Today is Sunday, and on Thursday we made plans for Friday and Saturday. He had to go to a city about 50 minutes out on Saturday morning and invited me. We were both rather excited and planned things to do on top of that. I was to go stay with him Friday night so we could leave at about 9am. He was going to go camping with friends on Saturday night and get a ride there.
Well he was told that their older friend needed help with building a green house on Friday (at 10am) and I was fine. But then it got to be 7 pm and I waited all day to hear from him...and when I did, he said that he ran into the person we were going to see Saturday and there was no need to go. And that angered me because I knew instantly that we now had no plans and he was trying to stay with his friend Friday and Saturday. When I made my anger at that known, he said if I "really want to" he could go home and just leave with them really early in the morning. Which was bull. But When I tried to make the situation not so loppsided to his favor...he said "Whatever, bye." And has not said anything since.
He knows I dislike being ignored, I don't think I was wrong to be mad about being completely thrown aside...but yet he ignores me. Shouldn't that be the other way around? Why does he ignore me when I am mad at him...or even frustrated?
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