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How to know if he wants a blowjob?

Me and the guy I'm dating have had sex and both of us have given oral to each other, him more to me then me more to him. However, most times we have sex, he usually focuses on satisfying me first and then himself, and he never makes me give him a blowjob and doesn't really bring it up either. It seems like we both feel really satisfied in the end, even if he went down on me and I never really touched his dick. I've heard about lots of guys always wanting blowjobs and never giving oral, but he almost always gives oral, and rarely asks for a blowjob! I feel so bad, and I keep waiting for him to ask for one or give me the opportunity to make him happy, but it never comes. And it's not like we don't talk about it. Sometimes I text him some innuendoes and say that i'm thinking of sucking on his dick to get some dirty vibes going, but when we actually meet and get to do the deed, he always initiates and leads the entire time, which I really like and have no problem with, but then I don't know when to bring up sucking his dick, cause I feel like that's something he would most likely initiate if he wanted it.. :/ Also, there were times when he would get undressed and I would stare at his package to admire and also show him i'm interested in sucking if he wants that, but he just brings my head back up and says, "my eyes are up here" LOL.. And then I feel like maybe I shouldn't worry about it? What do you guys think?
And when I have given him a blowjob he has said I was really good, but he usually likes to do it while 69'ing, cause he doesn't want to not be able to have fun too
Aaaannndd, I have asked him if there is anything I could do to please him better in bed, and he said he likes gentle touching all over his body (like he does for me), and he likes to be sucked gently too, which I didn't know before. I have been doing the gentle touching for sure, just never got to try the other one yet!
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  • If he likes it during 69, try that some more. It could just be that he enjoys sex more than getting a blowjob. I wouldn't worry about it too much. If he really wanted it, he'd let you do it more.

    On the other hand, if you really want to do it, but he doesn't seem receptive, just ask him about it. Or you can always fall back on 69...

  • Just tell him, "Me first!" and go down on him like there's no tomorrow.

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  • You lucky dog! #mydiamondshoesaretootight

  • I don't really care about blowjobs and never ask for them... I know that most girls only do it for their partners pleasure and are uncomfortable doing it, so I'd rather not ask for one... If the girl automatically leads to that, I'm not stopping her... I enjoy it... I eat pussy though... And I love it...

  • Why do you have to wait for him to specifically ask for it?
    Just tell him it's your turn and do it.

  • If he has a pulse, he wants his dick in your mouth.

    • he knows

  • You are a very lucky young lady, to have found a good unselfish lover. But there is nothing wrong in you sometimes taking charge, and initiating sex fun activities.
    Just tell him you want him to lie back and enjoy you playing with him for a change!

  • some guys just get the most pleasure out of statisfying a girl. I mean, its not hard for us to orgasm, usually guys start cumming with an early age and do it all the time. All they want is to finally statisfy a girl ;) To me, it gives me much more pleasure to statisfy and lick a girl too, then getting pleasure myself. You dont have to feel bad for that, I'm sure he really likes it that way

  • He always wants a blowjob 😂

  • Getting my dick sucked is like breathing. He's been holding his breath for a long time. Give him mouth to mouth, or mouth to dick as it were.

  • Looks like a decent guy. Tie his hands to the post. Give him a bj of a lifetime. Take control. Spice up your sex life.

  • If you want to blow him, just blow him. Almost all guys LOVE BJ's.

  • If he is breathing he wants one

    • You won the Internet today

    • @LNRkikka lol, gotta keep it real with people

  • He wants one, you know because his heart is beating, as long as he is alive and breathing he wants you to suck his dick, you will never get told no

  • Next time you could simply initiate by going on top and give him a hand and over power him?

  • Just ask him

  • Most guys want head but there are some that care less about it, maybe he just wants things to last longer with you so he doesn't let you finish him off that way

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