How to give the best blow job?

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Wouldn't let me add details. The first time I gave a blowjob to my boyfriend he was really turned on. That was my first time ever giving anyone a blowjob. So what are some of the things you guys recommend or enjoy?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • For a short answer, you only need to follow five basic rules:

    Rule number 1. Do not get your teeth in contact with his dick.
    Rule number 2. Enjoy sucking his dick as if it's your best meal.
    Rule number 3. Firmly suck his dick as if squeezing the last juicy bit of a lollipop.
    Rule number 4. Occasionally maintain eye contact with him while sucking his dick.
    Rule number 5. While sucking and stroking, genuinely tell him you love his dick, you impatiently want it inside your wet pussy, and praise the size of his dick.

    I guarantee these five basic rules are all you need to transform you from a neophyte to a blowjob goddess.

    For a longer answer:
    You need to appeal to his five sensory receptors, including eyes, mouth, ears, skin and nose while doing the blowjob. It is not an easy feat but doable.

    Provide him the following five stimuli to stimulate his sensory receptors:

    # Sight
    Enjoy sucking his dick as if it's your best meal. Firmly suck his dick as if squeezing the last juicy bit of a lollipop while occasionally maintaining eye contact with him. Throw in a 69 position blowjob with you on top. The sight of your wet pussy would set him ready to ooze his nut.

    # Sound
    A wet, sloppy blowjob is musical erotica to a man's ears. It is the transmitter of your passion. Turn up the erotic volume with these lines: tell him you love his dick, you impatiently want it inside your wet pussy, and praise the size of his dick.

    # Smell
    Every woman and man has a sexual smell. The problem is, our sensitivity to our SO's smell reduces or vanishes after prolonged exposure. To make up for this natural shortcoming, use scented oils while doing the blowjob. The fragrance should be his favourite smell.

    # Taste
    Allow him to oral you while on the 69 position.

    # Texture
    Do not get your teeth in contact with his dick otherwise it kills the sensation. Get your boobs to his dick while doing the blowjob. Your skin against his skin is stimulating. Most importantly, suck, suck and really suck with pressure, and vary the sucking with tongue swirling the penis head and balls.

  • Only when he gets blazie about them do you need to consciously train to improve. Experience is the best teacher, so long as you're reacting to HIS feedback... each guy is different so becoming excellent with him may not crown you queenBJ with others.

    The essence is to
    Worship his little head, it's a selfish pig that loves Anything tactile
    adopt the concept that you are trying to urge pent up sperm out of his sack & out his head... so you are squeezing it out of his balls, creating a vacuum at the other end, then pump, pump, pumping while making his head go crazy with humming, light teething, tongue

Most Helpful Girl

  • When it comes to giving a blowjob 'correctly' and him finding it super hot, enthusiasm trumps all. Whatever you're doing, looking like you're enjoying yourself will make it feel a million times better. So just look like you're really into it, ideally actually be into it, and you're halfway there! The mental aspect of knowing the girl has your dick in her mouth and is not only genuinely enjoying herself, but wants to do what she can to let you enjoy it, will make ANY guy feel like a king way more than any porn-star quality techniques.

    Focus mostly on the head. The shaft itself doesn't have that many nerves on it so though paying attention to the area as a whole feels good plus builds anticipation, make sure to flick/lick around the head when you're coming up. It's a good way to maximize surface area being touched to just put the outer fourth in your mouth, swirl your tongue around it and the head, while paying attention to the shaft/balls with your hands. Two birds with one stone!

    Most guys like some ball play. Start gently, with just barely making contact with your hands to feel out this particular guy's sensitivity to pain down there. Once you've got that taken care of, it feels good to suck on one ball at a time, though again not too hard as it's quite a delicate area. Most say to minimize hand use during a blowjob, as they can give themselves a handjob the best. But as long as you make sure to incorporate some mouth action, I'm sure you'll hear no complaints.

    My guy loves it when I get the whole shaft nicely lubricated with some spit at first before paying attention to just the head & last 1/3 of the dick. Don't forget to include lots of tongue action here, like swirling, etc.. While you're doing that, right under your mouth, work the shaft with your hand. Moving up and down in tandem, or doing twisting motions works well. Another variation on that is to work the last 1/3 with you hand, doing a twisting/stroking motion with extra stimulation on the head with your palm when you move your hand outwards and at the same time, pay attention to his balls with your mouth.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Look up "grapefruit style" on YouTube, it's pretty educational.

  • I don't know. I haven't had every different kind yet, so how can I tell until I do?

  • Ask each partner to give instructions because we're all different

  • no hands, and act like you want it. slurp

  • it is like every thing, you want to be good, you need to learn
    talk to your guy, ask what he likes or doesn't like, ask him to drive and you do exactly what he says...
    you may get more advice from other guys too

  • With your mouth

  • suck on balls too and make an eye contact with your partner while giving blowjob :)

  • 1. Use teeth
    2. You may need a knife.
    3. Make sure its not too messy after that.

  • I only know how to enjoy a good blowjob I don't know the answer to that question.