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Tips on sucking dick for the first time?

The question just pretty much says it all Guys; how do you like it done? Girls; how was your first time doing it, any tips? Thanks :)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I love giving head and I've been told I'm great at it, so I have tons of tips!
    Use a lot of tongue! Do like squiggly lines while his dick is in and out of your mouth.
    For your first time only take it as far down as you feel comfortable, you can always work on deep throating as you get more experience.
    Play with or suck his balls! Even if you just cup them in your hands and dont do much, it still feels good.
    You don't have to suck the whole time. If you're getting bored or your jaw starts to hurt just jerk him off for a bit, there's nothing wrong with that!
    Try sucking the hardest on the tip, i find that a lot of guys like that
    Be responsive to him, if you do something and he makes a noise or tells you he likes that, keep that in mind! If he requests something, only do it if you feel comfortable, you can always say no.
    If you're really unsure watch some porn to get some tips. If that makes you feel uncomfortable go to tumblr, turn the safe search off, and search blowjobs and you'll get a bunch of gifs and pictures.
    Personally, my first blowjob went pretty good, and it helped that he had a smaller dick honestly. A few months later his roommate told me that I gave him the best blowjob he has ever had soooo how about that for beginners luck?

    • haha thank you for taking your time and writing this long description, it was very useful :)

    • You're welcome!! I'm weird, i like talking about sex and sexual things... at one point i was considering becoming a sex therapist lol if you ever have any other questions though feel free to message me!

    • Try sucking the hardest on the tip, i find that a lot of guys like that. fuck I wouldn't want to kiss you or be your next boyfriend after sucking all them many cocks. You left nothing special in bed for your serious future husband. You'd go for kissing me and I think of all those cocks been in your mouth ewww www

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  • My first time was a little fumbling haha, I kept trying to remember everything I was "supposed" to do. But once you do it a few times it gets easier! :P

    Some tips, some guys like to take control so you can let him do it so long as you're comfortable with it. Use your tongue a lot, especially around the head and tip. Avoid getting your teeth anywhere near it. Alternate techniques like licking from the base to tip, sucking/licking the balls while using your hands, playing with the balls with your other hand while sucking. Also my ex liked when I spat on it to lube it up more lol.

    Be enthusiastic and never underestimate eye contact. It is very powerful. So every once in a while look up at him while you're at it, he will most likely go crazy for it ;)

    • Oh yeah, and pay attention to his reaction to whatever you're doing. That'll give you some ideas of what really works for him

    • Ugh I could go for that now that you made me hard :-(

  • My first time doing it was a lot of fun, I was worried at first, but once you get into it knowing you have total control over a guy like that is a big turn on.

    If he's circumcized, lick around his circumcision scar, that drives them crazy. Make light jabs with your tongue against his frenulum. Lick the bottom of the shaft, but mainly concentrate on the head of the penis, porn makes you think you got to have the full thing in your mouth at all times, but that's not true, more head play and occasionally go all the way.

    • Thank you :)

    • how old were you?

    • I was 17, he was 16

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love the head sucked hard while you are running your lips up and down over the rim of the head. I also like it deep. I also like when you take my cock out of your mouth and rub your open mouth up and down the sides and bottom of the shaft, down over my balls and to the area between my scrotum and my anus When you need a break, duplicate all these motions with your hands. Now take all of these techniques and alternate them. Let me know that you enjoy how my cock is reacting to all your touches, caresses, squeezes. Tug and and stroke it slow and then fast while you suck the head, Keep it well lubricated. Tell me where you want me to cum: on your lips, face. tits, ass. pussy. then as I cum you tug it and shoot my cum where YOU want it. I really like it when you pucker up like you are kissing the little slit and the tip of my cock when I am cumming and as I cum you open you open mouth slightly and let some in your mouth and as your stoking my cock you then rub the head of it on your soft lips and cheeks. Dann I need to go rub one out. I hope that helps you ladies. And I hope it turned you on.

    • Mmm damn I need to rub one out too now

  • First, a guy is gonna love whatever you do with his dick in or around your face/mouth but to get him to worship you... Get it wet with lots of saliva. Use your hand to stroke it first. Then put the head in your mouth and move your tongue around it. After a couple minutes of that get a steady pace going in and out of your mouth but always stimulating the head either in your mouth or with you hand. Cradle his balls, holding them like you would a hotdog bun. Build up a faster pace and go as deep as you can comfortable get him in you mouth keep a good rythem or he may get distracted. When his dick starts really twitching or he tells you he is going to cum keep it deep in your mouth and allow the cum to go down your throat and swallow. If you can't that's ok but guys really appreciate and feel more desired when you can swallow it all without a problem. Good luck. im sure hell love whatever you do.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Here's a My Take I wrote based on what I was told by the best cock sucker I was ever with. She was amazing.

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

    • This is useful, thank you :)

    • It was my pleasure. I'll hope for your MHO.

  • Don't shove it down your throat like they do in porn, the human trachea is not built for that shit. What you don't see is them cutting so she can vomit and cry before they keep filming, don't do that to yourself.

  • Suck don't blow
    Go deep if you can
    Lick it a lot
    Rub his balls with your hands gently
    Use your tongue a lot

    And there is no bad blowjob so no pressure and I'm sure he'll love it. Good luck!

    • Thank You! :)

    • you're very welcome, any time 😉👍

  • All guys are different. Ask the one you're doing it how he wants you to do it

  • Remember its about having fun, keep it simple do not try to overdo it. soft warm sucks and playful. Remember the key is also to use your tongue a lot.

  • Dont use your teeth! :))

    • That's the obvious #1 thing :)))

    • do you like huge one like mine?:)

  • Secretly feed your boyfriend a lot of pineapple itll make his cum taste better. and dont spit. it may be gross but where you gonna put that stuff anyways. Lots of toung less teeth

  • The first time I did it I was very surprised, I didn't really realise how easy it was gonna be. Just suck it without teeth like a lollipop while using your hands like a handjob as well.

    • You've kind of reassured me, thanks :)

    • No problem, what you want it to be is continued pleasure so it builds him up so don't stop and also make sure he washes first, gross.

    • Yeah of course, I'm not going near anything unwashed :)

  • come here to me :)

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