Guys like sloppy head... how to make it slopp lol?

[Anonymous]

Please don't laugh or judge me but I've recently became sexually active and I'm kinda lacking in the oral department and j feel bad because my guy is the truth at it. Whenever I go down I have a hard time getting his penis wet. I do spit on it but just a little because I feel a little embarrassed just spitting on him. I'm shy to but i love him and want to please him. I'll be giving him oral then stop because my jaws will start hurting & then he'll guide my hands to jerk him off. I know practice makes perfect but the next time I want to get so sloppy he won't know what happened. Please please give me tips... yes I watched some porn as well. I want it to be messy but sexy, what should I say? I know I should make eye contact. What else can I do while doing him to turn him on even more. Do guys like it when you spit on it?

[Hidden_P]

Woah okay.

SOME guys like spit. Others don't.

Top tip for when you start: fill your mouth with spit. Don't swallow, just suck your teeth/cheeks in 3 times. You will feel the spit come. Then go down on him.

While you are doing it, don't continuously "suck" him. You're not a vacuum. Go between gently going up and down with an open mouth (allowing your spit to go down) and with occasional sucks. The sucks at random moments will heighten pleasure/ make it less predictable.

If you're mouth is getting tired "come up for air" and open your mouth, keep your tongue out and mix up between loops round his tip with your tongue, flicking the tip with your tongue, a gentle suck on the tip with your tongue and going from his balls/base (whichever he likes) to the tip with only your tongue. Having your mouth open will release more saliva so when you do take him in your mouth again, it's a fresh "wetness"

Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Hidden_P]

You're welcome. I'm self taught with blowjobs but had many happy endings of "baby stop" moments so I assume I'm reasonable at it

[kaylaS91]

If your mouth is dry, keep a glass of water within arm's reach. Make sure to take a big mouthful (of water) right before you start giving him head, and don't feel shy or bad about drinking more if your mouth dries up.

Other than that, your mouth should naturally start producing more saliva whenever you have something, so in this case his dick, in your mouth. Granted that you were staying hydrated throughout the day and have a cup of water nearby, you should be fine.

[Anonymous]

Yes if you combine that with dirty talk and lick it up and down. You want to act like his personal slut basically. Here can you check out my take and comment on it please?

It's about a woman who has sex with two guys. Basically it'll help you understand also how to give sloppy head. And can you help me out on who the woman is trying to impress more and care for? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30669-do-women-have-dirtier-sex-with-guys-who-don-t-care-about-them-what

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the mho. I hope you find my answer helpful. If you want to discuss more, or role-play it to know you're excelling at being sloppy, you can pm me, just post and let me know

[Anonymous]

Some guys like romantic intimate oral.

Some uh... Don't.

Assuming he likes it dirtier, spitting is hot. You being a little embarassed is hot. If your jaw is tired rest it by jerking him while you kiss or lick his balls.

Girls in porn who are making a huge mess are doing it by deep throating which triggers a bunch of saliva/ mucus.

[NJ_Casanova]

Lots of spit/saliva.

[teawrecks]

Deep throat him.

[Hidden_P]

Don't do this. If you are too dry in the mouth and neither of you prepared it will make you gag (Tbf gagging usually happens with deep throat) but the dry throat will be uncomfortable for both and may result in you being sick. Don't just plunge in.

[teawrecks]

@Hidden_P deep throating has always made my mouth more wet than it was to begin with so I don't know where you went wrong

[Hidden_P]

For me deep throwing when dry just makes me gag and automatically be sick. It makes me feel like fingers down my throat. I'm not just plunging in, if anything you are. I'm saying not everyone has the natural wet gag reflex you have. Some us don't naturally get wet from gagging. Some vomit. But please - plunge in.

[neoagent1]

Lots of spit is fine with me. I love the sounds made when a girl is sucking it and there's lots of spit involved. I also like the look of if you pull your mouth off of a line of hanging spit between my cock and her mouth.

[you_asked]

As long as you are playing with my penis I'm happy
Do your own technique

[Anonymous]

Drink a lot of water first or anything else that will make sure you're well-hydrated. For me, spitting on it isn't that important as long as she has a lot of saliva in her mouth to create natural lubrication. Something else that turns me on a lot is if she plays with my balls by lightly stroking or cupping them while my penis is in her mouth.

[Anonymous]

Yes the spit is lubricant