How do I know if I'm good at blowjobs?

Question

My boyfriend tells me I am - but we can't believe everything we're told, right? 🙄
Anyway he says things like "fuck me babe" and says my name a lot during, as well as moaning.. a lot. All things that indicate that he's enjoying it.. But anyway he ends up having to finish himself off. Not sure if this is because I'm not doing it how he likes or if because we have sex around 5 times a night and 90% of the time I give him a blow job AFTER having sex all day, as oppose to when I first get with him.. if that makes sense? Anyway, opinions?

RahulTandon · Accepted Answer

See I don't know how to explain this...

in short, don't overthink this. Its always hard to satisfy the complete physical needs of a partner. Not because you are doing it wrong. It because the hand knows how to handle the penis better, because its the guy's own mind+hand combination. Moreover he is 'used to' your blowjobs. Mean while you can learn more techniques from youtube or internet. But mostly don't overthink it.
And wow i love your sex drive. Introduce me to some girl like you. :)

nevermoregirl7 · Accepted Answer

I only had this problem with one guy, and it was because he was my first boyfriend. Then there was this guy I could only get off with blowjobs, and my current boyfriends says he loves them because I am sloppy and tear up.

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

That's normal and expected so long as he's stroking his cock and cumming into your mouth for you to enjoy swallowing and not walking off and doing it somewhere else. :)

pooper89 · Accepted Answer

Girl why are you even concerned? He's lucky you even want to do it

MarieLovesIt · Answer

It's simple, ask him.

sovetskii13 · Answer

If he asks for them then you're good.

mikereno · Answer

Guys are all different, and some can't cum from oral, and some from sex. Ask him how he likes to be pleased. It's all about communication! That's the key to the magic

Baumber · Answer

you're probably good, but if you're having sex that many times a day then you must be pretty sore

Browneye57 · Answer

I think you've been watching too much porn. [shrug]

Skadouchebag · Answer

"because we have sex around 5 times a night and 90% of the time I give him a blow job AFTER having sex all day, as oppose to when I first get with him" ^^THIS is the reason.

Bilo007 · Answer

blowjobs are like food. on one hand you can eat boiled chicken and brocoli and be satisfied

OR

You can a sizzling juicy steak with mashed potatoes and gravy and be satidfied

which of the 2 was better?

Daynada · Answer

If he says you are then you are

neoagent1 · Answer

If you give him oral AFTER you've had sex and he's cum already that day you're going to have a harder time making him cum. Of course it will still feel good.