myTakes: Relationships
This is What Men Want Women to Bring to the Table
Oh no! It's another one of HawkPerception's takes! Any of you who have read my takes know they're generally controversial, but I think this one is a little more of a popular opinion and will hit home for most. I'm going...
Learn to Let Them Go
This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...
What matters more in a relationship — love or respect?
Love can bring two people together, but respect is what keeps them together. Without respect, love becomes fragile — it turns into control, jealousy, or misunderstanding. Respect means seeing your partner as an equal,...
Why we risk trust even after it’s been shattered
1. Because love doesn’t shut off like a switch Even after the betrayal, your heart remembers the laughter, the late-night talks, the way they once made you feel safe. Love holds on, even when it hurts. 2. Because hope is...
Before we get to the “yes” or the “no,” we need to take care of ourself.
Some people look for ultimatums (usually two) for their “stance” on love. Or relationships… as if it has to be DEFINITE. And Unmoving. Like a law. But us, as living, human beings, are constantly growing in more ways than...
Season finale… I hate what you did to us, but I truly loved you
https://www.youtube.com/embed/4fqwVBuunxY There’s a difference between loving someone and trusting them with the most fragile parts of you. I did both. I gave you all the pieces of who I was, carefully collected over...
Girls, If Women Say They Want a Nice Guy, Why Do So Many Ignore the Quiet Ones?
I’m not writing this to complain or ask for pity. I’m just laying out the reality, because most people have no idea what dating looks like from the perspective of a shy guy. And frankly, it’s nothing like the romantic...
Why It's Okay to Outgrow People You Once Loved
We don’t talk enough about the grief that comes with growing up, especially someone we once loved. Maybe it was your best friend from your teenage years, a partner you were considering marrying, or a family member you no...
Do you really NEED closure?
"Closure" is a frequently used term but I'm not sure we all mean the same thing when we say it. For me, closure means hearing an explanation, having a a chance to ask questions and seek clarification, ending with no...
A situationship isn’t love, it’s emotional abuse in disguise…
We live in a time where “it’s complicated” has become a normal relationship status. Where casual hookups are expected, and commitment is seen as pressure. But there’s a painful truth underneath all the mixed signals and...
Learning not to get too emotionally attached
Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....
One of my biggest mistakes in life is thinking people will show me the same love l've shown them…
There’s a quiet kind of pain that comes from giving your heart to someone and realizing they’ll never give theirs back in the same way. It’s not loud or sudden like heartbreak in the movies. It builds slowly, in long...
It’s Not Me, It’s My Brain (Only Vibes Allowed)..
Human brains are wired for connection, but not universally. We don’t feel drawn to everyone equally, and for some of us, this selectivity feels especially intense or mysterious. It’s as if our brain is a filter, tuned to...
I Can’t Make You Love Me….
There is a kind of pain that doesn’t leave bruises, but it lingers beneath the surface like a storm you can’t escape. It’s the pain of loving someone with every corner of your heart, only to realize that their heart beats...
“You Deserve Someone Better”: The Nicest Way to Break a Heart?
The famous sentence we hear after a breakup: “You are so good… You deserve better.” It sounds good at first, right? You think the other person has your best interests at heart, that they deem you worthy of more than you...
Girls, HOUSE HUSBANDS are a thing apparently. Women are showing that they deem the householding capabilities of men as not all that bad
It's a reversal of roles from the traditional to the anti-traditional where the householder position is taken by men who would run the household devise the eating and cleaning schedules as well as cleaning and maintaining...
When the Story Ends, You Begin
A love story, no matter how it ends, leaves a lasting impression on the human soul. When it begins, it fills our lives with hope, connection, and the warmth of being seen. But when it ends, especially unexpectedly or...
The Strangers We Thought We Knew…
It’s a strange kind of heartbreak, the kind that doesn’t come from an enemy or a stranger, but from someone you once trusted. Someone whose name you whispered like a secret and whose laughter felt like home. We never...
On another love…all my tears have been used up…
Have you ever been exhausted by an old love? There is a particular kind of tired that love leaves behind, a quiet, aching fatigue that doesn’t roar like heartbreak, but lingers like a shadow. It’s not the devastation of a...
How Girls Can Build Healthy Relationships
We all want to have a healthy relationship, but sometimes it can be difficult, especially when our lives get complicated. Whether it’s with our partner, friends, or family, we all deserve relationships that make us feel...
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