasonable enough.
"... cheat on him back with 2 Black Guys. I’d also screw his best friend or someone close to him." I'd recommend against doing stuff like this especially as a woman. Most men will hold slut behavior against you. One ex of mine was like this when we broke up and it just made me get over her instantly realizing i dodged a bullet. Only trashy hos do this stuff and I dont date trashy hos so i knew i made the right choice dumping her. If she behaved like a lady i sure would have been regretful though.
Look guy was 100% dumb and wrong but leave him no need to keep your self involved in the drama should've left him and then slept with his friends or w. e unless your a drama queen then shit do u sis not my business
So basically if you get cheated, the solution is to destroy your reputation and become a user; becoming worse than the cheater?
Too much drama don't you think? Why not leave the person and then block them?
Dump him and move on. Not spend my whole life trying to get revenge like you just described, that’s pathetic.
It would hurt me a lot. I hate cheating and to me it’s a deadly sin. I would make his life a living hell.
I'd give him the silent treatment then pack my bags and leave a divorce paper as well as a note saying that he should have left me if he didn't love me anymore.
I’m not a “if you cheat on me, I’m gonna cheat back type of person”
I used to be like that in highschool maybe. But then I realized it’s just a waste of time to be that petty.
I would simply just leave
I will move on and pretend I didn't know him, while making a huge mistake dating him.
But in total if, I WOULD KNOW IF HE CHEATED ON ME. So I wouldn't care and say "ha, you just lost something very important that could get you far in life. I could've been helpful to you but now it's too late * walk away, laughing like a manic*
Or just say something that will scare or creep the crap out of him.
Ha, sucker
Talk to him. Ask him why? and Where did I go wrong? Then maybe, I'd forgive him and give him another chance.
I do believe that revenge will never set you free.
Betrayals wound your heart;
and Revenge will make the wound run deeper. Anger fuels the desire to have that revenge. And anger is like rubbing a salt to that fresh wound.
It'll chain you to that chapter forever and you'll never be happy.
I want to say that I wouldn't cheat back because that would make me a hypocrite, but I'm a firm believer in revenge so I probably would lol.
I'd also cut into her with my words, make her feel damn terrible about herself and erase her from my life.
Possibly smack around the guy she cheated with, only if he didn't know she was spoken for.
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