He does it all the time. He finds out what annoys me, and keeps doing it untill I explode after tons of warnings. I sometimes feel the urge to hit him, but I remove myself from his space to cool down and he gets offended by that. Either he is poking my sister and I have to listen to her "stahp", or tickling me I don't like that (domestic abuse in my childhood reasons) and interrupting my speeches, tickling my nose and grabbing me so I can't move (again, childhood flashbacks) or annoying sounds. He says he loves seeing me get mad because I look adorable, but most of the time, it doesn't end well. How can I stop him? We love each other, but this seems to be a huge problem. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
I would recommend a verbal warning then progressively more damaging and painful pokes, chops and punches... if that doesn't work kick him to the curb... when you tell some one that you do not like what they are doing and they continue anyway, that's not a person who respects you and needs to be corrected...1
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Most Helpful Girl
Ahhh, men think it's "cute" when we're mad, as if we're not allowed to express real anger and frustration. I would sit him down and tell him. Does he know about the abuse from the past? If not, that needs to be something you open up to him about I think. He also sounds really immature and annoying. If you doesn't stop, it could lead to you snapping on him, which opens up a whole new can of worms.1