Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
@Schrodingerscat Nominated me for this challenge so clearly I took it. I urge you all to check her out, she has some good, clear minded myTakes, questions, opinions, etc. Link to her myTake which nominated me: 8 Things I find Attractive in Guys
I bind some concepts together to avoid redundancy. Those concepts are similar enough that I do not see justification in separating them.
1. Honesty
What is a relationship of any kind, sexual or no, without honesty as it's basic foundation? Without honesty there can be no trust, and without trust then interaction is nigh worthless. Honesty is paramount.
There are some situations where lying is acceptable (such as lying to a deranged killer to save your hide and the such) but otherwise, blunt, straight forward honesty is a great way to get on my good side, even if I deeply disagree with you.
Blunt honesty doesn't mean you need to be an asshole. Delivery is important too, but telling the truth as is without malice in a relationship is most important regardless.
Honesty shows that my lover trusts me and that warms my heart <3
2. Loyalty
This is another foundation of a basic relationship in my eyes. Loyalty is peramont and even couples who practice open relationships are still loyal to each other, due to them operating within the terms of their relationship.
Imagine a partner that is willing to stick with you even past the absurd, overrated honeymoon phase, who stands by you through thick and thin, is determined to make it work with you even when times are hard. Such a person would stand by your side in lethal combat rather than hide behind you (unless they'd truly just be a liability).
That's fucking sexy to me, and with all this talk of hypergamy and divorce rape, seems more and more rare.. thus making my yearning for it all the more keen.
3. Intellectual Curiosity & Open Mindedness
These traits go hand in hand, so I included them both together. Even a legitimately stupid person can have these traits, so I don't discriminate by I.Q (within reason). An intellectually curious person asks "why" and "how" a lot, searches for answers and wants to know how the universe works at least on a basic level. They also tend to not just take people's words on things all that often, and prefer to verify information.
Open mindedness is simply keeping one's mind open to new information. It's not embracing nonsense such as the supernatural, but rather shifting as evidence does, just like science. Open mindedness is important on subjective matters that relate to morality and such as well, since a person who's values change tends to be a person who considers other arguments.
A partner who can debate with, without bashing my head up against the wall? YES PLEASE!
4. A Nigh Unbreakable Will
I want a partner that doesn't sulk in self pity but instead can seize control of their own emotions and actions. They accept that they, and they alone, are 100% responsible for their own actions. They can make it in this world, with or without me, or anyone. Such a person will trump over unspeakable torture (within human limits) because they absolutely REFUSE to be broken.
A person like that is very dependable and the fires of their will burn white hot. That's insanely attractive to me. I'm constantly surrounded by depressed people and they are so helpless, weak and frail.. I want strength! I want a fire within someone that burns even brighter than my own! That'd be such a breath of fresh air..
5. Dominance & Megalomania
These two go together well for me. Dominant people are not always megalomaniacs and vice versa.
I'm into dominant partners since I'm a submissive. I want them to take most of the control away from me while understanding when I set boundaries (safe words are your friends people). I like kinky things such as being tied down and tickled, walked in public on a leash and so forth. A partner's control and my gleefulness of it should be painfully obvious to even casual observers.
Megalomania ties into dominance for me since it is very much centered around domination. I want a partner that wishes to be a dictator of all existence, having irrational delusions of grandeur. This would be difficult to exist beside #3 but it is possible. Such as an intellectual fully admitting they were objectively bested in chess for instance, but swearing to get better and make their opponent submit in the future.
There's just something surreal and almost inhuman about an attractive person that openly wishes to control existence. It must be an appeal to my primal side. Such strange creatures we humans are..
6. Femininity
Be they man or woman, I wish my partner to appear as a female. I'm into penises and vaginas but either combined with a feminine appearance is what does it for me in the looks department. There's not much more to say about that, since it's more of an involuntary preference than anything else. If I had my choice, I'd find masculine men attractive too since they're the easiest to get laid by and tend to think most like me. Trust me.. I know ;)
7. Excellent Hygiene
I'm an American, and we value this a lot more than you'd expect. Visitors looking into America are often warned of Americans and their high standards for hygiene.
Unfortunately, poorer or lazier Americans don't practice good hygiene and are shunned by society as I'm sure my fellow Americans and anyone who's visited America knows. I've had some run ins with this and let me tell you.. never, ever give oral to someone who doesn't smell nice! A little sweat is fine but geez.. shower people! Brush your teeth!
8. Evil Laughter & Humor
https://vocaroo.com/i/s1OWReQE84Lq <--- That's how you do an evil laugh folks. Granted I can't do it in a feminine voice yet, (I like to change my voice for fun) but a feminine equivalent to that would instantly garner my interest. Not many people are bold enough to do that, especially in public! It's very attractive.. (I'm silly I know!)
Humor in general.. well do I even need to explain this? Who wants to be with someone who's serious all the time? A partner who can make me laugh is a definite score in my book.
Well, what did you people think? I might as well nominate some people as well. Don't feel offended if I forgot you, feel free to respond anyway.
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