I was sexually abused by my father, and other men, and was forced to learn to deep throat. Unfortunately, the way I was taught won't give you any relief. When my father would make me suck him, he would often make me practice deep throating: he would make me go down until I started gagging, then I could come up. Then I had to repeat. He would make me do this 5 times, 8 time 10 times, 12 times, whatever number he felt like throwing out. After that, we would go back to "normal" BJs and sex. I too would have tears running down my face and a stuffy nose; and my throat would be sore from the abuse. It took a few weeks, but gradually I took more and more of him in until I was finally able to take all 7.5 inches of him without gagging, not even a little. You responded to another poster that you couldn't breathe through your nose with him down your throat; this is very true, it's because the epiglotis has to close against your nasal passage in order to allow the man's cock down your throat. However, prior to taking the man's cock all the way in, you can still breathe through your nose, and coming up a little, just enough so you can breathe through your nose again, will allow you to stay down on your man without having to take him out of your mouth to breathe. And that's always a good thing, from his point of view. I know, I now enjoy frequent BJs from my wife. I recovered from my abuse experience and it has been over 15 years since I had sex with a man, though I still consider myself bisexual and still willing to have sex with a man again, if I wasn't married or I became unfaithful.
Anyway, first of all let me tell you that it's mostly a mental things. I've been with countless girls that couldn't deep throat - after just a little bit of practice, they hand no problem getting it all in. It was more of a mental barrier. You believe you "can't", so you're actually blocking yourself. Froget about those limiting beliefs. Get them out of your head. They won't help you at all to be honest. What you need is - to completely believe that you can easily deep throat - imagine yourself as someone who can easily do it. This mindset will help you on your road to mastery.
So - how do you make progress? Step - by - step. That's how. Inch by inch, step by step, chunk by chunk. Tell him not to even try forcing it deeper into your mouth, forcing it won't help. Try not to think of your gag reflex, try pushing his penis sideways. You can learn more advanced stuff from Jack's Blowjob Lessons. But I can tell you what I know after watching dozens of girls master deep throating - with willpower. And it was fun, after some time, it was cool for them to know that they can get in "such a big thing". That's part of the show - loving it. You have to love giving head in order to get better at it.
Like the others said: Practice. That is what happens to bulimics, they mess with their gag reflex so much, that it starts to repress itself so they have to try harder to activate it. You can do that for this end (pun!).
However, if you can't do it, compensate with using your hand to massage the rest, and humming.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The other thing is: instead of trying to hold your breath, breathe through your nose. You'll have less anxiety that way.
BTW, if you still have your tonsils, you probably won't be able to deep throat, as your throat may not be open enough.
I doubt all sword swallowers removed their tonsils before becoming sword swallowers lol. And I can't breath through my nose because it's in my throat blocking the air from coming
This is something that some girls are blessed with whereas they can deep throat without difficulty. Try researching ways on controlling your gag reflex and try that. Also: Practise makes perfect so try to find something that you can practise on.
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