Does sex cloud your judgement too early in a relationship?

If you had sex too early in a relationship, do you feel like it clouds your judgement? Can you just be in love with the sex and not really the person? What do you think?
Yes, I believe that it clouds judgement and it's not real love
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No, I Do Not believe that it clouds judgement and you're just falling for the person
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  • Definitely. If the sex is really good, some people will totally overlook and ignore unacceptable habits and patterns the person has outside of the bedroom because they don't want to jeopardize not getting the good sex. People will become so enthusiastic and eager to explore someone sexually that they look up after three months and realize they don't know as much about that person as they should after being in someone's life for months. Sex becomes the glue of the relationship which makes it possible for another man or woman to sneak in and make a stronger mental and emotional intimate bond/emotional affairs are more likely.

  • Since sex is all I want it doesn't cloud anything. I'm up front about only wanting sex before my panties come off and I spread my legs. Guys can have as much pussy as they desire just don't expect me to fall in love with them.

    • You are a real stand-up woman.

  • I think it's possible it could cloud someone's judgement, and this could happen at any point in the relationship.

  • 110% the feels feel too damn good, good judgement shudnt b absent but definitely clouded

Most Helpful Guys

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  • Sex can be used in two different ways: (1) see how much he likes you afterward, and (2) don't do it at all, don't give him any hope it will happen, then see how much he likes you.
    Infatuation lasts long enough to procreate. If you cannot rationally explain why you love them then it's infatuation.

    • Nice answer.

    • This is probably one of the best answers yet. So what if you ask somebody why do they love you and they say that they don't know? Infatuation?

    • Typically, yes. Men are rational and should be able to come up with concrete answers for that question.

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  • Well sex isn't true love. It's not love at all. It's a way to express it. Or a way to have fun (if it works) that has nothing to do with love. Does it cloud judgment? Probably.

  • it does for me and so i avoid having sex early in relationships to keep a clear head about my feelings

    • At least you can admit that. Most people won't.

  • Yes. Happened to me.

  • Invited A but I'd phrase it more Ike it CAN cloud your judgement and it MAY not be real love.

  • Yes it's very likely to cloud your judgement, that's why it's better to know each other first, and decide if it's really worth it, also lust and lore and/or respect is not the same.

    • Wouldn't you need lust and desire before it gets to the stage of love yet?

    • Yes men tend to place much value on woman's ability to be attractive to them and to the woman's ability to sexually please them, but it's don't mean that some other things about the woman is not important to us when it's about serious relationship, and men usually find it much easier to have sex with someone who they don't love, but 'only' lust, so trying to get the men through sex is not always an good idea. I believe that to love a woman, a man need to like her not only on a sexual level, also I don't think that it's would be mainly about love and/or lust, there is more important thing then that, that is called compatibility, in the long run, it's very important, if you base relationship only on love or last, it's hard for it to hold for an long run, when the love or last might get weaker. I know what I am looking for in a girl, even without feeling anything for her.

  • I guess it depends on the situation and the people involved.

    For some, it might cloud their judgment and make them see things that aren't really there.

    For others, it can reveal some very real, very important truths.

  • "Relationships."

  • no. in my opinion sex creates a stronger bond, because it completes the love for couples. because sex and love go together, obviously. unless the other person is a player than its not love to begin with.

    • But what if the relationship starts off on sex?

    • not saying it can't happen that way, but you'll end up with a player if you dont have love and commitment first. thats why its important to get to know someone first, plus it depends on the type of guys you go for too. and girls tend to ignore the real nice guys, who are the clingy type that girls get annoyed with, but tend to only notice the players. because girls think guys have to approach and do everything. and mostly players do that.

  • Possibly. That's why I want to get to know the person and make sure I love them first before getting to other things.

  • You do need to look at the person and forget the sex, say to yourself, if you ignore the sex, could you fall in love with this person?
    Good sex can be had from lots of people, male or female, love is another matter entirely!

    • Agreed.

  • I'd say it doesn't *always* cloud judgement, but more often than not, is absolutely does.

  • For many people yes, sex does cloud their judgment.

    I have never personally heard of a "dramatic relationship", that was completely celibate.

    #ThinkAboutIt

    • Usually celibate relationships lead to marriage.

  • You may be more interested in sex than in a relationship. That's why you are ready to jump into sex so early in your relationship.

  • 90% possible.

  • Yes, obviously! Things are twisting and getting hot.

  • i do not believe that sex can completely blind a person

  • It CAN cloud your judgement - that does not mean it WILL. It is up to the person to be aware of this possibility and make their assessments and decisions accordingly.

  • potentially yes but not necessarily.

  • casual sex = insta degrade for a woman

  • Sex seems like the main thing in relationships these days

    • You think that's a bad thing?

    • Yes, Because if the sex is bad the guy will lose interest in the girl and go searching elsewhere

    • Hmm... sounds accurate.

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