I hate my boobs, do guys like big areolas?

I'm a 23 year old, my boobs are not too small, but they're not big either (36B). They have big, brown areolas (I'm olive skinned). I haven't measured my areolas, but they look big and they're definitely bigger than the usually "ideal" areolas depicted everywhere... my boobs are also more in the smaller size range, and guys usually expect small breasts to have small areolas.

My nipples are about the size of a pencil eraser. But they only stand out when they're touched and stuff, otherwise they look kinda flat in the areola, the areolas also shrink and get wrinkly when you touch them. But I also don't like the shape of my boobs too much, they're kinda pointy, rounder in the bottom half, but overall kinda pointy. I really don't like them... they're so not like the boobs usually drool over.

Are there guys out there who find my type of breasts more attractive than those with tiny areolas? I've thought about surgery, but I'm afraid it could go wrong, plus I'd feel guilty about spending so much money on vanity issues.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • To be honest, if I had to pic, id pic smaller ones. Big ones don't bother me at all though. My girlfriends are pretty big (has D cups). I love everything about her, and wouldn't change a thing, to include her areolas. Yours are fine I'm sure sweety. If its a deal breaker for a guh, then he didn't deserve ya in the 1st place. If he loves you, he will love all of you. Be proud of your body the good and the flaws, its how god intended for you to look. I have things id like to change, but I'm proud of my body anyways. :-)

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What Guys Said 30

  • It is like any male preference, some of us will not like them, some of us will. In general, unless you are really overweight, men are far less judgmental on a girl's body than the girl is on it herself. Most men would be delighted to see any real breasts, instead p*rn. If you give a man access to your bosom, odds are, he will be a very grateful man. I've never known of a man who made it a requirement for a girl to take her bra off before asking her out on a first date.

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  • Shove your boobs with the big areolas into a man's face and he will show you just how much of a damn he gives about them! Never in all my years have I ever heard of a man rejecting a woman because of her boobs.

    Never

    Now go get your man and suffocate him with your chest! Think I'm kidding? Oh do try us

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  • Olive skin and big brown areolas? Don't tease me like that!

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  • Sounds pretty good to me!

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  • Pretty much what other people said. if a guy doesn't like you solely bcoz of how you look, then it's just not meant to be. each person has their own preferences, i'm sure there's someone (actually more than some-ONE) out there for you. i kno it's cliche' to tell you that you have to love yourself first before others love you. but it's true, those Buddhists got it right. *im not a Buddhist by the way nor a devotee of any other religion, just purely synical by nature* everyone has their own insecurities, believe me. i dont like being a short guy (5'6" at age 25 is short by norm, not like im a dwarf) but it's just the way i was born. so i accepted it, moved on and tried to better myself in other areas where i can change. if someone doesn't find me attractive due to my stature then it's NOTHING PERSONAL... i dont blame them nor blame myself. think about it... if all of us in the world want the same things all the time then we wouldn't be able to survive and evolve for this long. sure there is a golden standard set by the Greece regarding human aesthetics *i think it was PLATO who came up with it, can't remember, dont quote me on it* but nobody is that "perfect" and to each his own. you don't need surgery, you are far from being disfigured. plus look on the bright side, natural selection wise, your physical feature (that you dont like, will be your greatest weapon for evolution) will eliminate the mates who are not compatible to you. dont feel sorry, just embrace your differences and love them. they'll open up the door to a whole new experience. * i kno i type like a retard coz im lazy but trust me*

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What Girls Said 5

  • You're breasts are beautiful, just like mine and every other woman's on the planet.

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  • I have a feeling you are dating the wrong kind of guys if they are going to dump you over the size of your areolas. Get what I'm saying? It's a small thing, you're fine hun :)

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  • to be honest girls care about and have boobs on the mind more than guys do! all guys want are at least something to grab, nipples that when touched turns a girl on. which if you got boob surgery you would lose ALL feeling in your boobs so you would actually feel like you have no boobs. don't sound fun at all but its your choice.

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  • I'm kinda similar and I used to worry about it but guys seem to love them lol so you have nothing to worry about! :)

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  • i have them too I'm 34C and even though I have fair skin theyre quite brownish and large, but I've never gotten any complaints. ha ha don't worry. theyre fine =] I actually read up on them one time and it said that areolas evolved so that when babies are born and they automatically breast feed, because their eyes aren't developed much yet they can only see black and white they need the dark areolas to see the nipple so they can latch onto it to drink milk.

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