Would you have sex with a pregnant girl?

I'm 4 months pregnant and recently started dating this guy (he knew I was pregnant before asking me out, and no he isn't the dad) everything is going well, but recently he made a move on me... in a sexual way.

I feel kind of weird having sex with a guy who's not the father of my baby while pregnant... but it doesn't seem to bother him.

Am I being overly dramatic here?
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  • If sex is enjoyable for you - there is no harm in having sex while you are pregnant. There are many positions which help enjoying sex during pregnancy without hurting baby in the womb. There is no chance that sperms of your new boyfriend enter the baby or get you pregnant for second baby while you are caring. Enjoy it - if you both agree and have trust for each other.

  • I love having sex with pregnant girls they're extremely sexy. There's no reason you shouldn't have sex, you're pregnant not dead. I know women who've remained sexually active till their water broke, one was getting nailed when her's broke.

    As long as it doesn't bother him that you're pregnant and he's not the daddy then enjoy yourself.

    • I'm usually pretty open when it comes to things regarding sex but having sex with a pregnant girl that isn't your wife just seems morally wrong.

    • @QuestionMan But she's not married and the daddy is out of the picture. What's she supposed to do? Grow old alone?

    • Maybe try and start a family with the father of the child.

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  • If you want to then do it.

    If you don't want to then don't do it.

    There is nothing wrong with sex during a pregnancy, even with a man who isn't the father, in fact sex is actually good for the baby. I can't remember where I read that though, so I can't link you to it.

  • don't think you know like guys should be having sex with a girl you know if she's like pregnant, because they could hurt the baby and that's not kewl.

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  • For your first question yes i would love to have sex with a prego and drink her milk and...*cough*. You must know if he is really into you or just here cause you're already knock up and can't be again so he is taking advantage of you and being overly dramatic isn't that bad especially when you're pregnant so be careful

  • It's your body but it won't hurt the baby. If it makes you uncomfortable, talk to him about it in a calm, direct, matter of fact way.

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

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  • I personally wouldn't be able to do it. Imagine your mom told you she had sex with another men while she was pregnant with you. I bet you wouldn't like that thought either... Always live by the golden rule!

  • I know I personally couldn't date a person already pregnant let alone fuck them.

  • I wouldn't have a problem with it.

  • I guess I can see why it would feel weird to you; I'm not sure if it would bother me or not. There's a lot of variables at play. *shrugs* But I'm weird.

  • You can do whatever you want but to the average listener it sounds trashy. If I were in your situation I'd take 9 months off from dating. Sex got you into this situation to begin with..

    • I got pregnant from a friends with benefits not a boyfriend or anything. There are no emotional ties and we've agreed to coparent. I don't see why I can't date.

    • You absolutely can but people are going to think what they're going to think.

    • I don't care. I'm just asking peoples opinions.

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  • I would stay away from a pregnant girl.

  • if she's not mine. hell no.

  • There are actually guys that find pregnant women more attractive, myself among them, so the answer to your question is "absolutely."

  • If it's not my child then hell no. I hate how so many women try to lure nice guys into raising their child who they made with a deadbeat boyfriend.

    • Whoa that's not what I'm trying to do at all. A friends with benefits got me pregnant and we've agreed to co-parent. But there's no chemistry between us, we could never be a couple

    • Hooking up got you having an unplanned baby in the first place. And now you are back at it again. That's not a lifestyle you would want to show your child anyway.

    • I'm already pregnant. So it's not going to get me pregnant for the second time or anything. I'm also human and I have human needs. I want my child to know that sex is a basic necessity for life, so it doesn't really bother me if he/she knows that I "hooked up" a lot. A significant amount of people do... so.

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  • i would get tested before i go inside but generally no. i would have to have known her already.

    and in the first place i dont mess with prego

  • If I were you i wouldn't date during your pregnancy due to the fact that you don't need any emotional stresses which dating can bring.

    • I think I'm good with continuing to date.

    • Just take care of you and your baby though 😆

  • Sounds low class.

    I feel like he has a pregnancy fetish.

    • See that's my fear. I might call it quits with him.

  • You choose to have sex with who you want. He should respect you too
    if anything you need to be Loved more than anything. Yes i would date a
    pregnant girl and not be the babies daddy. I would only have sex if the girl
    wanted to do it and strong emotional enough to have sex.

  • Is she pregnant with my baby?

    If no then NAH

  • i would do a girl that pregnant any day any time she wants

    • Lose weight first

    • @Popo21 what r u talking about i dont even weigh 180 lbs but thanks for trying

  • sexiest thing ever having sex with a woman carrying your child

    • Well... that's the thing. It's not his child.

    • still pregnant women are sexy

  • Some guys have the fetish to do it with pregnant girls.
    He may be really horny for it. Just make sure you don't get hurt.

  • Until about 8.5 months then leave.

  • If it was my wife, yeah

  • I've done it... kind of a turn on. Do what ever your comfortable doing. If it's not gonna work out with the dad then you gotta move on and live your life.

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