Sexual fantasies?

[Anonymous]

Question is for men and women: Have you ever secretly pretended you were having sex with someone other than the person you're actually having sex with? Is this normal or weird?

[redeyemindtricks]

ahah my husband and I have had a few "affairs" ... with EACH OTHER.
<3

We've totally gone all out. Packed secret outfits in the car... reserved seedy motel rooms (or more classy hotel rooms and "met" at the hotel bar)... "secretly" checked each other's messages in the bathroom... ahha I've totally even let a couple of my girlfriends think I was actually fucking around, for a couple of hours, before I gave the game away to them. (:

We get pretty nasty together, too, when we have these little "affairs" of ours.
He usually doesn't even kiss me -- he really plays that whole thing up to the max ("Bitch, you wanna kiss, go kiss yr *husband*... With ME, yr mouth is only good for one thing").

Oh, and, I get off HARD on talking endless shit to him... lol.
I'm already a relentless tease anyway -- see here:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1947176-how-do-you-foreplay
... but in these situations I just amp that up even more. "So, you like fucking *married* women?" "What do you REALLY want to do to yr *wife*, boy?" "Yeah, I'll be yr *wife* for tonight..."

It's hard to explain, but, I get off REALLY hard on talking an endless stream of shit about "his wife", and about how I'm gna fuck *so* much better than her, and about how I just *know* he wants to hurt her and make her cry... holy shit so hottt. Because I'm on BOTH ends of that dirty talk. <3

At the end, when we're all done, and exhausted, and my makeup is ruined, and I'm a mess of sweat and tears and rumpled clothes... I'll ride his face one more time, just to make sure he smells thoroughly like ME, especially his mouth -- and then I'll kiss him on the cheek, and tell him in my absolute sweetest voice, "Now go home, take that mouth, and kiss yr *wife* for me." Then the door slams and I'm gone.
Walk of shame... but, I don't fucking care. It just turns me on even more -- knowing what everyone is assuming about me, and how wrong they all are.
<3
mmmmmhhhhh so ridiculously hot... #fuckyeahmarriedlife

[Smmyskittles]

Fuck. I'm writing this down.

[CheerGirl38139]

@Smmyskittles hahaha I was just think the same thing. #ForFutureReference

[redeyemindtricks]

@Smmyskittles @cheergirl38139 Srsly... it's fucking hot. People who have actual affairs are stupid (above and beyond being morally bankrupt and weak)... because actual affairs don't let you play both sides of scrimmage, like that. I mean... the sheer satisfaction of being a bitch like that, AND feeling that simulated hit in the heart at the same time (which still *feels* as real as it gets)? So amazinggggg Given all the fantasies I have involving humiliation, too -- AND the fact that I'm hard on myself in a way in not hard on anyone else, which amps that up even more -- it's like quadruple bonus points for me. __ Also, if either of you two is with a boy who's on the fence about marriage (for all the understandable reasons), but you're in that game to win it -- Start playing games like this one, and watch his attitude change FAST. "Wife" has an intensity that NOTHING else has. (Try mentally replaying this with "girlfriend". See how lame it is.) Serious commitment is hot as fuck.

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[redeyemindtricks]

Tx for the MHLuv <3

[XRabbitHeartX]

I'm too focused on my boyfriend to care about anything or anyone else. However, I don't think it's abnormal per say although I would try my best to focus on my partner as I'd want him to do the same certainly.

[Mydnite]

yeah i have, it's very common, if you think that's weird, i've had thoughts i was with someone of a different sex while doing it!

[Asker]

Why do you think we do it? Is it because we're not really that attracted to the person we're with, or because we're pervs?

[Mydnite]

different people have different reasons. It depends on things, if it's just a hookup or if you are in love with the person makes a big difference probably. Some people just want to spice things up if they are bored with being with the same person for so long, sometimes it can be harmless fun, other times, there's an underlying problem in the relationship if it is one. Basically various reasons...

[blutwolfe]

do you mean like actual people? saw some of your replies it sounds like you ment roleplaying, which infact is my fav, unless you mean actual people, then not really or else I'd be with that person and not her

[Asker]

I don't consider actors "actual" people because for the most of us they're unattainable. As for people that you know or work with I think that would be like cheating.

[AustinMan]

Of course. I feel like most everyone has. It's perfectly normal.

[Junlian]

Not really. When I'm having sex with my partner that's who I'm Fuckn.

[MrMysteryMan]

Not when I'm with the person, no. When I'm having sex with someone, I'm only thinking about them.

[Belgie]

Of course - it's normal.

[abc3643]

It's commonplace. However during the sex act I only think about my partner.

[Scrambledagain]

Yip. It's awsome. My girl lets me watch porn sometimes while she finishes me off.

[anonman32]

Nope can't say i have.

[sexcrazy12]

yes I have, not too unusual

[Anonymous]

I've never done that personally, but I think it's quite normal.

And it's kind of hot to think of a girl doing that.

[Asker]

Really? Would you enjoy it if your woman told you she was pretending you were someone else? Would you play along?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd enjoy that for sure. I basically get off on girls doing anything that is naughty/'slutty'/taboo. Not sure about playing along.. what exactly would that consist of for you?

[Asker]

Like if she said she wanted to pretend you were a pirate - would you talk like a pirate (naughty pirate)?

[Opinion Owner]

A pirate... lol. I couldn't keep a straight face while doing that, so I'll say no haha.

[Asker]

Ok. how about she wanted to pretend you were a famous person? Would you let her call you by his name or would that offend you?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd try that, it's not something I've done before, bit I'd give it a go if it would work for her.

[Asker]

Would you want her to do the same for you? If so, who would you want her to be?

[Opinion Owner]

Na, it wouldn't do anything for me.

[Anonymous]

isn't that a form of cheating?

[Asker]

I don't feel that it's cheating If you're not actually having sex with someone else. If a couple did sexual role play wearing costumes - pretending to be other people it's not cheating, so what harm is it to fantasize secretly?

[Opinion Owner]

oh, i mean like, if it's a celebrity or someone you think you'd never actually meet (btw, I've met celebrities before), then yeah, that's ok, we all have celebrity crush's, butttt if you're like fantasizing about someone you see everyday, like a friend or a friend of his etc.. then, don't you think that's a form of cheating, and having to ask yourself some questions about?

[Asker]

Definitely celebs. Persons you would most likely never have a real chance with. Or sometimes just a type of person like a pirate or something.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah, that's fine, again, as long as you're not actually meeting them

[Anonymous]

Nobody with a name. I run composite images in my mind to keep things moving if i can't get over the top.

[Anonymous]

Yes its been happening so much lately