My boyfriend wants to try doing new things in the bedroom?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I aren't the most sexually active people but we're starting to break that. Last night he brought up the desire to want to try 69. The problem: I've never given him a blow job before. I don't really know how to. And I've attempted to before, but because of reasons I'm not going into detail about, I can't seem to do it. Which he understands and he's patient with me. He tells me I'll get it eventually, he loves me regardless, etc. I guess my question is: should I not do this until I've actually given him a blow job and I'm more comfortable with it, or should I just go for it and see what happens? Also if anyone has some advice for 69ing please feel free to share. Thank you!

[WattTyler]

69s are overrated. The're good as part of foreplay, but you don't want to worry about giving head when you're about to come.

Go down on him next time you're in bed and getting sexy. Just do it for about 30 seconds and move onto another part of foreplay. Start doing that as part of your foreplay and some time in the next few weeks you'll both be enjoying the blow job so much he'll explode.

[AustinMan]

Just try it all. Don't worry about how skillful you are. As for blow jobs, here're some tips:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

[Asker]

Thanks! I'll take a look at that~

[AustinMan]

Please. Let me know how it goes. I have a bunch of ideas. Role play sounds like a good idea.

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG!! I suggest you start discussing each of you's kinky, dark fantasies.

[tragicallyinlove]

I'd say do what you're most comfortable with. Personally I'd try and get better at my blowjob skills before I go and do 69. There are some good my takes on here about giving blow jobs if you need some advice.

[Asker]

I'll have to look them up, thank you :)

[Tdieseler]

Practice makes perfect. if he knows that you haven't really done it and are new, he shouldn't mind a few blunders eh...
also... watch porn for some tips on how...

[Jack_S]

Try the blow job first. Get that down and you will enjoy the 69 more

[meatballs21]

I think you should learn how to give BJs first, before you are trying to give on one with a flood of stimulation coming in through your clit...

69 advice? Lie on your sides. Whoever has to go on top (usually the girl) gets tired quickly otherwise.

[Nomad69]

My girlfriend and I tried it with me on top it felt good but was awkward. Next time we'll try her on top

[Kylesar]

I say just go for it
Hesitating will bring about non-action

[Anonymous]

Depends on what your blowjob problem is. Trying it in a 69 would certainly make it more arousing for you if we can assume you're fine with him going down (well, up in a 69. Girl near always goes on top for obvious reasons) on you.

All in all though, cheers for you two making your bedroom fun more exciting. Do remember it is meant to be fun, let go off all that pressure. He won't mind a screwup or two. We're not keeping track and it isn't some competition. Relax and enjoy it.