Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Often times, men seemed to be immensely worried about the size of their penises, and to a lesser degree, women the tightness of their vaginas. I believe women worry less about vaginal tightness than men do penile size for the simple fact that one is visible and can be easily compared, while one isn't. Also, men typically have a much easier time reaching orgasm in general than women do (regardless of who the partner is, or if there is even a partner there at all), therefore, less emphasis is placed on what a women brings to the table, sexually, because it is assumed the man's experience will be pleasurable, regardless. In my experience, I have learned a few things.
1) Sex is like pizza. It's never bad. Sometimes it's better than others, and sometimes it might be "bad" in comparison to other experiences, but it is never actually that unpleasant that it literally feels bad and I disliked it.
2) Every single vagina feels the same. Tightness makes a difference, but what you feel is still a vagina. You just feel some vaginas more than you feel others, based on how tight she is. But the actual distinct feeling of the inside of a woman's vagina doesn't vary from woman, to woman (ex. one feels like a vagina and the other like putting your penis in a ball pit, or something).
So, in that case, why is there such a worry about size? Because of compatibility.
The Size/Tightness Relationship
The average penis size, when erect, stands at about 5.5". On the contrary, when aroused, the average vagina is about 4.5" deep, from the opening to the cervix. Now, obviously, vaginas possess the ability to stretch (to about twice their size), which is, in fact, what many women enjoy feeling during intercourse. This is understandable and simple sexual selection. We see the same phenomenon is present across the board in most traits the opposite sex finds attractive (ex. women like taller men, the average man is approximately 5-6" taller than the average woman etc.). The average penis is tailor-made to fit the average vagina. Studies consistently show, the majority of women, actually prefer sizes closer to the average (slightly bigger, usually, but still around the range). So where does the thought process that women need bigger penises to be satisfied come from? Well, much of it isn't true to begin with, just a lot of overestimated size preferences based on porn and a misjudgment of how big average actually is. But still, with that being said, a lot of it is. And it is a result of variance. Vaginal size is less emphasized and understood than penis size; however, just like penises, vaginas vary in shape, size, look and function, as well. And just as the majority of men fall into the range of average, so do the majority of women, but just as there are big and small penises out there, there are also big and small vaginas.
Speaking from personal experience, here, I am slightly over average at >6" length and ~5" girth. So considering that is bigger than the mean penis size, considerably bigger than the average vagina and on par with what most women state they look for in size, I should fulfill women's standards, right? Well, not necessarily. Make no mistake, I have received compliments on my size, and it’s never been an issue for me but I also have heard women say they weren't completely satisfied with it (received more compliments than otherwise, though). And I noticed an interesting point in the women who have complimented me and the women who felt the contrary. My perceived tightness of their vagina always seemed to match their perception about the size of my penis. If a woman thought I was really big, I also thought she was really tight. Inversely, with the two women who felt it wasn't very big, there also wasn't too much to feel on my end, either. In all scenarios we still had a good time because there are many other factors to good sex than simply size, but that was worth noting.
And this makes sense. Assuming neither partner has any numbness/sensitivity issues going on down there, how likely is it that a woman would be having sex with a guy who she feels like is splitting her in half, meanwhile he's thinking "man, this is so loose."? Inversely, if a guy thinks her vagina is gripping his penis nice & tight and feels amazing, the woman is most-likely not thinking to herself "omg, is it in yet?" The two have an undeniable correlation.
So men/women, like it or not, unless you're on either end of the extreme, you're going to be "small" or "loose" to some. I know a lot of men and women who seriously have their confidence shattered over the opinion of some people, but I can guarantee you, those who are average are big/loose to some and small/tight to others. Simply means you and your partner aren't sexually compatible. Not that you are too small or too loose, they are just too big or too small for you. And the guys who are just flat out big to every girl (we’ll say 8" and above) are too big to truly be enjoyable for most (as I specified earlier, I'm not huge and I have had a few girls tell me it was so big that it kind of hurt or that they "felt it in their stomach"). If it feels amazing for you, size is the last thing you should worry about, because in 9/10x, the feeling is mutual.
As I stated before, this is a theory of mine with a lot of anecdotal backing from myself and others with some scientific evidence behind it, as well. So feel free to share your opinions, agreements and disagreements below, and while you're at it, leave an opinion here: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q2930012-what-things-do-you-notice-the-most-important-things-about-your
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1Makes sense! Good job! <3
This is correct
Interesting perspective :) I enjoyed reading this lol. I understand that size obviously matter but it's definitely not the only thing that matters :)