What do you consider as cheating in a romantic relationship?

[Anonymous]

Do you consider any of these as cheating if your partner did them?

• Flirting with someone other than you
• Looking at porn
• Spending time alone with their ex who is still their friend
• Emotional intimacy (if yes, how do you define it? Is sharing information about ones childhood count as being emotionally intimate?)

[avery58]

All of the above except porn I guess, but that doesn't mean I'm comfortable with him watching it just that I wouldn't necessarily consider it cheating

[Asker]

How would feel if he watched porn?

[Asker]

*would you feel

[Asker]

Is there anything not on the list that you consider as cheating?

[Asker]

How do you define emotional intimacy?

[Nikki1989]

Only looking at porn. The rest is not a big deal.

[Asker]

Why do you consider looking at porn as cheating? Please explain.

[DrPepper12]

Time with ex is a little sus but a lot depends on specifics. The rest isn't cheating.

[Anonymous]

The rest isn’t cheating but the heartbreak is spending time with their ex

[Anonymous]

Anything you can pay for.