I'm thinking about having a MFM threesome, any tips?

[Anonymous]

I'm the girl in all this but I was wondering what positions, advice or tips you all have to make this go as smoothly as possible?

[redeyemindtricks]

As we all know... "Just sex" in girl-land isn't really the same as "just sex" in boy-land. At least not when it's one on one. Right?

Like, even if it's a thing that only lasts for a night, there's still SOME kind of connection that happens, there. Transient connection, sure -- and that sort of thing's fine, in general, for more sexually unrestricted girls (like me), if nothing deeper is present.
But, still... a connection. Still, in some sense, a "relationship", even if it only lasts a few hours. (This is why we don't get all wet from just seeing hot boys, no matter how perfect they are.)

Now, see, what's interesting about situations like MFM, is that they cross that line. They cross into the realm of REALLY being "just sex" -- in more the way that boys think of. Dissociated. No "relationship", there. Fundamentally different from anything that could happen in a 1-1 encounter.
(Disclaimer: Drunk sex might be different. I've never been drunk or anywhere close to it, so, I can't say.)

THAT is what you've gotta think about. You need to think about how that will affect you, and yr relationship (if you have one).

I remember the first time I did MFM.
I was with this boy I liked, and his roommate walked in on us, in flagrante. Right behind me, while I was pretty much in classic spit-roast position, as luck would have it.
Well, yeah, I just kinda arched my back a little bit, and gave roommate the green-light gesture. Fuck it, let's do this. LOL

I mean, I could actually FEEL the line being crossed, at that point.
The whole backstory/interaction thing just disappeared, and was replaced by raw, emotionally dissociated sex, with absolutely no emotional strings of any kind at all.

I mean, I don't think that could even be a thing, in a 1-1 situation. Don't even think it would be possible.

That sort of thing would leave a lot of girls feeling used, worthless, etc. A lot of girls wouldn't be ready for that. I had fun, but I'm also well into the tail of the bell curve when it comes to uninhibited, IDGAF sexual aggression.

So, you'd have to think about how that would feel. That could be absolutely anywhere from exhilarating to soul-shattering. Depending on you.

AND, you'd have to think about how it would affect yr relationship with yr boyfriend (if 33% of this is a boyfriend). Would yr emotional bond survive completely non-emotional sex? I don't know. You probably don't, either.

[This_is_my_username]

Smell good. After all you are going to be Sandwiched between to men..

[Answerdude]

I've done it in two different ways, with two different emotional contexts. 1) I did this a few times with my first girlfriend when we were 17 or 18. She would tell me she thought a certain guy friend of mine was cute, and we'd let him know. If he seemed interested, we'd invite him to join in with us and he'd get a blow job get to stick it in her after me. I enjoyed watching her with a dick in her pussy and in her mouth or hand at the same time, and she did too. 2) I did this a few times with guy friends. We'd be doing a bit of drinking with a girl we just picked up who was referred to us by a mutual friend (that happened a lot). Two or three guys would be drilling one hole each or getting a hand job, taking turns. It was with a girl we hardly knew (or not at all) but I think the girl usually enjoyed it more than the guys did. I think the important thing is for the girl to be at least an equal partner in everything, depending on what her relationship with each of the guys is.

[broadsword]

This very much depends on you and your sexual demeanour. If your submissive then just go with the flow but please set out before what your prepared to do and not. Also depends on the guys demeanour to and if they are ballot be in contact physically with each other.

Giving double bjs. Spit roasted giving one oral the other rear vaginal sex.
Giving and receiving oral simultaneously. Double vaginal intercourse.
Then it comes down to wether you enjoy anal too. So all the same continuations but with anal as well as vaginal.

[broadsword]

Thanks for the MHO

[MadeInAmerica]

Most positions will involve you dick in either of your holes at the same time. As long as they males and you kinda work together so everyone gets what they want out of it I would imagine it will be a good time and run smoothly.

[ksoma]

same advice I give for every threesome question:
1) know who you are with
2) trust who you are with
3) set certain ground rules before hand
4) if in a relationship with either, make sure jealousy won't be an issue
and, just because you'll be receiving two guys? Make sure you're on the pill, they have condoms, you have Plan b, your not at your fertile point of the month, etc etc. Unwanted pregnancy from a threesome is grounds for a terrible headache.

[madiangel]

just be very natural
it is not much different than with one guy only
state your limits at the start, make sure both guys agreed to your limits

[f_ckmeup]

Just two. And they'll go inside you. *Badum Tss*

[Tarvold]

Lube, condoms, birth control, and a video camera for fine tuning your performance for next time.

[Mr2kinky]

Ooooh yea!!! I've done a few with my wife, they rock!
One guy fucks you while u suck the other..
Switch them around after a while...
Double penetration (anal/vaginal) if they're comfortable with their (junk) being so close together...
Suck one and stroke the other and alternate back n forth.. That's about it unless they are bisexual, then the limits are almost inexistent.

[abc--123]

Depend if yiu want spit roast or double penetration

[Anonymous]

Really depends on what you're into and what you want out of it.

If you're doing it with a boyfriend I'd probably have to advice against it unless he's really into the idea too. Threesomes screws over a lot of relationships.

Otherwise, have fun with it. Be clear about what all of you want and what you do not. I'm not saying to plan the details but you know, a sentence or two about dos and donts help.
And don't expect any emotion at all to be a part of this. I mean, NADA. Zero. None. Ultimately enjoy yourself and let them know you are.

[Anonymous]

Make sure you have lots of lube handy just in case otherwise have fun and go with it