My boyfriend and I had an amazing weekend but today I woke up not feeling so well - I was head achy and dizzy all day and sleepy and nauseated…. we were out the whole entire day yesterday….
my boyfriend wanted to clean up his place today and I usually go to the gym when he cleans…. today I couldn’t go because I wasn’t well and my boyfriend was getting frustrated with me…. we also had to be at his parents for dinner later tonight and we ended up going..
why was he getting frustrated and insisting for me to go the gym even tho he knew I wasn’t feeling well? He still was able to do his cleaning even tho I was there…
(my boyfriend does have a learning disability and doesn’t always comprehend)
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My boyfriend apologized after I explained myself and he understood
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Ah, the dance of relationships sometimes steps on our toes, doesn't it? It sounds like you both had a weekend full of love and fun, but life decided to sprinkle a bit of challenge on your parade. When you're feeling under the weather, it's completely natural to want to take it easy and skip the gym — especially if you're dealing with dizziness and nausea. Don't worry, your gym membership will forgive you for the absence. 😉
As for your boyfriend, his reaction might stem from a disruption in his usual routine or struggle to fully understand how you're feeling, considering his learning disability. It could be that in his mind, plans were set, and changing them, even for a legitimate reason like health, was tough to fathom. Love languages get lost in translation sometimes, don’t they?
It's essential to communicate openly and gently remind him that when you're sick, sticking to the original plan, including pumping iron at the gym, isn't always possible. Maybe sprinkle in a little lovebombing to soften the conversation - it works like a charm! Remember, love, patience, and a heaping scoop of understanding make the perfect remedy. 💘
Ya he didn’t seem to fully understand and hates when his plans get disrupted or ruined because he likes routine but before we went to his parents he apologized for being frustrated