i love oral sex, active and passive (cunnilingus and BJ). For me that is an important part of my sexuality. A woman not into it, will most probably not share my other liking either.
#1 Date - meet for Coffee, get to know each other a little, flirt, if at all kiss.
#2 Date - go to a club, or restaurant or theatre or cinema..., if I can't get into her bedroom, respectively get her into mine, then there is no third
# 3 Date - share some daylight activity - sports, sailing for example or something similar
- never needed a fourth date, before declaring things "official" or ending things, before these get too tense.
If a woman wants to impress you with how good of a fuck she is she will suck your cock the first time. If she does not want to suck my cock I have found these women are not into it. If they eventually will suck my cock they are not very good at it as their heart is not into it. It is more of a feeling of obligation to them. And I will not stay with this type of woman for very long as having my cock sucked is as much of the sexual relationship as me sucking her pussy and fucking. For me it is a personal preference.
Sage advise
Of course more, i don't think you should just JUMP into BJ or any sexual in the first few dates, if you want to have a healthy relationship, and BE SURE that that IS THE REAL GUY, you should just get to know him better.
And trust me, whatever you do AFTERWARDS, and im talking AFTER MANY DATES, sex is going to feel WAY better.
P. s. ALL NUDE ;)
i've given them on the 1st but probably the most on the 3rd date but how it works is when you make out passionately a blowjob will come... i'd rather give a blowjob on a 1st to 10th date anyway and i'm not really embarassed by it if it happens on a 1st date or not and it does happen often.
I actually give a 1st date blowjob while in my dress or skirt i don't want to send out mixed singles but i always dress sexy for my dates so i'm in something short and skimpy. I'm very open about giving a blowjob but more conservative when it comes to coitus sex and i won't do that until i'm sure we're 1 on 1 and that he's not dating others or is currently seeking others while he's seeing me
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I have received oral sex on a first date and I have been with women who never gave me oral sex.
General rules or averages give you no clue as to how any particular woman will respond. Some follow the "three date rule," some have heard of it but don't follow it, and some have never even heard of it.
Thanks - that's what this poll is trying to display graphically
Until we are exclusive and officially boyfriend/girlfriend
My buddy was a serial dater before landing his girlfriend this year. When he was going on dates he usually got a BJ or sex on the first date (the women were late 20's<40yr olds).
I am all for waiting for sex as long as it takes for her to be okay with it. But I would hope that in the meantime we could do a little bit of foreplay.
But I don't have a set number of dates for blowjobs.
most guys make me deepthroat on first date
You are into deepthroating questions for some reason? UK dates are really that aggressive? Wouldn't UK gals be afraid to go out with strangers then if forced?
its just me cos I'm really flirty not the whole country
"make me" does this mean you offer a BJ then during it they force a deepthroat?
I've had casual blowjobs with girls I had only met hours earlier, and I've had to wait months before a girl would even consider it. Obviously, I prefer the former..
Lol the differences in results between guys and girls.
So who's sucking all these dicks?
hahahaha
Usually I got sex on #3 before BJ sometime after like #5 or so BUT
once this blind date with ooohlala gave HJ on #1 ... just a tangent, thought you''d like to know
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Why put a number on it? It happens when/if it happens.
one, if that.
Like a tootsie roll pop, 1,2,3...3 🦉 🍭
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i don't see why not on the first or second date, i'll go down on a girl even if its a one night stand
This is really random. Can be 1 up to never.
I don't try it before
no offers? not your cup of tea?
0 90 percent of mine were not even dates... nor did I even like or care for them tbh
half
Interesting response soooo what does it take to pull your trigger and get a BJ 1/2 way through a first date? Dining, how hot the guy, few drinks, what?
I'm guy, we got connected in just few minutes n we both were touching each other.. we left dinner n went to park at night n started.. I lower my pant n she removed her top...
Gotta love that India, and I thought Aussies were the fastest on the sex track
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