My boyfriend said everything I do annoys him?

[brendaaaa]

So yesterday I changed my name on kik (a messenger app) to "positive vibes" and my boyfriend told me that everything I do annoys him. So I told him from here on out that I'll just leave him alone and he said bye, and I said bye too. then a 30 minutes later he texts me hi and calls me babe and sweetie as if he didn't just insult me. I gave him maximum 4 word replies and he read my message and never replied after. I usually text him first, ask him to hang out with me whenever he gets the chance, I call him, tell him to send me pictures, etc. So should I just stop all together? What he said really affected me because he said EVERYTHING I do annoys him so I don't know.

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I also remember me telling him earlier in the day that I was going to kiss him and he told me he wasn't going to kiss me or get near me.

[GlamFelix]

Hey, so... it sounds like he said some really hurtful things. I mean, jeez. Maybe he doesn't get how hurtful it was, but he should. I'd say, if you can, tell him how much it hurt and see what he tries to do. If he seems sincere, tries to better himself and make you feel better, great, but you should still be careful around him and be aware in case he continues--and if he takes it like a douche, if you tell him that was hurtful and he says something like 'you can't take a joke' or 'crybaby' or anything similar then please just don't listen to him.

by the way, positive vibes is a wonderful kik name and i don't see why he'd be annoyed by that. maybe he was feeling grouchy. erk.

[brendaaaa]

he said he was annoyed earlier and I told him that I'll talk to him later and he said it was fine. but I already tell him how I feel and its like he doesn't really care so I don't know.

[GlamFelix]

Well, if he doesn't care how you feel--I mean, him saying it's 'fine' makes it seem like he thinks YOU should be apologizing to HIM. He's saying 'its fine, I was annoyed earlier' so you just dismiss what he said. If he hasn't actually apologized, it sounds like either he's too stubborn to, or he thinks you don't care or that your feelings don't matter.

[brendaaaa]

ever since we stopped having sex or talking sexual he's been acting like this. I already confronted him before and he didn't really say anything about it. I don't feel like he's using me for sex but I can't tell.

[GlamFelix]

well, I wouldn't say he's using you for sex, especially if you haven't done anything sexual lately.
But it could be that you two are growing apart and this relationship isn't working. He maybe has changed, as have you, and he's realizing he doesn't know how to deal with that. I have a very close friend (or had, actually) when I was younger, and I loved her, and she loved me I mean we were BEST friends. Never anything romantic or sexual, but we were basically sbilings. But as we both got older we sort of grew apart and even though we still are friends we need to be apart, not see each other as often or we get really annoyed with each other. Neither of us truly dislike the other, but it's hard for us to spend a lot of time around each other. That might be what this is.

[brendaaaa]

probably. I'm keep in my. distance though.

[Anonymous]

If everything you really do annoys him which isn't very likely considering he is your blyfriend then I would talk to him about it and if he wants you to change your entire personality then you should probably break up but being a guy I have said plenty of things like this that have offended girls and I didn't realize it because I might have been just joking or something guys are really simple and most guys wouldn't seriously say something like that and mean it unless you have him a reason

[Zendrya]

You guys don't sound like you are going to last

[brendaaaa]

I didn't ask if you thought we would last. but thanks for your pointless opinion.

[Zendrya]

Actually you didn't really ask anything to be honest. You just stated a bunch of stuff so I gave my opinion based off of the situation so you're welcome.

[brendaaaa]

Um, clearly there's a question in that paragraph. You probably skeemed through it too fast that you missed it.

[Zendrya]

"So should I just stop all together?" I read it I just thought it was rhetorical because it seemed obvious. If your boyfriend is this big of an asshat you should dump him.

[brendaaaa]

okay thnk you. :)

[fNorbert]

Find someone who actuall enjoys spending time in you're company.

[kc13owl]

Good advice :)

[sexyphil]

Just don't test back. As he said bye then call his bluff...

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Maybe someone is fucking around on his phone.

You should talk to him about it instead of making assumptions. If he's giving weird answers THEN you can assume he's weird and drop him.

[brendaaaa]

no one was on his phone. it was him.

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Nice to know you're so sure about that. You saw him type it out on the phone, right?

You can still ask him in person instead of conducting this texting stuff. But if you want to continue acting like a scared little girl go right ahead.

[brendaaaa]

I'm reporting you

[rakul]

from how much time you are in relationship with her?