Any good blow job tips?

[Kelser31]

I guess I kind of have multiple questions here: Guys how do you react when getting a bj? moaning, staying quiet? Could you drive and talk on the phone while your girlfriend is giving you head? Does anybody have any good bj tips? my boyfriend says that I am the best head he has gotten, but it just doesn't seem like it. I know how to visually please him (licking/face smacking/getting really into it), but I have yet to make him cum from a bj. Guys is it possible for you to cum from a straght up bj (no hand job included just using the mouth) or does the girl need to incorporate a hand job with it for you to cum? I really really suck at giving hand jobs, and why would I want to rub it with my hand when I could just put it in my mouth which is what I would prefer to do. When I do things like licking the length of his penis or just doing weird/sexy stuff with it my boyfriend goes nuts, but when I just suck it, he is usually pretty quiet or unresponsive, is this normal for guys? I mean I know I am not bad because if I am not already sucking it, he wants me to go down there and suck on his dick. It's just really hard for me to suck it and get no reaction from him, it's quite disappointing and it makes sucking dick feel like more of a chore than something fun and enjoyable. Like I get really into it, I usually moan and whatnot while I suck his dick cuz it turns me on, but lately I just feel like shit after sucking it cuz I really don't think it does anything for him and all I want to do is rock his world like he does mine when he gives me oral (like I can't even sit still when he goes down on me). Should I give him head less often to give it more meaning (I really rathher not do that cuz I actually enjoy bjs) cuz he doesn't go down on me very often and I get super duper excited when he does so maybe it will have the same reaction for him? I need all the help I can get here haha

[Cj_Shway]

I love when my girlfriend sucks my dick. I have the uncontrollable urge to grab her head and shove my penis in her mouth, I wouldn't say I'm loud, but its obvious I'm enjoying it, u shoudn't need to rub it with ur hand if you're really good at it
good tips?
don't try to force so much in ur mouth
dont let ur tongue get in the way (which is usually what prevents u from going further down)
make sure u get the tip really well
lick it from base to tip
but u should do a lot of the weird/sexy stuff, and he'll probably cum for you

[AustinMan]

I moan and twitch and gasp and encourage her to take the whole damn thing. Here're is how the queen did it:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

[tinyclit]

Sex is very mental. I think you know that. Unfortunately, from the above it sounds very much like maybe you're more interested in your own self validation than you are in pleasuring him. I hope you haven't mentioned any of this stuff to him, because that negative self absorbed attitude you're expressing right there might totally kill any chance for getting him to cum. Seriously, please think about what you're saying and make an attitude adjustment for the better. Then you might have a chance of making him cum.

[Kelser31]

Well yes I would like to know that I am good, but how am I supposed to know if I am pleasuring him if there is no reaction from him. The other day I was giving him head while he was driving and talking on the phone with his brother as if nothing was happening. Like obviously it's not doing much for him, like I want to rock this guys fucking world at least once.

[tinyclit]

I know that sounds harsh, but its the voice of experience talking.

[tinyclit]

My husband is the same way. He's a quiet person. He doesn't make any noise or give any indication of how much he's enjoying having his cock sucked (with an exception which I'll mention momentarily). But he loves having his cock sucked and he tells me all about what a fantastic cock sucker I am. From what you described above, try having him stroke his cock and cum into your wide open mouth for you to enjoy swallowing. If that works, then that's probably the way it has to be done. That's the way it has to be done with my husband. He simply cannot cum any other way. Yours may be the same way. Check it out. The one exception about showing his pleasure which I mentioned below occurs after I've swallowed his cum and while I'm sucking and licking his cock squeaky clean. That's when he has his orgasm and he makes lots of noise! It's absolutely fantastic. I LOVE IT! He can have a loud multiple orgasm that goes on seemly for minutes. With his cock in my mouth and me sucking and licking it clean.

[Kelser31]

Yeah that is what we do, he finishes by jacking off and when he is close he just jacks off into my mouth. But he is too sensitive after he cums for me to lick it or continue sucking :(. The only time i get any kind of noise out of him is if i visually please him, but that doesn't involve much sucking at all. just licking the length of it or rubbing his dick on my face or licking/sucking his balls or just acting really weird with it. He gets really excited when I do that stuff but that cuz he says i look hot when I do that and he usually pulls my away from his dick to make out after i do that stuff. but i guess it is more just me than him, i think i am just jealous that he got his dick sucked by a professional and she made him cum in like 3 min. I try to tell myself i am not, but it does bother me and i am pretty new to bjs and what not. I really appreciate your advice tho it does help with the part about my boyfriend being quiet during bjs.

[tinyclit]

We do this every morning and it's highly regimented. Any deviation or any negativity or lack of enthusiasm on my part and he won't orgasm and he might not even be able to cum at all. I absolutely love swallowing his cum, it's a huge turn on and extremely satisfying for me to have him cum into my mouth and swallow his cum, so I don't mind the regimentation at all and I do what it takes to make him cum. I've been doing this every morning for like 16 years now, love doing it and I've gotten quite good at it. Early on the thing that helped the most was watching cum swallowing videos. The one man one woman kind, not the one woman swallows 10 loads kind. Anyway, it works great and we have a blast doing it early every morning.

[electrollama]

I'd say handjobs are useful when you want to talk to your partner. That being said, i suggest periodic dirty talk and asking what he'd like and if he likes it.

[Proc1]

See him 6 days in a row. Don't let him cum even once. On the 7th day; proceed to give him a blowjob.

Remember; sex is just as much mental as it is physical and oral sex is included in this. Men are visual; seduce him completely, absolutely rock his world even before you take him in your mouth. Do some research; look around online. Ask him; have him tell you what feels the best.

Personally I used to have the same problem with my girlfriend. I didn't think I was capable of cumming via blowjob. The winning formula was me not cumming for a week and her incorporating a blowjob at first and then proceeding after 10 minutes of building me up, to use her hand AND mouth. The stimulation wanking him and sucking him provides will push him over the edge.

[ilovesexyfeet]

Love them and yes can cum just from head. Good tip is don't scratch it with teeth argggghhhhhhhh nothing worse and keep your mouth wet. Oh and always swallow, never waste liquid gold.

[Kelser31]

Yeah when i first started I had trouble with the teeth, and I have gotten a lot better at keeping my mouth wet (sometimes it gets too wet and then when I am done there is like a pool of saliva at the base of his dick which is kind of embarrassing). And I have only spit it once and that was when he jacked off into my mouth during a shower, and for some fucking reason that stuff was bitter as fuck, but he saw my face and told me to spit it out. It usually doesn't have much of a taste tho so he usually finishes in my mouth when ever we are in the right position for that. (or what ever part of my body he chooses) but I want so bad for him to be able to finish during a bj cuz I think it would be much hotter if he came in the middle of me succking his dick rather that him saying I am about to cum then I put my mouth to his dick to swallow, not sure if that makes any sense but yeah haha.

[ilovesexyfeet]

Yes it makes sense lol try holding your tongue on his sensitive bit (banjo string) mouth closed around the head and rub your tongue as fast as possible on it. It needs pressure continually for a while and not stopping and starting as this loses the feeling and the whole build up has to start again.

[Kelser31]

Ah I see, I often times open mouth on my way back up to either catch a breath or re-salivate my mouth, I guess I could work on not doing that so much. I didn't know that, thank you so much!

[fenixx0083]

Neither word that composes the name of the act is to be taken literally...

[DeepikaReddy]

That's a very lengthy question luv

[Dantheman101]

I have never cum from a bj only

[Kelser31]

What if it was from a professional blow job person? That is the only time my boyfriend has came from a bj and he said it was like 3 min. So I know it's possible for him, granted I haven't been sucking dick for that long, but it's like he doesn't even want to tell me what she did to make it so good. I just dont understand.

[Dantheman101]

I have no idea I suppose if I had not cum in a while would be more likely to happen

[Anonymous]

*I am quiet other than a little coaching and approval.
*Head is strongly distracting. No driving or talk on phone.
*I can cum from mouth alone but it is more work and she can tire out and slow down and I won't come.
*Nurse at the cap while stroking the shaft rapidly with a moderate grip. Mega fast stroking at the end.
*The central point do mouth play is passing the flared collar at the base of his cap though pursed lips while sucking lightly.
*The shaft is not very sensitive to teasing and tickling. It wants "milking" motion and pressure.
*Some guys, including me like to be fingered anally during a BJ. For those who like it, it almost guarantees a strong orgasm.

[Anonymous]

Have you tried stimulating his butt?

[Kelser31]

I want to so bad, but he is against anything going near his butt! I feel like he would like it so much tho!!! I have tried to sneak a finger near that area but he gets all weird and tells me that "it's too gay" but then I say it's only gay if another guy does it to him. We made a deal for next weekend tho, I asked if I let him lick my butt then i get to lick his and he said yes. If he likes it, I am going to make it a part of my bj routine. Sorry if that was tmi, but that is something my boyfriend and I talk about a lot haha

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds good! The area behis the balls is really sensitive and if you start there and then but a finger inside him and press towards his belly that will make him cum faster than you might think haha

[Anonymous]

Simple solution:
Tell him everything you just old us.
Then sit back while he tells you exactly how he wants his dick sucked, when to suck it, how frequently and from what angle.
Guys love head, but maybe he needs just that little something extra?
Like a little deepthroat or gagging.
You ask him!

[Kelser31]

I have tried, but he usually just says I am doing a good job. Twice he has said that I should also give him a hj inbetween sucking and also told me to just watch some porn to see how it is done. I tried the hand job thing but we have both discussed how bad I am and even joke how when a girl gives a guy a hj that he is usually just thinking how much better he is at it anyway. So we usually just do this thing where we alternate between me giving him a bj and him jerking off, but he always finishes it himself with his hand rather than telling me he is close so i can finish it for him. And I know he likes when I take it deep but he always stops me if I gag (I don't gag very noticeably but my eyes do water when it happens), I tell him he doesn't have to cuz I am pretty sure he likes it but he always like worried or something like that I don't know.