myTakes: Relationships

Commitment in an unlabelled relationship. Is it possible?

I’ll be honest, when I met my man, and we agreed to not being in a relationship but seeing where it goes and having fun along the way, I thought that this arrangement might last a few months and we would either decide it...
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This is how you will find you inner peace in LOVE and stop being tired of never ending patterns.

After being cheated on and lied to few times, I've learnt my lesson that FUTURE IS NOT WORTH IT BY WORRYING ABOUT whether my partner will be forever or not. It takes two to ride that journey. What is meant to happen will...
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The fatality of long distance relationships (5 things you should know)

This MyTake may not be liked for obvious reasons, related to the pandemic. I must say it's tough for me to publish it and question everything I felt during a LDR (Long Distance Relationship) I experienced myself, however...
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Why All Women Are Manipulative Liars

First of all, you might be wondering if the title to this mytake is "clickbait". The answer is ABSOLUTELY. Of course not all women are liars. I am sure any woman reading this is an exception to the rule. But I would argue...
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If you have to question your relationship: you already know the answer

I see a lot of questions on this site saying "Should I break up with them" In my opinion- you already know the answer...but you are just looking for validation for your opinion. Asking should you break up usually means...
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Men should NOT have to pay for everything in a relationship!

Introduction: Wow. I have not written one of these in a long time! Hope everyone is keeping well, despite the current world affairs! The reason why I am writing this myTake is because of what I see on social media. Even...
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Yes Gentlemen, you CAN apologize to women and still look masculine

Gentlemen, you have heard it before. When you fuck up and hurt a girl (Lover, Fuck Buddy, Friend) should you apologize? Or even when you feel you did nothing wrong yet she is angry, should you apologize? Most men beat...
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Solutions for Dealing with Bad Relationship and Sparkling Hope in Your Life

Hello @Girlsaskguys, I am glad to write this take after a long time because I got inspiration from one of my school friend. Letting go of a bad relationship can be complicated. 👫 In initial stage some people face...
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Why we shouldn't have the fear of growing old alone

Ideally we always wanted to have that kind of relationship that's on the picture. And that would really be nice. But should we really have that fear that maybe we will end up alone? There wouldn't be any other person who...
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Five Songs That Describe How I Felt In My First Serious Relationship

None of them are in any particular order. Just random songs that remind me of different feelings I had in my first serious relationship. Don't know why I'm sharing them. Enjoy though lol. Or don't, thanks for stopping by...
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Seven Additional Type of Woman I Wouldn't be Compatible with

Here's my sequel to "Type of 7 Woman I Wouldn't be Compatible with". If you are interested or have an open mind, I invite you to read it. 1. Career Driven Woman I don't date woman who isn't going to have much time for...
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A True Man's Love

The story of a guy whose love didn't know any Boundaries here it goes. Young Love The early friendship of the classmates In a college there are students the story revolves around a shy guy but talented and focused and...
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Stalkers. Have you ever had one?

I'd like to share with you my experience, but aside from that I am also curious what your experience is, if any: have you ever been stalked? Did (s)he cease? Has it ever come up to violence? How did you cope with it?...
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Tips to preserve your mental wellness and relationships during Covid-19

Before starting, I'd like to point out I'm not an expert, nor a medical official. But like all of you, I've been dealing with this situation for a while now, and like some of you, I'm dealing with the illness and its...
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Type of Woman I Wouldn't be Compatible With

Here are 7 types of Woman I Wouldn't be Compatible with if I was Ready to Date 1. Woman Who Cares About Financial-Well Being I view woman who cares about financial-well being as high maintenance. As a result, I prefer to...
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"Advice" Take It With A Grain Of Salt

I'm not saying it's wrong to get advice or opinions from someone ever. Sometimes, we all get confused with our thoughts, feelings and want to hear someone else's point of view. There's just some reasons why the best...
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Show connection and know the connection is real

show some connection to your love one : 1. Cultivate open communication * talk about anything ... Hope's, dreams , fears , etc * talk about y'all day * ask deep / tight questions * use humor and laughter ) 2. Observe and...
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Why I Prefer A Good Guy Over Bad Guys And Nice Guys

Shout out to the Anon who made the take "Why I'm Attracted To The Bad Guys." It gave me the idea to write this take in response. Click below if you want to check her take out. Here's the link: Why I'm attracted to the bad...
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Know your place in someone’s life

And you won’t get hurt! It has taken me some time to get this..why? Because I second guess myself. Always go with your gut! If a man (or woman) cares about you, values you, they will make you a priority. Not just with his...
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The Personal and Societal Benefits of Girls Taking the Initiative With Guys in Relationships

I've been thinking about this topic, having seen many questions which dance around this idea, and today I decided to write about it. What am I talking about? This idea that men are still the initiators when it comes to...
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