What screams: I'm in a toxic relationship

[EmyyWolf]

I’ve never been in a relationship thank god

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But from what I see with my friends and families relationships. Is that, one individual. Either the male or the female. Seems to be in the leadership position. One of them has leverage. One of them is the one that makes all the rules, and gives orders. One of them makes most of their decisions. And yes I’ve seen both male and female do this.

Where it looks like the female has the man on a leash. And she “emasculates” him. Or the opposite, the man gets away with almost anything cause he’s the breadwinner. He brings home all the money. And he generally cheats on his wife. Or he beats her.

But generally from what I keep seeing, is that one of them definitely takes on the Leader Position. And it looks unhealthy on both sides.

I prefer one where a man leads, but respects his wife. Cause it’s in male nature to lead. And the woman can dominate him if he needs to be dominated. Men have more testosterone so they tend to think less with emotion, it’s why I’d rather have my male lead.

[SotiCoto]

I'm a literalist... so it isn't toxic unless chemical poisons are involved.

[Anonymous]

Disrespect lack of empathy and no concern for the person they are with

[LaurenM1997]

Going hot and cold and then cheating on me 🙄

[EmyyWolf]

Damn sorry to hear that. Was he hot?

[LaurenM1997]

He was but then he cheated on me and then he broke my heart

[EmyyWolf]

Yeah hot guys don’t stick around. The hotter one has leverage. Female or Male.
I guess it’s best to procreate with the hot one and make a lesser male feed his baby

[LaurenM1997]

True

[joeND]

Happened with JFK. His wife said I will never marry a looker again (she meant good looking man)

[joeND]

i cheated mildly not in relationships but strip bars, massage happy ending, when I told her, she smacked me hard many times. She ordered me to my knees for a beating. sounds harsh but it worked still married, after she stopped, I could tell she was about to leave, so I offered to make changes. letting her know my whereabouts always , She comes with me everywhere. when I see inseparable couples i wonder if he cheated too. I am into being a sub , I showed her how to be a dom. this lifestyle doesn't work for many , but it saved my marriage. If we didn't do sub/dom. I wouldn't have come up with aa solution to regain trust. It feels like prison often but its not , staying here, saved my family and big bucks in a divorce and dating scene there are some user losers out there. god said 1 love 1 marriage II go by that. If you find a sub man there are plenty of us you will be married for life, because he will obey. best if both obey.

[joeND]

Girls have called me hot and i stayed.

[EmyyWolf]

@joeND
Dude if you’re hideous, I don’t give a shit if you get a happy ending or not. B—CH , wtf? 😆
Chances are that I’m cheating on you first , DA Fuck

[VABGinger]

I’ve been in two (both my own fault tbh). Both of them started off great and they were nice, open, and always did everything for me - like overwhelmingly nice. After the first month or two they started “changing” little by little - like eliminating one good thing after another until I almost felt dependent upon them for my happiness.

In order for me to get those previous things, I had to almost give into their current wants and needs - like they fed off of me. Anyway, red-flags would def be codependency on them for happiness (and having to go overboard to get it), sudden mood swings, and definitely controlling the little things in your life (how you talk, who you go out with, etc.).

[EmyyWolf]

Sounds like narcissist

[VABGinger]

You’re probably not wrong :-/

[Inbox]

Ah, EmmyWolf, it appears you've crawled out from under your rock of irrelevance once again to grace us with your pearls of wisdom. You know, speaking of irrelevant things, I heard that Yoda himself took one look at you and exclaimed, "A bigger waste of space, I have never seen!" Now, regarding your question about whether you're in a toxic relationship, let me put it this way: if they were smart, they wouldn't touch you with a ten-foot pole dipped in bleach. But then again, considering your fondness for talking about never being in a relationship thank god, I highly doubt intelligence is something you possess in abundance. As for your non existent dating life, well, I guess someone has to settle for bottom-of-the-barrel companionship like yours. It's just too bad they didn't realize sooner that hanging out with a misandrist chicken fucker would only bring down her own stock. Maybe next time they'll choose their friends more wisely.

[EmyyWolf]

More Star Wars? Ok nerd. Tell that to your 6 girlfriends that you actually have.

🤣🤣🤣
They’re totally not imaginary, nahhhh

[Inbox]

Yes, I'll be sure to tell all those "Chads" that are after you that you were so desperate to get laid that you crawled up a chicken's ass

[EmyyWolf]

I heard you’re girlfriends names are
Index finger,
Thumb,
Middle finger,
Pinky Finger,
Ring Finger,
Hand,
& Lotion,
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah now I believe you have 6 girlfriends

[Inbox]

Don't worry about naming them. I don't have any expectation that a knuckle-dragging fuckwit will be precise in her linguistic abilities.

[EmyyWolf]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆
Oh no!! You forgot to add another Yoda quote

[Inbox]

Is this your best? You must have been the girl who sued her parents for child abuse after they made her look in the mirror

[Inbox]

Your family tree must be a circle HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[Ecologygirl76]

Anytime a coworker can't hang out or do things with his coworkers because his wife or girlfriend can't come or needs him at home or doesn't want him going anywhere without her

[joeND]

As a sub or masochist I'd love to be the guy on a leash above. was a slave 30 years until it stopped. grew tired of giving oral not getting it.

[EmyyWolf]

Well that’s what happens to men of shit genetic/ unappealing

[Jennz6]

I’m always being dominated and whipped

[Liketotry]

@Jennz6 I won’t hurt you darling