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Why do some guys not wear condoms?

Ok so I met this guy he seemed nice. Anyway he was telling me about his last relationship.. and the reason why they broke up was because he got the girl pregnant and she had an abortion. And in my head I was like damn... that's deep. Any way got to know the guy started seeing him a bit more. And got to a point where we got intimate and he didn't want to use a condom... I'm a little confused because he got the girl pregnant and still didn't learn the lesson. After having sex a couple weeks I was scared I didn't get my period but got my period :) but anyway so I confronted him about and said that isn't right and he goes there's nothing for you to worry about I just want to know Wtf is wrong with this guy? Because he tells me he loves me he thought that night was special and to be honest after that night I felt a feeling for him but I stay away from him because basically it's weirding me out lol... I haven't seen him since can someone explain this guy for me?
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Oh by the way left out information I hadn't had further sex with him becauae of that night because felt uncomfortable was only one time that night. So I'm not having and further intimacy with him
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Most Helpful Guys

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  • It could be because he prefers the sensation when he doesn't use a condom. Or it could be that he's a real dickhead and wants to get girls pregnant. Or it could be that he's thick and thinks he'll just never get a girl pregnant by pure luck.

    The reality is that for many couples, it's actually hard to conceive. However, having sex just once without a condom could get you pregnant. So if ever anyone ever says that he doesn't want to use a condom again, remember that you could end up pregnant.

    The female body does have natural cycles and some women feel confident enough to have sex without a condom at certain times of the month, but that is for you to research and learn about if it's a chance you want to take.

    Also, condoms don't just prevent pregnancy, they stop STIs. You should get yourself checked - he clearly has slept with a number of women without condoms and so could well be carrying about any number of horrible infections and diseases down there!

    • very true I'll definely get checked ! just to get a good sense I'm pretty sure I dont have any thing the only thing I ever had problems was because I sprayed my fem beauty thing to close and got irrated but nothing bad down there I always check to see if anything wrong but I'm definitely going to just to be safe

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  • Somehow I get the feeling this guy is on a roll to get a girl pregnant thinking it will seal the deal and keep them together. Starving for love in plain English! When the last chick had the abortion he moved on. Probably best thing ever for that chick because this kind of guy will continue to be never satisfied and can only guess what he would be thinking if he ever did get someone pregnant and she decided to keep the baby, and become a couple. I'm betting he would be very domineering and jealous creating other problems. Seems like a guy to dump ASAP!

  • Some guys prefer the feeling of sex without a condom. He may have just assumed you were on birth control.

    For the future, either get him to use a condom, or get on birth control pills.

    Also, I would get checked out at the sexual health clinic. The fact that he didn't use a condom with his past girlfriend (and god knows who else) is a red flag and it's important to make sure you haven't picked up anything from him.

    • True thanks for understanding never happened to me before thought it was weird so had to dip

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  • Some guys say it's because it feels better without the condom, which I heard is very true. That is most likely his reasoning.

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  • His way of acting does not make sense. He is very unresponsible and you are stupid for letting him have his way. What's next? Another abortion?

  • it could be that he gets limp (soft) when he uses a condom and doesn't want to be embarrased if that happens infront of the girl

  • bc sex with condoms sux and I can't get wet

  • since the condom has been invented men have always said it takes away most of the sensation of intercourse. i would always use a condom even though its not as pleasurable as without. if your worried ablut getting pregnant there is a such thing as a female condom. a female condome fits inside your vagina. i would try using one see how it feels inside you

  • You should be asking what's wrong with you you're the one letting a guy fuck you without a condom and nut in you.

  • Guess some guys are turned on by paying child support and getting STDs.

  • Some dudes are so addicted to the feeling of hitting pussy raw, that they take that unnecessary risk. :-/

  • that's like asking why aren't you wearing your raincoat in the shower, it actually feels good without one, and I can support a child so yolo

  • Thell him you have an STD.

    • edit: tell*

    • lol just to scare him!

  • Birth control

  • Because he doesn't care. If you get pregnant he will leave and he feels like it won't be his problem. Another name for that would be a douche bag.

  • cause some people feel nothing without a condom and don´t really care for getting her pregnant or getting stds xD

  • 1. He's a dumbass.
    2. You are responsible if anything happens when you have sex. Take on it or regret it later. No buts!
    3. It DOES - like people say - feel better without a condom but is it worth making someone pregnant? (For me, personally, the answer is no)

  • He wants the milk without the honey ( he just wants sex) he doesn't want real love but this is something you got to consider to ask yourself if this is what you want. Yes it's deep stuff and sometimes things happen for the best so maybe your better off to know about him than to be left in the dark. Why he doesn't want use a condom cause he doesn't care he is selfish and doesn't care to
    protect the girl he is with.

  • Some people are idiots
    img.memecdn.com/...dont-use-a-condom_o_1070871.jpg

  • Birth Control? Seriously? We all learn this shit in school!

  • Of course its better without a condom but you have to be careful. Get tested.. etc.

    But he is a douche bag if ya ask me

  • No matter what anyone tells you, sex without condoms will always feel better than sex with condoms

  • The guy's a douche bag.

  • İt is a choice

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