My boyfriend said he gets annoyed at me , what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Recently we been fighting for too much and we started to yell at each other everytime we talk. And one day he said he gets annoyed at me , should I just leave? Or stay? But I still love him

[ohsheeT]

Okay so first of all are the things that you're arguing about really Petty and do you yell back this is what you need to do right now he is showing you who he truly is now it can get worse which I kind of believe that it's going to do because I bet you he's an angry person so when he starts arguing stay very calm and talk if he cannot calm himself down and talk with you if he keeps yelling and escalating everything you should probably leave because he's going to get out of control one day but if you stay calm each and every time that you start fighting that will tell you exactly who he is and he keeps yelling that means he wants to control you and you can't have that he needs to respect you and if you can't do that then you need to walk away I can probably tell you why you think you love him and it's not really love but I'll only tell you that if you ask

[lightbulb27]

You both need to learn to communicate, it's one of the essential skills to keep relationship alive.

Find out what he means.

Find out why you do that and what your needs are

Find ways to satisfy those needs, will valuing each other.

Work on whatever aspects of change are required to keep the relationship healthy.

A job for both of you. Welcome to human relationships!

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's time for...

"The Talk"

Try not to yell back though, if you're both going to talk it out. It needs to be done when you both are feeling calmer.

Both can talk it out and see both sides of the story, then decide if you can give each other another chance of if it's better to just move on.

[misssecretly]

I would ask him what do í do tuat annoys you , or what about me annoys you... that way you can fairly decide if that's something that you want to work on or leave him over.

[OlderAndWiser]

When you have a repetitive argument and nothing ever seems to get resolved, it usually indicates that there is an underlying, significant conflict that is not being addressed at all. So. . . what is the real problem in this relationship?

[user4477388]

Well there's several things you can do ask him what's annoying him and find out why he's just now getting annoyed.
Then figure out if his being annoyed is real or if it's just nitpicking. If it's nitpicking then he needs to grow up. If there's things that's annoying him that's real and legit then work on change. There will always be things in relationships that annoy people family , friends , dating relationship etc. Find a balance and try to work it out. If you can't find balance or a reasonable compermise then he just has to deal with it or move on. Talk to someone who has been In a relationship for 20 -30 -50 years find out what has worked for them when things get hard. Those who have been in a relationship for a very long time their advice is going to be the best stay away from those who go from relationship to relationship or keep getting divorced their advice is going to be the worst
Have a great day and good luck I hope you and your boyfriend find balance and good compromise

[20yearsolder]

Only you can answer this question. When you've had enough of his shit then it's time to leave. You can still love someone and then be an asshole to you. Life's too short to put up with that shit. Find somebody that treats you the way you want to be treated

[AndrésC64]

If you really love him and want to stay in the relationship, then I suggest that you both sit down and have a calm discussion about what you do that annoys him and you can also tell him what he does that annoys you. As adults you should be able to come to some kind of compromise.

[Guy13]

🛑 too much everything and every feeling onslaught, excessive texting/therapy session to just try to read.. CHANGE…2 line texts, concise out loud and short thought sentences and then. 💞

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[spartan55]

You want leave because he says you annoy him?
I feel like you are leaving out some information because that's like giving someone the electric chair for a parking ticket.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I say leave, why would you want to stay with someone that finds you annoying and does not appreciate your presence?

[Anonymous]

Suck his Dick that Will Fix things
You are Beautiful for a reason your a girl use your Sexual influence on him to Make him obsessed With Fucking you

[Jamesshinobi]

annoyance builds resentment and resentment kills relationships. if it isn't dead yet it soon will be.

[JPresidente]

He does not sound like someone you would want to be in a relationship with long term.

[Stevefiveo]

Probably leave. You can try couples therapy if you want.

[GlassTop]

She’s in early 20’s 😂. Therapy is terrible advice. Just let them learn on their own.

[EaterPeter]

He may want try to expand his vocabulary learn to be vulnerae and you may want to be better at listening

[EaterPeter]

Vulnerable

[Singlehandsome]

try to have conversation with him about the problems between you and suggest solutions to them

[Anonymous]

It might be time for you to end things and move on.

[Lynn7dsd]

Go to couples counseling maybe?

[FilmGuy93]

What are y'all fighting about?

[44of69years]

It all depends on what he gets annoyed at you for

[es20490446e]

What percentage of the time is good time.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Fix the issue not the people

[HaveNoName]

Move on. The signal is pretty clear.

[ZenJen444]

He doesn't like u what don't u get?

[NottaNatty]

Ask him!

[In_Trance]

stop being annoying