In my quest to understand women I have interacted with as many women as I could both in real life and on GAG. In order to fully understand women however, you must be a woman, just like in order to understand men you must be a man. Since a man cannot become a woman, you must be born one, my next best bet was creating a female account on GAG.
Here is what I've learned from both my personal interactions with women as well as my experiences with using a fake female account on GAG.
1) There are a lot of horny guys out there that can’t control themselves.
It only took 10 minutes of responding to questions when I got 5 messages from guys saying how beautiful I was. At first I didn’t mind since I thought “What the heck it’s just 5 guys”. On the next day there were 10 messages. These ones were far worse than the previous. Here guys explicitly stated how turned on they were.
Perhaps since I am a heterosexual man that it contributed to my repulsion to these messages but I doubt that most women would be interested in guys posting several times “I like your boobs”.
I called out a couple of them since I couldn’t reply to all of them due to some glitch in the messaging system.
I was actually able to get through to some of the guys which I see as a win.
That’s why I think women should be talking back to these guys since they will keep doing it to other women if no one calls them out on their behaviour.
Personally this was a really big surprise to me. I kept hearing from girls that they’re only approached by these arrogant horny guys and I thought to myself “well I’m not like them, I can control my urges and I don’t personally know anyone that acts that way”. To me its common sense that girls don’t like it when you act horny. I learned that from my first rejection, I can still remember it vividly. I’ve told several Gagers that this type of behavior is unacceptable but they didn’t believe me, thinking that I was just some virgin or someone trying to screw up their chances when in reality I was just trying to help.
One guy even sent me a picture of his penis. That really made me sick to my stomach and want to throw up. If I had any doubt in my mind that I was straight it was immediately gone after that picture.
2) Some things are better received when said by a woman rather than a man
By having a woman tell a guy that he’s acting like a pervert it gives him more reason to change his ways than if a man said it. Women are also better received when they are compassionate since no one doubts their intentions. If a guy is nice to a girl, people will automatically assume that he wants to sleep with her.
If a guy is overly nice to another guy, he may be labeled as gay. That isn’t always the case. Guys can genuinely care for another human being just as any woman can. It doesn’t make us pussies, quite the contrary it makes us emotionally mature.
About 2 years ago, a police office bought shoes for a homeless man. When I first read the story it really made me happy to see someone do that for someone else with no benefit to themself.
3) It is really nice to be messaged first
As someone that has been unwillingly categorized as an alpha by my peers it gets really annoying to be the one in charge. I always have to message everyone first, be they male or female. It is very rare that people message me first and that’s usually only when they need something. Perhaps it’s because I care more or because many of my friends have as much energy as Jeb Bush that I’m the one always planning everything.
When I got the female account it felt nice to have people message me first. With a couple of people I actually had decent conversations with. I could do my own thing and people would message me without me lifting a finger. It’s a really nice feeling compared to what I’m used to. I actually encourage people in real life to message me first but sadly that almost never happens.
There needs to be a balance of who messages whom first. Otherwise, you’re creating a relationship where one chases and the other plays hard to get which in all honesty very few people actually like.
4) Most women won’t approach men because they don’t have to
Since women are on average 10 times less horny than men they don’t have to worry about approaching guys since there will always be one with enough balls to approach them. This doesn’t guarantee quality, quite the contrary most guys that approach are rejected since they don’t meet a woman’s standards. Women can approach men and some do but it makes them appear desperate (to some) since they’re unwilling to wait. Even though logically it would make a lot more sense for women to approach men since they’d have a higher success rate and be more likely to be with someone they like rather than just picking from guys that approach them. Most women however, will not change since it’s easier to choose from what’s available then to seek elsewhere and risk rejection.
5) Whining about being a virgin is the most unattractive thing out there
Although I couldn’t fully immerse myself into the thought process of a woman, I tried really hard to picture how I would react if I was a woman. What I realized is that this has got to be the most pathetic lot out there. C’mon do they really expect a hot chick to give them a courtesy fuck just because their horny. What do they have to offer to the woman? Nothing!!! They’re usually losers with no goals in life and all they care about is getting laid. At the same time however, they make great clients for prostitutes even though that only makes their life worse.
The things I couldn’t account for in my experiment were women’s sex drives and what it’s like to have a period. Those are things I could not imitate since I do not find men attractive and I’ve never experienced a period.
I hope you found myTake informative and interesting.
Have a nice day :)