How do I deal with my horny bf?

Question

i've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months, it's begin in the 1st month we're dating.. he started to rub all over my body, and teasing me with his hands and tongue. its tempting. at first it was amazing.. but it wasn't amazing anymore when he ask for more. sex, or anal.
we do anal sometimes, but its really really hurt, and it take days to reducing the pain.
i dont want it anymore, but he always ask for it. and we do anal cause i'm not ready to lose my virginity yet.
i'm trying to tell him that i dont want it anymore..
but he seems mad, and so badmood. we weren't talk for 2 days because of it..
but in the other side i love him very much and dont want to lose him.
but i dont like it, i hate it when he start to ask me again... and again..
he always want it..
i want to stop.
anyone, please help me.
how to tell him without he getting upset, or something like that.
im 18 he's 18.
-sorry for bad English, im not a native speaker-
ps. i'm not live in a liberal country, and people in my country are so fucking judgmental.

tigertiger · Accepted Answer

My ex was from middle eastern country n I used to do anal with her because she wasn't prepared for front sex because of virginity. I think he needs to foreplay with u a lot n use lots of lube n finger u to get u prepared. He shouldn't have anal with you if u can't handle. May be regular fingering n licking the ass help u to open up a bit n relax n may be then u can try anal. Also it's common to have some pain in the ass hole for 5 days or so after anal. That's normal. It's just because you are not used to it n your ass hole is stretching. After regularly doing it you won't get pain much. Just pleasure. But must take your time. He should be patient. Discuss with him.

Downing5m · Accepted Answer

Honey!! Your happiness needs to come first!!! And your comfert!
You need to prepaid yourself for the idea that he is not going to like your decision and then you need to tell him what you are feeling. pleasure is the key to sex and if he is not pleasuring you then you need to slow him down and mix it up a little. Maybe tray fingering in front and oral... Expeireminte with lube... Expeireminte with positions...
And if he doesn't like it then honey YOU ARE worth more!!! And he can get LOST!!! ;)
Hope this helps!!

AnaWryneck · Accepted Answer

You got fucked in the ass you're not a Virgin yet that out your head you just happen to have a hymen but gotta break it to you it counts and if you don't want to fuck any more don't if he leaves you he's a waste of your time you will get over it

carolann1920 · Accepted Answer

I had a problem like that with boyfriend until I took him to a clinic in Paris and had him castrated

SpurtLover · Answer

Why don't you just suck his dick for him? And let him cum in your mouth? I feels better than fucking a girl in the ass and you won't get pregnant or lose your virginity from eating his sperm. Try it and see if he likes that.

FroggyDoggy96 · Answer

Short answer: you're gonna have to politely express your concern with him, no other smart way around it.

Intraluminal · Answer

The truth is that you need to make a decision. Is this relationship worth the pain of have anal sex, because there is no way that he will accept your decision gracefully.

There's no justification for having sex that is unpleasant for you. If you cannot learn to enjoy it, then you shouldn't be doing it. That said, there are things you can do to be able to enjoy anal sex, if he's willing to help you.

bunanababa · Answer

tell him as much as you love him you don't enjoy it and it hurts a lot. if he still mad after that then fuck him in the ass to show him how it feels

Prochto · Answer

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NotoriousTripper · Answer

Tell him the truth. You go through immense pain for his pleasures and if he can't understand that, then he doesn't truly love you. If you're not enjoying something, stop doing it right there.

NajemEddine · Answer

either have sex or tell him u can't its unfair for him to wait for u

Ovidiu-Nicolae · Answer

Give him food that lowers libido :))) Talk about other guys :))) I was once online and I did tell a girl about that and she actually talked about a male and cut all my thoughts,

CT_CD · Answer

He should break up with you.

Elliot0_07 · Answer

So what? Are you going to deny him anal because you dislike it and vaginal bc you want to stay virgin? He should dump you or cheat on you.  You have to satisfy him sexualy, even if it hurts.