Let's Talk About Your Penis and How Big it is...

Let's Talk About Your Penis and How Big it is...

I see so many questions related to penis size, and I have just got to put some truth out there. I apologize in advance for any offense and for maybe being too open about myself.

YES SIZE MATTERS, just not nearly as much as you may think.

I understand why it is important to you. You want to know that you are the best. Maybe you just love the look of awe on a woman's face when she sees it. Maybe you are terrified that you are not good enough, or that she is secretly laughing or dissapointed.

For my average and below average guys.

She has had bigger, but she has not had better. Now I know bigger is better right? Yes, a bigger cock is somewhat better than a small cock. But it does not mean the sex, the connection, or the relationship is better. How do I know this? Because who is she with now? You are obviously best at something.

We care about size. We want to know that you have a normal sized functioning cock. But average is around 5 inches hard and we don't know your inches just by looking. I have had guys that I thought were average tell me they were 4 inches. I got used to it and so did my vagina. And the sex was still good.

This is how I judge the quality of sex in order from most important to least.

1. Are we in love or do we have a strong connection?

2. Am I feeling sexy?

2. Are we sexually compatible? Do we have similar likes, communicate well and catch a good rhythm?

3. Is he skilled? Can he turn me on?

4. Is he a gentleman...ladies first. :)

5. How does he look naked and how big is his penis?

See where I put the D?

Now for my big guys. I know what you want.

Let's Talk About Your Penis and How Big it is...

We really don't want to have conversations about how amazing your penis is. In fact, if you get cocky...see what I did there...then it is a BIG turn off. And I am liable to go back to the little guy. The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches. He was also very thick and great in bed. But what I loved most is that he was very shy about his penis and did not want to talk about it. He also wasn't the best I've had.

Last note is this. I find maturity very sexy. A guy who is jealous and worried that he is inadequate does not come off as mature. The guy who can't get enough of himself and thinks he is God can take a hike. But the guy who can be straight forward about himself and doesn't care about my past. I won't be able to keep my hands off him.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Size matters to an extent, depending on the woman.
    Other skills rank higher. I think it's something like only 25 percent of women can orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, don't quote me there but I think that's what I've read.
    In any case most women need to be stimulated in other ways.
    Sex without an orgasm still feels good but it can still be better, but in my experience that has little to do with the size of the man. Can't say skill doesn't come into play but I'm one of the few that can orgasm with penetration alone.
    I have a decent sexual history.
    I haven't been with hundreds of men, not even dozens of men, but I have had a wide range, I've been with guys that were below average to guys that were well above average. They all felt good and all made me orgasm.
    Now, I'm not going to sit here and lie, the biggest guy I had did give me the most intense orgasms and while I orgasmed several times with all of the other guys, I got off even more frequently with him. It could very easily have to do with size alone or it could have been to do with his size and the feelings I had for him or maybe it just had to do with my feelings for him. I can't say for sure. Again, being honest, if I had to guess it would have probably had more to do with size AND feelings. Women are emotional creatures, what can I say.
    BUT I do NOT think bigger means better even after saying what I just said. Too big can be downright painful.
    As I said, women are emotional creatures, unless you're with a "slut" that loves one night stands and casual sex (no judgement, do whatever makes you happy), the emotions (and feelings and, let's be honest, your skill) are going to matter more than size.
    The thing I will whole heartedly agree with is that there is a difference between being confident and being arrogant. Confidence is hot as fuck. Being arrogant is the quickest way for me to kick a guy to the curb. I don't care how big your dick is and how good you THINK you are. If you can't actually properly use it then it's as good to me as the sculptures on the fireplace mantel. Nice to look at but that's the extent of its usefulness.

    • Spot on every point-

    • @passinby thank you.

    • oil and my magic hands makes the girl cum every time x

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Most Helpful Guy

  • " The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches."
    😂😂😂😂😂😂

    Why does every other girl need to say this?
    You know its not true.

    Its as true as me saying the most beer i have ever drunk was 15 litres.

    Yeah, there might be a dude somewhere who did that. But not me.

    Ladies , ladies.
    Let me get one thing straight.
    That dude that said he had 10 inches, he was LYING!!!

    Less than one in 10 000 men have a dick anywhere near double digits.

    So are you saying that you all fucked 10 000 guys?

    If not, then you didn't have 10 inches.
    You may habe had 8 or 7.5.

    When 5-6 inches is average, 8 inches with proportionate girth will look like 10 to you.

    Its not.

    This wasn't gonne be my original response, but if you are gonna make a take to amswer all the dick questions you would need to ne more honest

    • im close but still not double digits lol men lie about their sizes ladies

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  • I think this is well written and explains what I think is true of most women when it comes to this issue. Yet a lot of guys seem to obsess about it like it's the most important thing.

    The same is true in reverse as well. I've actually been thinking about writing a MyTake regarding breasts and labia. I've seen so many questions from women worried that their breasts are too big or too small or not a good shape or that their labia are too long or the wrong color. And yes, most guys have a preference on breast size (some prefer smaller, some larger) but for the vast majority of guys I think that goes way down on the list of what's important in a woman.

    People just get too obsessed about sexual anatomy and don't realize that the majority of attraction is not about the physical characteristics.

  • Best sex I’ve had was with a small penis. The big penis was just like poking wtf.. sometimes hurting and no skills. I don’t even know what small or big means actually unless they are extremes. I don’t get how +/ - 1 cm makes you big or small. You can’t even see the difference if you are not comparing one penis next to another... One thing that annoys me though is a guy that brags about his big penis. The worst is when he knows he has a small one but thinks he can make you think it’s bigger.

  • This is one of the reasons I have zero interest in this website and stay away longer & longer. Just what I want to read, penis size from a female who by the way is anonymous, nothing new 99% choose the wall of anonymity. There's way too many on here that don't have a clue what they're talking about, usually those that talk the most.
    OP let's not talk about dicks you're not qualified, unless you have one. Stay anonymous and talk about pussy.

    • girls and women post anonymously because they don't want to be harassed by assholes like you. don't give her shit for being honest and speaking the truth. you will only signal to the whole world how small your dick is just saying

    • @vald9inches im not harrasing her. Also you can't assume my size. Now maybe i am small I don't know. You tell me is 7 inches and 5.5 girth small.

    • @vald9inches unless you were replying to the other guy in which case my bad

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  • Penis size doesn't even matter as much as you say if the guy knows how to get a woman off. Most women don't orgasm from much of anything a penis does.

    • l give the girl lots of foreplay use lots of oil and my magic hands my hands were made in scotland lol a whole body massage is the best thing for a girl from top to bottom o so very hot pass me a hot girl my hands are ready love it all let the fun start we will be here all night long x

    • @BOUNTYGUY9 I like a full body massage too, but it's stimulation to the clitoris that gets women off.

    • l know what you like? yes l do you like lots of stimulation to your clitoris and you are very right in what you are saying l would us my tounge on your clitotis you would love that l know a girl that likes me to make her cum with my right knee? l dont know why but it works for her lol good l am hot today and its very cold in scotland wonder why l am so hot?

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  • My boyfriend is about 5.75 inches and Id say he is slightly above average but his performances are much above average :) In many cases sized does not matter unless very small. I had very big and the sex was not the best.

    • What is very small for you?

    • Never thought about the actual number. Once had a Filipino guy and thickness was a bit lacking. He made up for it in performance lol

  • I tried to measure my dick once, but the ruler I tried to use only went up to 12 inches.

  • I am SO tired of hearing guys obsess about how long is the schlong. I've had women tell me that they are afraid of guys hung like horses and I've had women tell me that they were satisfied with guys who were less than average. I think some guys want size to matter because then they have a built-in excuse for not trying and it's an excuse for which they cannot be blamed.

    The real truth is that if a guy wants to make love instead of fucking like animals, if a guy is patient and not in a hurry, if a guy is attentive. . . he can be the best lover a woman has ever had. . . even if he is quite average in the length of his sausage.

    Nice myTake!

  • 11-13 inches? You are rare and he's rare. You're rare in the fact, I don't know how many women could handle a dick that size. And the funny thing is you said women can enjoy big dicks, but the funny thing is I don't know. Women say that, but then I see some on hear complain how it hurts having their cervix bumped or how a thick cock stretches them too much. So more often a big dick can cause discomfort or pain for women. It seems like more women would like dicks that are average to above average, but not huge. An above average dick can be a woman's goldilocks cock and she can feel size, but a man can go hard and deep without hurting her and not have to hold back at the sametime as well.

    • In this guys case it did hurt and he wasn't able to go in all the way either. My biggest issue with the buggest guys is that they cannot pound quite as hard.

    • Well there you go, it shows there's much ado about nothing for big dicks. You make it sound like there's so much more that you look for. And how even though the dick is average size, the skill can be good and all these pluses like making up for something average. When the fact is you and most women can't even handle big or huge dicks ha. How is a huge dick like that even good when it can hurt you? An average or above average can fill a woman, yet go balls deep or pound hard, whereas a guy that is huge has to hold back a bit. I actually have empathy for dudes with huge dicks. It's like having a fucking Aston Martin, yet they can only drive it it half speed ha. All that power, but you can't even use it, it just there teasing you and a waste

  • I dont want relationships now - i am too busy for that, i travel a lot but i just one sex.

    because of that I ONLY want BIG penis sizes and hot men because its sex. I dont care about them emotionally.

    people dont like that but its the truth and thats too bad. i am hot, my vag is hot, i expect them to me big

    • Your self-proclaimed "hot" vag may not be tight, though. Girls like them big, guys like them tight. The fact remains, however, if you're tight, size shouldn't be a big issue for you (the opposite is true as well). So if size is a major concern for you, there might be some lack of grip going on down there.

    • @swagswagswag no, i have a small vag, i use a diva cup size one (those are for small vaginas) at my age they are elastic in case you didn't know (human sexuality 101 - you're welcome) im not a virgin of course no hymen but i never had a kid. those women have big vaginas. look up diva cup and you can see. :) PS your cock is small haha

    • I think it is true that women who only want sex will value a bigger penis more.

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  • Actually the average size cock is 6 inches and the average range is 5 1/2" to 6 1/2" but the girth is just as important to a woman and the average girth is about 5 1/2 " Women have elasticity in their vagina and can handle 6" quite easily but its all relevant to what a woman has experienced previously.

    • Interesting the studies iv read say different

    • 5-6 is average for erect, but average for flaccid it is technically irrelevant because it can change.

    • average is 6" when the guy measures or submits the numbers himself. 5.2 inches when measured by another. So 6" is based on old and poor data.

  • It's not the size, it's how you use it :)

  • Amazing and informative mytake. I've always believed, from personal experience as well as talking to friends, women enjoy big penises more for the aesthetic purpose rather than a sexual purpose. I wrote something along these lines not too long ago, if you don't mind checking it out that'd be cool :) The Relationship Between Penis Size & Vaginal Tightness, A Theory. ↗

  • This should answer every penis question ever asked on GAG.

    • And there WILL be friggin' more... in the next few minutes !!

    • There will never be an answer

  • How much experience have you had?

    • Your take does not represent reality. You probably have a boyfriend with an average and now you have to justify it to all and feel better about it and thus you write this take to level all the big dks. Your take is complete bullst and you know it. I have had women challenge me in a bar if my dk was as big as my hands unsolicited and we three went to their place as a 3some to discover their vaginas were too small. But that did not stop them from follow up f ks with me. I have one ex girlfriend that still texts, calls me after 4 years to cheat on her boyfriend and tells me she misses my cock and she still struggles with me. I got picked up by the gfs of exs including her that tell me "I heard you are hung." I have a lesbian girlfriend that hates my guts but needs a f k once in awhile that tells me she is stuck on me dk and hates that she needs to come to me to feel the size. Cont,

    • I have numerous women that have complained to me about how it doesn't fit or it pushes on their bladder or it hurts their cervix, but they still come back for the challenge. The cervix is a highly sensual and an untapped sexual organ for achieving orgasms. Some of them eventually have experienced uterine orgasms with contractions after they have gotten used to my size and cervix sensation. After that happens I own them. Three are have been seeing me on and off for a couple years now. Another one still has a boyfriend but she needs the size because she tells me “I need to feel you all the way up in me..” . Cont.

    • So I don’t think you have neither the experience nor enough the data to present such position. You need more practice to write about this. Did you ever experience a uterine orgasm? When you do, come back and tell me about it.

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  • "The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches."

    I agreed with most of what you wrote until I came to the line I quoted above. Do you really expect us to believe that?

  • What truth are you rolling out here? You sound like your average chick who needs to post that the biggest dick she's ever had was 11-13". Maturity my ass.

  • Great take, I was almost tempted to type in caps "I GOT A DIG BICK!!!"

  • Nowadays I would say 60% of women have a toy that will put most of us to shame lol. I need an app that makes my dick vibrate lol.

    • MHO for this please. LMFAO

    • It's sad that this is true

  • Longer than an iPad.. sure, why not.

  • Well, I use mine as a lariat when I'm out west, so...

    • fucking hilarious lool most people don't know what that word means

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