Why does my boyfriend get annoyed with me when he's the one doing it?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend likes to flirt with woman, talks about other woman to me or he interacts with woman to make them flirty with him and it's got to the point where I tell him stop bc it's making me uncomfortable but also when we go somewhere that I have experience that I tell him I wanna go somewhere else bc ik he wants to boost his ego when people flirt with him. And it's to the point where he complains to his brother that I don't want to go anywhere as much bc of what he does, and he says it's annoying and frustrating if that so why does he do that talk to me about other woman he's been with or slept with or flirts in front of me, and since I have an issue with it and I don't want to experience it anymore it's annoying to him or frustrating is it bc I'm not doing what he wants me to do. I'll give you a situation his brother had with him, they went out to dinner just him and his brother and he witnessed his brother (boyfriend) flirting with the waitress so when they got in the truck my boyfriend asked his brother pass or smash and they both said smash but my boyfriend looked at his brother and said why would I do that to my girlfriend like I can't do that to her. And his brother was like wtf in his mind he was saying so u won't do that do to her but you'll flirt with that girl in there want to smash her and u already know where she works and what time she's here but your saying you won't do that to your girlfriend like wtf? This is the reason I don't like going anywhere with him and yes all of you will say break up with him bc he's not worth any of this.

[RoseySarah]

So he's I agree he will just cheat and you do know it but won't leave...

But he gets like that cause her is selfish and can't see his own actions as bad but he can notice his brothers actions as being terrible!

He gets mad your ruining his flirt and vibes when you tell him not to... in his mind those actions are harmless when they are destroying you emotionally!

He would get so pissed you flirting like he is! My sister did that to an ex and he beat her!

You know him and how it will be so your making your own terrible bed to sleep in sorry.

Maybe record him doing it and show him and his brother. Then tell him that his brother just did the same and you ranted on him for it

[Changiis07]

Yeah I could not tolerate that, he just isn't respecting you at all and you're also allowing it because you haven't set boundaries. You've already told him it makes you uncomfortable and he keeps doing it so why would you want to be with someone who isn't respecting how you feel and is constantly flirting with girls. Sounds like it's best for him to be single

[HelpfulWoman]

You already know what you should do as you've put the quick ending sentence, as if that makes it okay? girl find some standards to hold yourself to.