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ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

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DISCLAIMER: Good hygiene is among the most important factors with anal sex. Yes, there are some health risks involved but those can be managed and minimized, which I will be discussing in this myTake.

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

Porn stars are sex professionals and among the most experienced in many sexual techniques, not the least of which can be anal sex. I have been professionally trained by the famous 'Kink Productions' porn star Rain DeGrey during a standing room only workshop at "The Armory" in San Francisco before it was sold in 2018 by Peter Acworth, CEO of the Kink Porn Production Company. The room was filled to capacity and the majority were female attendees. The straight guys in the room where there just to watch and the gay guys, well, you know why they were there ...lol

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

And just as a side note, if you have never been inside The Armory it was an awesome place! The walls in some rooms were decorated with the most graphic castle wall sized porn imagery, and the erotic statuary was abounding.

They had many sexual play rooms, a BDSM sex dungeon, a wrestling ring for female sex porn wrestling, etc where they not only did porn filming, but had nights that were open to the public for a fee to come and "play" in some of the same rooms and using some of the same equipment that the professional porn films were shot with.

"THE ARMORY", San Francisco location for the filming for "KINK PRODUCTIONS"
"THE ARMORY", San Francisco location for the filming for "KINK PRODUCTIONS"
Kink Production Studios BDSM sex props
Kink Production Studios BDSM sex props

The above is just a small sample of the set equipment used to film the world wide distribution of Kink Productions Porn Films. The public was allowed to use the facilities for a fee on special nights each month until wee hours of the morning.

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

All very large restrooms with many stalls and high off the floor dividers, where always co-ed, so if you were there for a workshop or to use one of their playrooms and had to go potty or get your private parts ready for sex, you might run into one of the porn stars who happened to also walk in nude from another room while shooting a scene. Some of the male porn guys ...well, I mean you've heard of wagging the dog, but this wagging was, well I mean ...OMG!

Shall we head over to The Armory ladies and watch the willies wagging? ...lol
Shall we head over to The Armory ladies and watch the willies wagging? ...lol

The anal workshop training was done live, with minimal clothing, like heels and thigh highs, etc, but otherwise nude and was actual anal sex, not simulation. Rain's professional techniques were demonstrated with a silicone strap-on 8 inch penis dildo using one of her favorite lesbian female professional porn assistants, who genuinely loved receiving anal sex, to demonstrate on.

The workshop was 1 1/2 hours long with the actual anal sex portion lasting about 30 minutes of that time. Ms Rain also shared her story of being raised in a nudist hippie commune by her parents in Northern California.

Rain DeGrey and her Kink Porn Lesbian Studio Assistant
Rain DeGrey and her Kink Porn Lesbian Studio Assistant

This workshop focused on female anal sex only so don't get triggered if I don't spend a lot of time on male anal sex techniques. There are many subtle differences, not the least of which is prostate and penis massage which I have also been trained in by other porn stars at other Sex Workshops in Mr S Leather, on 8th Street in San Francisco.

RISKS VS THE BENEFITS OF ANAL SEX

The following link from Medical News Today with an article entitled "What are the risks of anal sex?" will outline the risks, but also includes ways to reduce each risk.

What are the risks of anal sex?

As with all aspects of life, yes there are risks associated with anal sex, but there are also some incredible benefits.

One of the greatest orgasms I have ever had in my entire life was during DP (Double Penetration). Having a penis anally while having a clit stimulated orgasm, during vaginal intercourse is an experience like no other! ...I AM NOT KIDDING! IT IS AMAZING! Your entire body will go into an orgasmic state of convulsing nirvana! Be careful because it can be addicting if done right!

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

You can also have the same experience while having an actual penis, a penis dildo, a specialty anus dildo, or anal beads in you while having your clit stimulated to orgasm orally, by hand or with a vibrator, even without vaginal intercourse. It is a heavenly experience!

This also works for bi or gay guys to orgasm with an actual penis, a penis dildo, a specialty anus dildo, or anal beads in your anus when you orgasm.

The TABOO of anal sex makes it more titillating and exciting :)

It helps you explore more sexual desires.

It will introduce you to specialty sex toys for more erotic and pleasurable orgasms.

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

ANAL HYGIENE

There is controversy over anal hygiene, with some saying that it is not even necessary. Just have a good bowel movement right before and all is well.

No professionals that I know of will train you this way. I will go first over the ultimate cleansing and then the minimal, which may be OK as well.

The ultimate cleansing is called Colonic Hydrotherapy or Colonic Irrigation. This is what professional porn stars do to clean their entire "system". Naturopathic Doctors and other holistic practitioners have the professional equipment needed to do this.

The cost is anywhere from $40 to $80 per treatment. And one treatment will do the trick.

Colonic Hydrotherapy Machine
Colonic Hydrotherapy Machine

You can also purchase an inexpensive home use version that works on gravity for around $300 on Ebay or Amazon. Here is the one I have. The water container will hold up to 5 gallons.

Colenz Home Enema Kit
Colenz Home Enema Kit
ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

A smaller version is the stainless steel enema kit. This is another one that I have and runs around $35-50 dollars and holds over 2 quarts.

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

I also have about 3 enema bags and 5 enema bulb syringes that I can bring with me during travel. These are inexpensive and can be obtained at any pharmacy or through the internet.

ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!
ANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!

It is best to wait a couple of hours after doing an enema to make sure most of the liquid has made it's way out of your system before you begin.

WHAT POSITION IS BEST?

There are many positions for maximum penetration with anal sex, but for the beginner, you don't want to go near any of them unless you want to guaranty a very unpleasant experience.

For now, let's stick with the very best and most pleasurable position there is for beginners of this most delightful erotic experience.

This is the best position for first time anal sex. I will not go into all the other more advanced positions since those that are experienced will already know what they like.

The very best way for first time anal sex is to put her on her tummy with her legs kept together (closed).

Apply lube and slowly penetrate her this way. This actually prevents maximum penetration and is a very relaxing position for her.

Barely put your penis head in and then take it back out and ask her how that felt. Do that for maybe 3 or 4 times and then ask her if you can try to go in just a little further next time.

This kind of communication will make her feel like you care about her first experience and actually help her to relax even more, and relaxation is the key to a great first time experience.

Most girls who are treated with this kind of care will go on to love anal sex. If not, this will be a "one and done" or "one off" event.

Make it a great experience for her and she will love you forever!

I hope you liked my ANAL SEX 101 myTake and learned something from it. Please share it with a friend. This was to help educate you, my friends, in another aspect of the sexual pleasures of life.

And I owe it all to ...

THE GODDESS OF LOVE

...I LOVE YOU!

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  • meetkitty123
    Its very good advice. I have mentioned similar points in different posts. I have an enema bag I bought at Walgreens. I always make sure I am well cleaned inside and out before engaging in anal. However I never let the guy take the lead. For me thats a major hell to the no. I've been hurt before making that mistake. My body my rules I lead. Its done at my pace. I do so on top and if he gets too buck wild I stop the action. If things are going well I Sometimes include a second dildo for my front entrance. Its not only delicious for myself but its overwhelmingly pleasent for the man too.
    Awesome 👍 mytake
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    • Guardian45

      Very sage advice, Kitty! I'm sure you're a Mistress of Anal! I'd gladly follow your lead!

    • Yes! ... and great comments, thank you Ms Kitty!

    • @laurieluvsit
      Thank you very much 😊

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  • juliammm
    I think you must really want it.
    It was the case for me, I badly wanted to try it. I prepared for it, and I had a great time.
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    Is this still revelant?
    • Yes! The more apprehensive you are, the less relaxed and that's where the pain comes in.

      You're always right Ms Julia! :)

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  • Ray1980
    Never had a partner adventurous enough to try, I'm all for exploring new things, especially if it has the potential to increase my partners pleasure. I have a fox tail I secretly stashed away for the right occasion, never used of course.

    Been dreaming up ALL kinds of immoral things once I meet the right girl that's into it:) I've read if the G-spots stimulated correctly it's the ultimate orgasm & that's what I'd be after, seeing her convulse & her lips make sounds they never had before.

    Gets me going just thinking about it:) I tried talking the current girl I'm seeing into it but she looked so shocked I thought I lost her:/ She's a good girl but not kinky at all.

    I'm usually very selective in a partner & the ones I end up with aren't naughty:( I may have to start re-thinking my prioritize & settle down with a dirty girl to see this one fulfilled (no insult, I love bad girls:)

    I never felt comfortable asking any female friends about this. Something I always kept to myself.
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    • OC1990

      Please do not “try to talk her into it”
      Coercion is not consent.

  • purplepoppy
    Most people haven't the time, equipment or desire to undergo colonic irrigation before anal sex plus it kinda kills the mood. A good diet will go a long way to keeping the poopchute clean. As for the position I'd say missionary is better as it straightens out the rectum, isn't deep and you can push him off if you change your mind.
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  • chrissykerdock
    anal sex is exciting hands down... plus you can feel everything more... then there's having too much anal which i did when i started where your sore and have to take a lot of baths... but overall it's great to have a cock in your ass and feeling him so well... until they cum inside you which is hot for me too.
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  • ohshee
    Wow what a my take very interesting . I really never thought about any of that before.
    For me I'm not in to receiving it's just not for me but the most strangest part is as a giver the experiences that I've had I just totally blew me away because just about every single time that I've done it I get into a Zone when making love when having sex and it's the same way with giving Anil I would be in a Zone and all the sudden I might feel something hitting my arm and it would be wet and I was kind of snap out of the moment that I'm in and it would be a tear that I felt and I would stop and I would say why didn't you tell me it hurt I would have stopped and every time this is happened the same thing was said don't stop it's happy tears and that just totally blows me away because did I have to really snap out of it because I say what am I doing having sex with my ex-wife and then I really wake up and I realize it's not my ex-wife I've had this happen to me three or four times because in that moment every single time the same words have been used and that just blows me away even though each time has been different from did you drop drop drop drop off to just a flood of Tears. I don't know how long it takes me to feel that tear or how many tears had Fallen onto my arm before I snap out of it but when I hear those words I freak because it takes me back to the very first time that I heard them and then I really freaked what am I doing having sex with her LOL so after reading your mind take it kind of blows me away you can more that I could actually make somebody feel that good to bring tears and they're happy tears that just kind of blows me away
  • Clsr2thedge
    As someone who enjoys both giving and receiving anal sex there's only really 3 things that are important. Be as clean as possible, use plenty of lube and take it slowly at first. That being said, I dont know anyone who's ever had an enema before sex. A $15 anal douche will do the job just fine in my experience. However there's always the possibility that 'when you play in the mud, expect to get dirty' it won't kill you, just shower after and use baby wipes and try to be mature about it.
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  • silkjames
    Damn talk about cleaning the bum bum I guess if home girl letting someone get it in they be busting out all these hygiene bum bum cleaning guides LIKE SEE I did my research you ready bahaha lol 🤣🤣!! A woman saying before anal sex... cleanings next too Godliness my type of queen bee lol🤣🤣🤣🤣! Ok ok I see ya... that what I would say lol 🤣!!
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  • DizzyDesii
    I cringed like hell. I didn't read much but skimmed down to that table machine. I don't know how that shit works but im shocked people go through so much just to stick it in the wrong hole. It doesn't even take all that cleaning for normal vaginal sex. I’d assume they are desperate to take it in the ass if they go through all of what looks like a minor surgery. Ahh, to each its ownANAL SEX 101 - How to make the first time, and every time, one of your greatest experiences, and pleasures, ever!
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  • Kabluie
    Good stuff because preparation is the biggest aspect of enjoying anal. I even say the simplest things like working your way up the scale from even trying butt plugs with lube helps quite a bit. Getting that hole prepared for more constant stretch.
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  • Jerre
    One of the best My Takes I have ever read. Unfortunately there are not many men willing to take time to make a girls orgasm unforgettable. I do try my best. I can remember only one instance I was able to get my cock in a woman’s ass. Just too thick. Perhaps more women, and men, shud pay close attention to your My Take.
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  • ering987
    Very nice!!! A good hygienic prep is a key component and should be paired with graduated butt plugs lube and eventually a toy of choice, I reccomend self (anal)-discovering what feels good to you at your own pace. Never just jump in.
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  • Valso
    Hygiene is important, yes, but the most important thing is that the person who's gonna be penetrated must be with empty stomach. Otherwise the situation can become brown pretty quickly...
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  • exitseven
    Good MyTake. I have never done it but would like to try it once just to check it off my to do list. I did not know about the enema piece of it.
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  • ImNoOne111
    Even tho anal is a big no to me. It still was good to read it, maybe one day I compromised it for her (I dont think I would). Even if not, Its always good to learn something. Good mytake!
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  • bean2k21
    The BDSM dungeon I have in my home makes that one look like a kindergarten class.
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  • Spongeboblol
    Anal? Euwwwwwwww painful so grosss disgusting , what the heck is not sex at all it only please men , so grosssssssssssss 🤮🤮
  • Mahmoud_Madyan
    I think you don't have to have like a pornstars (this even what pornstars saying), the porn just content for entertainment, not for education... if you want to have amazing anal sex, all what you have to use the toilet to empty your stomach, wash your asshole good, don't eat at least for 4 hours, and use lotion 🧴... and I think you will get the best anal sex ever!!
  • gabby100
    Sorry, not a fan, if it happens it happens, i dont plan for it..
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  • TheSpaceGnome
    No amount of cleaning can save a person from needing adult diapers because they took it up the ass regularly.

    I'll pass thanks.
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    • rebeccadn

      This is true. I just have one question. How often do you have to have anal sex for this to happen?

    • @rebeccadn dunno, it's not something I've ever done, and i don't track other people's personal lives.

  • rebeccadn
    I would try anal sex and rarely do it no matter the pleasure. A few times a year. I don't wanna be walking in adult diapers in the future. Honestly, it's lowkey disgusting
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  • mstbooblover
    Although not into anal plays, I'd like to thank you for this most interesting informations.
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