My boyfriend likes to talk about his penis size. help!

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I enjoy having sex with my boyfriend very much. He knows I have a vibrator but I only used it before I had a boyfriend and its broken too. He has been asking me to show it to him but I just feel kind of weird about it. He has even said he wants to use it on me. Durring sex I tell him how great he is but then he will say somehing like "its not really that big" and "i know it doenst compare to a vibrator" "i suppose its the motion in the ocean" and I continue to tell him how good he is. I wish he would just stop talking about his penis like that because I don't know what to say anymore. and no he doesn't have a huge p*rn star penis but I don't think it is nessesary to tell him that because I don't feel that his size is a problem and I am also not gonna lie to his face and tell him that he has a huge p*rn star penis when he and I both know what one of those looks like because we both have seen p*rn before. well, I have some condoms in my drawer and the other day I asked him to get one out and I had totally forgot that I put my vibrator in there,(I hadn't used it in a while!) and he saw a peak of it and I hurried and jumped up and tried to close the drawer. I feel embarrased by it but he says "damn! that thing is huge, how do you even fit that inside of you!? I can't compete with that!" and he had this extremely surprised look on his face, like he really couldn't belive that's what my vibrator looks like. and the last time we had sex I tell him how good he is and he says "you don't have to lie, a vibrator can do it exactly how you like it" i don't know what to say back to him when he says that.

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i feel like most of you commenters are just trying your best to be difficult and honestly have no expierence with relationships. I enjoy my boyfriends penis very much, I have told him this, and I have told you all this. I hate hearing him talk about his penis size and comparing it to vibrators, its just annoying and unpleasant and not even sexy, I just want him to shut up about it so that we can both continue to enjoy sex with each other. Like what does he expect me to do about

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it?, burn the damn thing? he would still be talking about vibrators and penis sizes. Its like he doesn't belives me when I tell him that I love f***ing him and it kind of makes me wonder if he really enjoys f***ing me sinse I'm still f***ing him and he can't seem to apreciate that.

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madhatters4 Master
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What may be a simple insecurity now will become wholly unattractive in the future so it's gotta be put to rest.

Summary:

1) Don't keep reminding him that the sex is good, You told him once that should be enough. Telling someone that was amazing is fine but don't feel like you have to say to stroke his ego, cause most people can sense when it's not genuine

2) Let him see the vibrator. Hiding it and keeping it away only deepens his insecurity

3) Tell him that you are 100% satisfied and he should try to not let his insecurities ruin what you feel like is a great thing

I'm not saying it's your fault in any way. It sounds like your guy has serious adequacy issues. Just have a conversation with him and say straight up, "Your penis size is great, if it wasn't I wouldn't be around. I understand our body's can lead to insecurity but you need to trust what I say."

He's got adequacy issues, not sure how people get over them, but it seems like being a little firm about your feelings may help

good luck!
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- Asker
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  this sounds like it could work. I'm just a little embarresd about the vibrators, I actually have 3 of them but he has only seen a glimpse of one of them and it had to be the biggest one. the larger one and the medium one both broke but the smallest one was my first one and it was also a lot cheaper and that one works but its damaged somehow so I thoght if I spent a little more money on one then it would work better but that wasn't the case. They all worked just as good but do not compar to a human
- G_GTom
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  "Your penis size is great, if it wasn't I wouldn't be around. I understand our body's can lead to insecurity but you need to trust what I say."
  
  Sounds like good advice, but YOU of all people should know otherwise. After all, you created this poll ( link ), which clearly shows a pattern of deception via white lies. So, how do guys know when it's a white and and when it isn't?
GreatnessPersonified Explorer
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You have to be serious and a little loud and say, "Stop with the insecurity bullsh*t." Tell him it's good enough for you, and you love it, and to stop being that( a p**** ) way, or else stop having sex.

It just grinds my gears because there is no reason to be insecure in such a situation. If you said to me, "GP, it's so big!" I'd say, "DAMN, RIGHT!" and keep it moving.
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sovetskii13 Master
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Tell him that no sized vibrator (or toy) can compare to an actual human thing like his. Skin always feels better to touch than whatever your vibrator is made of. Would he want to F with a tight fake p**** or a not so tight real p****? Obviously the real one.
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- Asker
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  yeah that's how I see see it lol
Joe-12345 Xper 1
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How big is the vibrator by the way?
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yaddayaddayadda02 Master
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Tell him...At least my vibrator doesn't whine like a bitch about its size.
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- madhatters4
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  haha
G_GTom Yoda
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Well, that depends. What's your preference? Seems like your vibrator is a good size, but your boyfriend is not.

Me, personally, I don't want to be with a woman who prefers a large penis. I don't care how low on the list it is for her.
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- Asker
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  i guess you have not been reading all the comments, I enjoy my boyfriends penis very much and I have no idea how to let him know this and I just do not like to hear him wine about vibrators and penis size especially durring sex because its just not pleasant and he is putting me in a position where I have no idea what else to say to him to prove to him that I enjoy having sex with him. I wish he would just shut up and enjoy sex with me.
- G_GTom
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  No, I've been with women and listened to women. Women say a lot of things. When women say they don't care, what they often mean is they don't care enough to make an issue out of it. When women say they love it, they mean they love it because it's attached to the guy they are with ( Kind of like convincing themselves of something ). Doesn't mean they didn't like the penis of some other better.
- G_GTom
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  There will always be guys who care about this. There will always be guys who don't care about this. And there will always be guys who are too stupid to notice.
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- Asker
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  well what do you suggest I do to show my man how much I love f***ing him? I feel like if he really can't appreciate the fact that I'm f***ing him and I love him then what am I to do? I want my man to appreciate me for me. And I've shwon him many ways that I love him and appreciate him and even if I never used another vibrator again it wouldn't be fair but he would still have his issue about penis size and would still be making me feel like I'm not good enough to get him to just enjoy sex
hannibal214 Xper 6
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there's nothing you can say to this insecure little man
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Anonymous
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Little d*** problems.. "Ah! stop, its hurting me" big d*** problems.
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Anonymous
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" Vibrators don't feel as good as the real thing, and until they do your penis will always be better, because it feels real, regardless of how thick it is."

Try that.

unless its a lie.

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- Asker
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  but honestly, it depends on what I am in the mood for. Sometimes it is nice to not have to be f***ing for hours getting all sweaty, tired, and messing up my hair. a vibrator would help me get my urges over with very quickly and I won't have to worry about not getting enough sleep when I have to be at work at 7am. When I'm with my boyfriend it can be very very fun trying a bunch of different freaky things, feeling his body which I crave and just bonding with him, things that a vibrator can't do
- Asker
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  i don't see how my vibrator is any different from when he jerks off
- Opinion Owner
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  "i don't see how my vibrator is any different from when he jerks off" Its completely different. It would be similar if he was masturbating to Asian p*rn and had tons of Asian mags lying everywhere and you weren't Asian. " feeling his body which I crave and just bonding with him, things that a vibrator can't do" You could try telling him that too.
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- Asker
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  it is not different. because just like he plays with himself, I can play with myself. Why is there a double standard? I'm not gonna get jealous because he wants to jerk off and watch p*rn so why should he feel jealous of my vibrator?
- Opinion Owner
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  Its different because how you do it. not that you do it. Its like the Asian p*rn example because he's getting off to something that isn't "you". if he's getting off to Asian p*rn and you're not Asian, well perhaps he should be dating Asians.
- Opinion Owner
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  If you WERE Asian, well then it would be fine.
- Asker
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  thats the stupidest example. I know for a fact he watches p*rn and jerks off. Just like when my vibrator was working, I would use that thing. Its the same thing. The way my body is made I have to insert something into my cooch such as a vibrator or a penis and the way his body is made he has to stick his penis into something such as a cooch or his hand. I just haven't fully introduced him to my vibrator yet and he hasn't showed me the p*rns he watches but wether or not if he watches Asians or midg
- Asker
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  or midgets I'm not gonna feel like I have to compete with that just like he shouldn't have to care so much if my vibrator is blue or purple big or small. And if he ever choose jerking off and p*rn over me then I would have a problem with him. But right now my only problem is the fact that he talks sh*t about his penis and then I have no idea what to do about his sh*t talking
- Asker
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  and also we have mutually masterbated each other, just without the p*rn and the vibrator.
- Opinion Owner
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  "And if he ever choose jerking off and p*rn over me then I would have a problem with him" Thats why its a problem. IF a man is jerking off to Asian p*rn and his girlfriend is not Asian, she has every right to feel and assume that he's going to dump her for an Asian girl. because obviously he likes Asians or he wouldn't be jerking it to them. He assumes that you obviously love thick penises or you wouldn't have a thick vibrator. And you're going to dump him for a guy with a thicker penis.
- Asker
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  no I'm not insecure like that. my boyfriend can watch wahtever kind of p*rn he wants to, he is just using it to get a nut off, and I know he has seen all types of p*rn, blacks, whites, asiasn, he has looked at some freakier stuff as have I but that does not mean I should be worried that he is going to leave me, I know I am a catch. I'm saying that if he spend more time jerking off and watching p*rn to the point where it affects our sex life and we are not having sex at all then I would be upset
- Asker
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  why would I be in a relationship with a guy that I can't enjoy f***ing?, and I enjoy f***ing him, I love his penis more than my vibrator and I know he loves me more than f***ing his hand while watching p*rn
- Opinion Owner
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  The bottom line is he's afraid that you are going to leave him for another guy who has a thicker **** because you have a thick vibrator. Thats the issue.
- Asker
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  if my boyfriend was unhappy with the color of my skin then he would have gone into a relationship with a girl of a different ethnicity, and if I only wanted a guy because of his penis resembles my vibrator then I wouldn't be f***ing my man
- Asker
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  well I need him to stop being afraid and insecure because what else does he want me to do? stay in the house for the rest of my life to prove to him that I'm not trying to leave him for another guy. He is just putting me in an uncomfortable position.
- Opinion Owner
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  "f my boyfriend was unhappy with the color of my skin then he would have gone into a relationship with a girl of a different ethnicity, " Not necessarily. Most people settle for partners they don't even prefer. And how does he know you aren't cheating on him or planning to dump him when you find a guy with a thicker penis?
- Opinion Owner
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  you know what might be a good gesture, is to throw away the vibrator in front of him in his garbage (at his house) and then buy a smaller one at a p*rn store together that is actually smaller or the same size as his penis. If size is not an issue then this should not bother you.
- Asker
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  my boyfriend already knew what he was getting into before we got into a relationship, he actually chased me for a while and I made him have to prove to me that he was relationship material. He could have been chasing any other girl but he agreed to be my man and if my boyfriend is constantly sitting around thinking I'm gonna leave him and not trusting me then our relationship would be a waste and that is not what I want.
- Asker
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  thats like me telling him that he can never watch the p*rns of his choice. I also have no intentions of buying another vibrator, those things are pricey and my small one and my large one both broke, he has just only had a glimse of my large one. You really think buying a new vibrator that is smaller is gonna make him not think I am gonna leave him for a guy with a larger penis. His insecurities lies within himself, not within my vibrator. I want him to just enjoy sex and stop worrying.
- Opinion Owner
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  "thats like me telling him that he can never watch the p*rns of his choice." If size is not an issue then why does it matter? If you are concerned about price, go dutch on one. "You really think buying a new vibrator that is smaller is gonna make him not think I am gonna leave him for a guy with a larger penis." It tells him that you are at least pretending or making a legit effort to be with him. (either way its a good gesture) The vibrator is the cause of the concern, the insecurity is his.
- Asker
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  how am I not making an effort to be with him just because I have a vibrator. I love my boyfriend deeply and am very much comitted to him, I tell him everything, he knows that I don't even have many friends and he knows who all of them are. We tell each other everything and spend so much time with each other. I even cooked for him and I wrote him a song and performed it, how could he not belive that I am comitted to him? If he can not appreciate my efforts then he does not deserve to be with me.
- Asker
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  i feel like you really have no idea what you are talking about. Insecurities are a big relationship killer and I don't want to feel like I can't be myself just because my man is insecure for no reason at all. I shouldn't have to change who I am for any man, I want to be loved and accepted for who I am and if I wanted to try out different vibrators when I was single as opposed to sleeping with different men, then my man should understand that and be glad that I am f***ing him and no one else.
- Opinion Owner
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  "how am I not making an effort to be with him just because I have a vibrator." Some of the efforts you are talking about have different weight to a man than you think. Let me tell you this right now. ANYTHING regarding sex (or sex related) is the most important thing. You could do a BILLION things for a man, and NONE of them would even come close to adding up to what sex or sex related things are to men.
- Opinion Owner
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  This is not about changing who you are. " if I wanted to try out different vibrators when I was single as opposed to sleeping with different men" No men really give a crap about that. I don't think he does either. This is about him feeling that he's not enough for you. And the fact that the vibrator is bigger than him makes him worry that he's not enough for you and you are only settling for his thin penis until you either find someone else or cheat on him.
- Opinion Owner
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  Let me tell you this right now. Most men if they felt that a womans vagina was too big, and she didn't do anything about it? (there are things women can do) then most men would dump her. (ive been with women that I could fist and barely feel anything with my arm.- yes I dumped her.) So if men think this way, what makes you think that we don't automatically assume that women are going to do something similar?
- Asker
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  but the thing is, I don't feel that his penis is too small, he is the one who thinks it is too small, his penis is perfect for me. you are missing my whole question. MY MAN IS ALL THE MAN FOR ME BUT HE THINKS HE IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH HOW CAN I MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER. I HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF LEAVING HIM I JUST WNAT HIM TO STOP COMPLAINIG ABOUT HIS PENIS AND VIBRATORS, WHAT DO I DO? throwing away a vibrator and buying new ones is not gonna make him feel good about his penis, and in the long run if I al
- Asker
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  always get rid of things just because he is the one who is insecue then I'm not gonna be happy . if my dog made him feel sh*tty, then I should give up my dog?, if he stubs his toes on my table and curses it, then I should give up my table. If he feels sh*tty about his penis, then I can never have a broken vibrator in my drawer? This is one of hose things where he has to just get over it or there is nothing I can do so how do I help him get over it without it.
- Asker
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  turning me into a miserable person. I just want the both of us to end up happy but he is stressing me out with his unessesary insecurities.
- Opinion Owner
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  "he is the one who thinks it is too small, his penis is perfect for me" I Know. "hrowing away a vibrator and buying new ones is not gonna make him feel good about his penis," Throwing away a vibrator to buy a smaller one with him there to watch alone will not do it. BUT combined with saying the right things and being open with him, will. "if my dog made him feel sh*tty, then I should give up my dog?" Some people do. Its a common problem with people who are allergic to animals in relationships
- Opinion Owner
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  ", if he stubs his toes on my table and curses it, then I should give up my table" now you're being argumentative. "If he feels sh*tty about his penis, then I can never have a broken vibrator in my drawer?" Why is he going to feel bad about a vibrator that is smaller or the same size of his penis, when he's clearly stated that its the size of the vibrator that's the issue?
- Opinion Owner
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  " This is one of hose things where he has to just get over it or there is nothing I can do so how do I help him get over it without it." You know what I think? I think you don't want to give up that thicker vibrator even if he bought one for you. Because you like how thick it is. ALSO I don't think you want to do anything about it. You want him to just get over it and do nothing on your part to resolve it. Thats what I think.
- Opinion Owner
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  Both men and women get dumped over the size of their genitalia. Men probably more often than women I'm betting. Even though I've dumped a woman for being cavernous. This is a perfectly legitimate concern and for you to say its HIS problem is just wrong and inconsiderate.
- Opinion Owner
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  Its your job to make sure he understands that you don't care about his size. Its his job to believe it. Communication goes both ways and a relationship is about working together with issues and not just throwing all responsibilities for an issue on the other person.
- Opinion Owner
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  "even if I never used another vibrator again it wouldn't be fair but he would still have his issue about penis size and would still be making me feel like I'm not good enough to get him to just enjoy sex" This is what's called rehearsing negative outcomes in your head. Its never a good thing and promotes negative results to actually happen when if you didn't do it, they might not happen at all. Plus its an assumption. Ill tell you all the steps to resolve this.
- Opinion Owner
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  1. Throw away that vibrator in his trash, with him watching and goto the p*rn store together and pick out one together that is closer to his size or smaller. (split the bill) 2. Initiate sex more often. (proving to him that you like sex with him more) 3. Be honest with him about how a vibrator feels and how his penis feels. and talk with him about how his is better and how horny you are all the time and how you need to get off every day. (girls talking about how they need sex is good.-trust me)
- Asker
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  your answers are stupid, I specifically said I have 3 vibrators all different sizes, the large one which he saw, was broken and it did just a good of a job as the other 3. I love my boyfriends d*** it does exactly what I need it to doo. Insecure peole who result to trying to change everyone else inorder to make themselves feel good need therapist. If my boyfriend thought my hair was too pretty and that guys kept staring at me, then I should cut my hair off too just so that he won't think I'm tryin
- Opinion Owner
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  "Insecure peole who result to trying to change everyone else inorder to make themselves feel good need therapist." I suppose if he caught you making out with another guy and cupping his package and then grabbing his ass, is just fine because you aren't having sex with him so he should jsut stop being insecure and get therapy?
- Asker
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  trying to leave him. Insecurities are not a positive thing to have, they are things that a person needs to work on in order to learn how to love themselves, not try to adjust everyones else because in the end of the day a person would still be insecure. I take it you are a person with many insecurites and have yet to figure out how to get over them so you also think that being in control of someone else is the way to go about things. You should get over your insecurites and learn how to love you
- Opinion Owner
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  "If my boyfriend thought my hair was too pretty and that guys kept staring at me, then I should cut my hair off too just so that he won't think I'm tryin" Hey you get ridiculous and so will i. Thats ridiculous. Just go ahead and start giving handjobs to other men in front of him, its technically not SEX so he should just get over himself and stop being insecure about it.
- Asker
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  i have no intentions of leaving my boyfriend, and if he is constantly worried that his girlfriend is trying to leave him instead of being secure in himself, then he has no bussiness being in a relationship. and if you are one who goes into a relationship always thinking that your girlfriend is trying to leave you then you are insecure too and have no bussiness giving advice on how to be in a relationship
- Opinion Owner
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  "rying to leave him. Insecurities are not a positive thing to have, they are things that a person needs to work on in order to learn how to love themselves, not try to adjust everyones else because in the end of the day a person would still be insecure" No actually all emotions have their place. It's when they are misused and misappropriated. Evolutionarily speaking insecure thoughts was there to get the mates to do behavior to stop or prevent their partners from cheating
- Opinion Owner
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  "nd if he is constantly worried that his girlfriend is trying to leave him instead of being secure in himself, then he has no bussiness being in a relationship." Fine, if he's so horrible, dump him. He's never going to change and he's always going to be an insecure baby and since there's nothing you can do about it together as a couple to solve an issue that's bothering him, he obviously deserves to be alone.
- Asker
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  and because you feel you have to be insecure and controling of your partner instead of being trusting, loving and acepting that is why you don't have one, or that is why your partner is unhappy
- Opinion Owner
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  A relationship isn't about You do this and the other person does that and solves all their problems by themselves. Its about working together and handling each others issues. Its a partnership. With the kind of attitude placing all the blame on him, you're doomed for misery in relationships.
- Opinion Owner
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  I don't see how any of what I said would be controlling of the other person. Working together on both peoples issues is not controlling. ITs called a healthy relationship.
- Asker
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  yes and that is why I want to help my man get over his insecurites and I'm asking people online for the best way to do it, not leave him
- Asker
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  controling, manipulative = same thing
- Opinion Owner
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  Ive been married for 10 years thank you, and am a licensed therapist working at Relationship Counseling Center in Beverly Hills, So I think I know a bit of what I'm talking about.
- Opinion Owner
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  "controling, manipulative = same thing" Actually no, those are both different. But I digress. Working together is neither controlling nor manipulative.
- Opinion Owner
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  Most studies show that over 80% of all men are unhappy about their size. So women are either going to have to figure out ways to deal with that or try to find a guy in that 20% that are fine with it. Good luck with that since most women don't approach men for a date and therefore only get to choose from the men who approach them.
- Asker
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  you are an annoymous dude on a forum which gives you no creditability at all. Also, no therapist would suggest that manipulation is the best way to have a happy healthy relationship. You should learn how to feel secure about your penis and stop suggesting that a man should constantly suspect his woman of leaving him. My boyfriends penis is not small by the way and not once did I say it is. He is just insecure probably because he watches p*rn.
- Asker
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  dudes in p*rn have like 12in and bigger horse penises my boyfriends is probably a good 7, I never cared enough to pull out a ruller or anything but his is not too big for comfort and its not too small to the point where I can't feel anything. He pleasures me very well like I have said before. If his penis was any bigger then I would not be able to tollerate sex with him. I don't know about you but to most guys, being able to f*** a woman who can take a d*** and not just lie there is a good thing
- Asker
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  and if I am gonna take a d*** then it has to be of a comfortable size for me. I can't do oral on a huge d***, I can't ride a huge d***, I can't even lay there while a guy penetrates me if he has a jumbo d***, because it is uncomfortable and I know this from expierence. so now I have a boyfriend whom I enjoy f***ing very much but he wishes to have a jumbo d*** I guess?
- Opinion Owner
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  "no therapist would suggest that manipulation is the best way to have a happy healthy relationship." Thats right we wouldn't. Just because you keep saying it, doesn't make it so. "You should learn how to feel secure about your penis and stop suggesting that a man should constantly suspect his woman of leaving him" Placing blame on me isn't going to help your situation. And I never said a man should suspect a woman of leaving him. You are reading what you want to read, not what I'm saying.
- Opinion Owner
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  "He is just insecure probably because he watches p*rn." this is only one of many factors. Giant vibrators are another.
- Opinion Owner
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  "you are an annoymous dude on a forum which gives you no creditability at all." My credibility is not the issue. "A wise man can learn from a fool, but a fool can never learn from a wise man." Then there's the logical fallacy called "Appeal to authority" Authority A believes that P is true. Therefore, P is true. Which is just false. Basically stating, CREDENTIALS MEAN NOTHING.
- Asker
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  guys don't sit around comparing there d***s so probably the only time they see another d*** is in p*rn and of corse the girl in the p*rn is gonna act like she likes but that's her job. I'm not a p*rn star, I don't f*** like a p*rn star either, I don't want my boyfriend to be a p*rn star. I just want to enjoy sex with my man and I want him to enjoy sex with me and stop feeling insecure about penis sizse because he forwhat ever reason thinks all women want a p*rnstar d*** man
- Opinion Owner
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  "guys don't sit around comparing there d***s " Some do. Just like some girls check out other girls boobs and bush in the shower and comment on them behind their backs to their friends. Many of the things you are telling me here needs to be said to him. Openness and honesty are huge in a relationship.
- Opinion Owner
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  "eason thinks all women want a p*rnstar d*** man" Just like most women think all men want paper thin women with tons of makeup and giant boobs. And both of which are not just from p*rn. The media and social programming has a lot to do with this. Men were thinking this sort of way long before the internet and p*rn. In ancient cultures the mans penis size was revered as a form of masculinity.
- Asker
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  "Ive been married for 10 years thank you, and am a licensed therapist working at Relationship Counseling Center in Beverly Hills, So I think I know a bit of what I'm talking about." "Basically stating, CREDENTIALS MEAN NOTHING.".. that is exactly what I just said, so I figured id humour you with the old copy and paste thing too.. any who.., I already chose best answer mr angry anonymous dude on forum. good luck finding a woman who can love your penis too
Anonymous
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So be honest. Would you prefer his d!ck be as big as your vibrator?
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- Asker
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  no I wouldnt, I am fine with his penis and I have been telling him that
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah, I know, but if he showed up tonight and his d*** were as big as your vibrator, would that be a GOOD thing or a BAD thing?
- Asker
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  not really because then I would have to be f***ing a gigantic penis for hours and I would be so tired after one sec of him penetrating me. And he would be disappointed because I would be ready to tap out before he even gets started. He would be to big for comfort. Vibrators do not move in the way that a human penis does. When you insert the vibrator it does not continuesly thrust and penetrate, it does not vigoursly stab you in your guts like a penis can and it does not put you in different posi
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- Asker
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  positions. vibrators do not move in and out. They just pretty much massage your insides, they have different vibrating beeds that rotate inside of the vibrator and they move in different directions, like how a personal back massager works but the actualy vibrator as whole does not move and if it did I would probably die because I am not a horse.
- Asker
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  also the size of the vibrator is the size that it is because people say bigger is better so I thought I would try it but really they make vibrators that do the exact same thing that mine does in smaller size and I have had one of thoes to but it also broke. So both of them broke and neither size really matter
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Hold up. So do you prefer to use the penis sized vibrator or the horse c0ck sized one?
- Asker
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  i prefer my boyfriends penis and durring times when I get urges and my boyfriend is not there, either of the vibrators would do a decent enough job. But unfortunately, both of them are broken so neither of them do anything at all. the large one did the exact same thing as the small one just the large one did not fit in me.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  So are you saying if they both worked and you were horny, you'd go for the smaller one because the large one doesn't fit in you?
- Opinion Owner
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  @your update: I don't think most people are being difficult. I think they're just trying to understand how and why size is important to you, some of which you've answered well, but people have a few follow on questions to better understand.