How can I enjoy cervix hitting?

[Viranda]

For some women, cervix hitting is something we kind of have to live with as we almost always experiment it on sex.

Has any of you learned to enjoy it, to feel pleasure from it? How?

[kaylaS91]

I'm pretty sure there's no way of learning how to enjoy a searing pain. I mean, that's like saying there's a way/any sense in learning how to enjoy being stabbed or just dealing with period cramps.
Just voice to your partner what positions/angles are most likely to hit your cervix and cause pain, and work together to simply avoid them altogether.

[Viranda]

He hits my cervix in all of them xD I really want to stop just telling him I can't continue anymore. Our sex life is funny, as he isn't the one with erection or eyaculation problems, but it's me the one who can't last too long being fucked.

[kaylaS91]

.. seriously? ALL of them? That'd be really weird as the cervix is located in just on region relative to the vaginal canal. It's not going all around or anything like that so that's next to impossible that he hits your cervix in doggy, cowgirl, AND missionary. All of which would involve his dick hitting different regions at varying angles as well. Is it possible that the pain you're experiencing is the result of your not being sufficiently lubricated?

[Viranda]

Okay, not all of them. But wait, he does hit in in both doggy and missionary xD The only two he doesn't are spoon and cowgirl. I just want to enjoy cervix hitting to enjoy sex in every possible way. It is not, we've even tried using lub and, altought it helps a lot, he still hits me if he gets it all the way in.

[kaylaS91]

hm okay umm... do keep in mind that your cervix shifts in how high/low it sits in respect to the vaginal canal throughout your menstrual cycle. So at certain points (usually closer to your period starting), it'll be much more painful and less bearable than at other times that are closer to ovulation. So other than planning your sessions to occur more frequently around when you're due to ovulate and less frequently/not as deep or aggressively closer to menstruation, there's not much you can do rather than simply agree that you'll put up with the immense pain during each session because you've decided that admitting that your cervix being hit and causing pain like it would in every single woman, is too shameful to express to your partner.

[Viranda]

Well, he knows it. And he says it's okay. But I don't think it's okay, neither for him, nor for me, because our sex sesions can't last too long before I can't stand anymore. Thank you for the menstuation cycle advide. I'm going to pay more attention to that.

[nala_rawr]

i LOVE the feeling. i didn't do anyting to make myself like it, i have just always enjoyed it. it hurts good. just make sure ur breathing, and if u need to move or reposition urself, then do it. if u need to start slow, then move faster, just make sure ur letting ur partner kno what u need and want.

[Mr-chocolate]

I have heard this several times so what do u mean about it hurts good or it is a good hurt?🤔

[nala_rawr]

@Mr-chocolate it means that it hurts and feels good at the same time.

[SarahsSummer]

I can't say I enjoy it but I've come to tolerate it to some extent. My boyfriend used to complain that I didn't do doggie right because I always arched my back up to try and prevent it hitting. Now we've found positions that work for both of us to minimize the cervix slam.

[Viranda]

Yhea, same problem with the doggy style xD So, did you mentalize your self on any way, or did you just started tolerating it because of practice?

[SarahsSummer]

It doesn't happen all that often anymore but I guest you could say I just deal with it because of the practice and it's not ongoing for too long before we switch positions.

[Tammy94]

I don't think that's learnable. Anyway I have never learned to like it.

If you are in a face to face position, then keep your legs somewhat straight to keep him from hitting your cervix. If you are in a rear entry position, bend your legs to achieve the same thing.

[Viranda]

That sounds like a good way for some positions. Thanks.

[LastNightmare]

Have you tried standing n spooning. these are most neglected sex positions but best for cervix hitting

[Viranda]

Yes, in those and cowgirl, it doesn't happen, but I want to be able of enjoying any position and sex in any possible way.

[LastNightmare]

try standing and rolling babe. It will relax your pussy a lot

[Viranda]

Standing and rolling? As positions?

[LastNightmare]

yeah babe... Those positions are best when comes to hurting cervix.. it gives much depth to thrust cock

[Viranda]

"Yes, in those and cowgirl, it doesn't happen, but I want to be able of enjoying any position and sex in any possible way."

[ShaunaM95]

I haven't so far 😞 it's still hurts to this day. I try to just have sex in positions that my boyfriend can't go too deep during.

[Viranda]

I know, right? I also try that, but I just can't stand not being able to do it in doggy style as I love that one too much. I can't live like this, I need to enjoy every way and position :(

[ShaunaM95]

I know it's really annoying! I usually do just grin and beat it for most positions but I have found it doesn't hurt as much as it did in the beginning. It sucks having a low cervix 😞

[SteppingOnRoses]

Listen, this may be due to something, like an infection or another condition you have but you dont know about.

You should consider going to the gynecologist to find out. He/She may be able to solve your problem. And it's nothing to be ashamed of. Better than always being in pain for wanting to have sex with your SO.

[melanieeeB]

Well I like it, it does hurt a little, but it's good, it does make me gasp always and yeah I don't mind, it's a good pain and not that much painful to be honest, but I do have a high pain tolerance, don't know if it has to do something with that, but yeah haha

[Viranda]

Have you always been able to tolerate it?

[melanieeeB]

Yeah , I remember the first time he hit it haha I was so shocked and was so weirded out and this fucking asshole stopped in that moment, he was all in, the whole thing and he just stopped for a few secs, I was soooo weirded out haha but yeah it kind of was always like this

[melanieeeB]

it doesn't hurt that much, your question and some answers was so confusing haha because I never experienced it that way

[Viranda]

Yhea, it's not exactly pain in my case either, but some unconfortable unstandable sensation. I think I agree that it has to do with the pain tolerance capacity.

[melanieeeB]

Yeah could be, or maybe I'm just so aroused and turned on that I don't even feel it from that point of view... I really don't know

[BillieJean1070]

Cervix bumping is annoying.

[genericname85]

hitting the cervix is not really a pleasant feeling for any girl. try positions that let him slide to the posterior or anterior fornix area, this way it´s not painfull and can in fact feel really good. try to find a good penetration angle for that.

[Shaft50]

I know that some women have a C-spot, that can induce orgasms when stimulated...

[xKirito]

How long of a penis does it take to hit your girls's cervix?

[Viranda]

My boyfriend is 6.2 inches but he doesn't get it all in yet hits it. This has actually been a problem I had with any guy I've been with more than three times.

[xKirito]

Oh ok soo mhmmm thank you but I don't know how to help you like it.

[Viranda]

How sad :(

[xKirito]

I'm sorry...

[bigbackcan]

best erect penis length 5 to 6 inch. more or less it's little problem ;)

[Viranda]

So, should I get a new boyfriend with a shorter penis? xD

[bigbackcan]

haha you don't doggy style or when missionary positions your legs up and open ;)

[sexcrazy12]

I do not know from a girls point of view, but I love deep penetration and hitting the cervix. it feels amazing. and the girls I have done it to have awesome climaxes as well

[shondoctor]

from experience : Tell the guy to go slow. after the intial pain it starts to feel better. work up to it at your pace not his. Then you have some serious orgasms.

[Anonymous]

I like it, I have cervical orgasms.

[Viranda]

Have you always liked it?

[Anonymous]

Help me to understand?

[Viranda]

During intercourse, the top of the penis hits my the end of my vagina, and that's something that kind of hurts. I want to learn to enjoy it because I've tried to stop getting it hit but it's just impossible. I just want to enjoy sex completly, instead of having to always do it in a position just to not suffer.

[Opinion Owner]

So if he's too long it hurts? Try you on top controls how deep the thrusting goes. Would anal be a thought?

[Viranda]

Yes, if it's too long it hurts, of course. I don't really want to try other positions, I want to enjoy every position. I've tried anal and I don't like it.

[Opinion Owner]

Guess you either better find what your limits are and let your lover be aware. If that doesn't work and you want to keep the guy around, perhaps having his penis cut to your comfortable length. It couldnt be as painful as what you have been through. lt can be done. (John Bobbitt wife cut his whole penis off when he cheated, and tossed it.