What things do you notice/the most important things about your partners' genitals during sex?

[swagswagswag]

Personally, as a guy, when I have sex with a woman the 3 most important things I notice when I first go inside it are (In order)

1. The wetness
2. The tightness
3. The warmth


What do women notice/what are the most important things about a guys' dick when they have sex (ex. length, girth, hardness, veins, circumcised or not etc.)? Men, what are the most important parts of a woman's vagina that make it good to you?

Important: THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE SEX AS A WHOLE. This is STRICTLY referring to your partner's genitalia and what you notice about it/feel during sex. Choose about 3-5 things and rank them in order


P. S.

1. Ladies, don't just say "size" (as I'm sure that will obviously come up) rank both girth and length independently.


2. If you're going to mention something like "shape" or "look" be a little more specific in the detail of what your preferred size and shape is.

[areyaready4this]

-Hair (hair=good; no hair=bad)
-Labia (big inner=good, dont care about outer)
-Vulva overall (as in the big picture, size, location, is ir chubby)
-Is it attached to a woman or is some dude tucking and about to get his nasty sick ass beaten within an inch of his life?

[QuietRunner]

All three of the wetness, tightness and warmth. That was the first thing I remembered about losing my virginity. How warm the vagina felt around my penis.

[virginbish]

I'm intrigued... it's so hard to get a solid answer, so I hope people answer. (I haven't any any sexual encounters... so forgive me but I can't contribute :( )

[desidoll]

His hardness of course and the shape of his penis. I like it straight. Also his balls. I notice sometimes they are all round sometimes they are soft 🤣

[swagswagswag]

interesting, size doesn't seem to be as much of a factor as I would have thought, seems like the hardness is the primary factor here. and when you say shape, you just mean like curved or straight? or were u referring to like fat or skinny?

[desidoll]

Curve or straight. Yeah if he is big but he has ED is useless.

[Nakoma]

1. Thickness (I haven't really had sex a lot, so I am still tight and it hurts sometimes)
2. Hardness
3. How deep he's in me

[friendswithbenifits]

Lol interesting 😍

[whatdoumeandammit]

1) Hardness
2) Straight/curve (I love when they point straight up)
3) Balls

[whatdoumeandammit]

Lol the number 3 turned into an emoji

[swagswagswag]

When you say point straight up, you mean when they're curved upwards or just completely straight? And what about the balls do you feel? Like slapping against your clit? Also, size is not a factor for you?

[whatdoumeandammit]

Straight as an arrow!

[GirlOfApathy25]

Only thing I really care about is if it's big or uncut. I hate those.

[swagswagswag]

You hate dicks that are big and/or uncircumcised?

[GirlOfApathy25]

Ya indo

[GirlOfApathy25]

*ya I do hate them

[swagswagswag]

Interesting. That's pretty uncommon for a woman to hate big dicks. Might I ask what's the reasoning? And your preferred size would be what, then?

[GirlOfApathy25]

Because a big one is completely unnecessary and overkill

[GirlOfApathy25]

5.5 and lower

[swagswagswag]

As if. I recently wrote something that kind of applies to your thought process, I think. If you wanna check it out that'd be pretty cool :) The Relationship Between Penis Size & Vaginal Tightness, A Theory. ↗

[GirlOfApathy25]

😒 I don't care enough to read whatever you wrote sooooo

[pixiechic7486]

The girth, how smooth it is, hardness, and whether or not they’re circumcised

[swagswagswag]

You can feel whether they are or not? Interesting. And which one do you prefer between cut & uncut & why?

[pixiechic7486]

Cut. I can’t feel it when it’s inside me but when I’m touching him I can

[dewatschka]

Hardnesss

[TacosRAwesome]

It works / gets hard
It has no weird bumps
Those first.

[wantsomede]

How good it feels

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin but I have been told that the first thing a girl notices is how hard his dick is. When it's inside, she can also feel the warmth, and the throbbing inside her

[Anonymous]

Girth is more important than length and how hard he is is also super important