Hiring a prostitute?

[Anonymous]

18 years old, never had a girlfriend, never had sex, never even kissed a girl, basically a total fucking loser. Anyway, since I wanted to find a girl for myself, for about 6-7 years now, and failed (like in everything i do in my fucked up life), I realized I don't wanna die a virgin, so I thought about paying a prostitute, and doing it. However, I also don't have money right now, but I should start working somewhere later this year, so I just need some advice and experiences regarding prostitutes. Where to find them, what can I expect etc?

[Dragonblood21]

First of all, you shouldn't be validating your worth by how the opposite sex views you. Your views is what defines you as a "loser". You can have all those things you want, but if you view yourself as a "loser", then guess what? You're still a loser. The moment you stop viewing yourself as a loser, is the moment you stop being a loser.

Don't put that money into a prostitute, put it into something that will make you a better person. Maybe a gym membership, or maybe something for college, or anything you find passion for. This is coming from someone who HAS done the prostitute thing because I was virgin. Twice. And it didn't change anything at all.

What can you expect? 30 mins to an hour of good masturbation, that's pretty much it. There is no emotion, consideration, you can't even tell if the person is enjoying it. It might as well be masturbating but just with using another persons body instead of your hand.

[MadeInAmerica]

Do have some terminal disease? Your only 18. There are tons of guys that didn't get laid in high school. I think you need to do some positives things in your life to boost your self-esteem and confidence because not having that is a turn off for women.

[Asker]

I have trained 3 sports, 2 martial arts, and 3-4 different forms of art. It's not about activities. I tried everything already. No I don't have a terminal disease but I never had anything good happen to me my whole fucking life, so I will probably kill myself somewhere in the next few years. I wanna try sex before that

[MadeInAmerica]

That's depressing. Your not sick, injured, disabled or anything like that so I would say that life isn't as bad as it seems. Will getting laid turn it all around? No. I don't think a loser knows 3-4 different forms of art and trains in sports. I think your being hard on yourself. Good things don't happen you make it happen. Find a job, work hard and do things that make life enjoyable. As for the prostitute you pay you fuck them for a couple of minutes then you leave most likely feeling worse than before.

[Mustachekitteh]

I can see where you fail at getting a girl. Your really negative and negativity is something you can't hide from others. You need to work on being more positive.

You don't want a prostitute or an escort.

[Anonymous]

Um... You're only 18. Your life isn't over if you haven't had those things yet. Stop being desperate and do something useful with your time and money other then finding a dirty hooker.

[Asker]

Easy for you to say, you don't know what it's like. First of all I'm a loser in all aspects of life, and there is a much higher chance of me blowing my brains out before I turn 25 than growing old, so 18 is not that young. And second, if I don't do it with a hooker, it will never happen to me

[Raymond_Reddington]

well once he's done, he could just kill her and take his money back.. (grand theft auto lol :P)

[Opinion Owner]

Well with a mentality like that I doubt you'll get very far in many aspects of life.

[Asker]

Mentality built on experience. Instead of enjoying my youth like every young person should, I have been suffering my whole life, just one shitstorm after another. I realized that god, if he even exists, must hate me with a passion, or whatever somebody believes in. I tried achieving many different things over the years. The fact that I couldn't even get laid tells you enough.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like your majorly low self esteem is an issue. You can't expect people to like you if you can't even like yourself.

[Raymond_Reddington]

don't you think that if god hates you that much, he would've killed you already? god hates no one.

[Asker]

Well, as I said, I never had any success in anything my whole life, I never had anything good happen to me either. If I was positive or had high self esteem, I would have to be crazy, because if life has taught me anything it's that I'm a worthless piece of shit, who will never be happy

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should seek a therapist

[Asker]

@Raymond_Reddington No, because killing me would end the agony. This way he tortures me on and on. Torture is worse than death. (your username, as in The Blacklist?)

[Raymond_Reddington]

i agree with the anonymous opinion owner

[Raymond_Reddington]

as if god has nothing better to do than to ''torture'' one single human being. and yes, Lizzy. Red from the Blacklist.

[kylah]

You are only 18, why do you think you'll die a virgin? I just don't think getting a prosit utensils so you could lose your virginity is a good thing.

[NJ_Casanova]

I've never used them, my buddy has and told me the girl will basically do what you want. They are there to satisfy you and if they aren't good they don't get much call backs.

[karahiri]

i think you're gonna be disappointed. be safe.

[Longjacketanx]

Bro I'm the same way you don't need a prostitute I'll admit I thought of getting an escort once. I get EXTREMLY horny and when months go by without sex I'm EXTREMLY sexually frustrated but I haven't dipped that low and I have had sex. I get it life is hard, and relationships are even harder to keep when money is low and hope is low, but just get out there talk to girls really get to know some people go to a club, or bar, even McDonald's hit on someone see if they're feeling you. I'm sure you'll find someone who will like you and respect you more if you don't pay for sex. Go to a strip club too to release some of that frustration. Sometimes dancers date their clients too there is hope everywhere you just gotta look for it and work harder.

[Elena_the_Star]

Go for it, don't see why not. Do be safe and use a condom. Good luck and enjoy

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't hire a prostitute, save money and go to the bunny ranch, you'll have a much better experience with the girls their and how they treat you overall than some prostitute.

[BertMacklinFBI]

there*

[oldanddecrepid]

I think you will regret it but if you really have to, then so be it...

[honestlythough]

There are plently of people older than you that are still virgins and theyre fine
I mean ur only eighteen, why dont u wait a bit more
its ur choice tho

[multilevel]

Agree , I am almost 30. He is merely 18

[OrdinaryGentleman]

I would suggest doing it just so you can have an experience. Anyways just give it a whirl, go to backpages. com of whichever state or city you are in and you will see a list of prostitutes.

[takumii]

Think about it. Is this how you want it to be? Your first sex? With a whore? Nothing to look back and say " Gosh, that was awesome"
If someone asks you how did you lose your virginity, you'd say " I fucked a prostitute" .. Really? Really?

[Yumix]

you are 18, many guys and girls your age are virgins. give it a couple of years more until you throw it away like that

[abc--123]

Depends what country you are in

[Smoothguy23]

I would suggest getting a lets call them "profesional" escort who will probably be more exspencive but a lot cleaner and a lot more enjoyable for a first experience.. Have a look on "adultwork. com" type in your postcode and see what's close to you.. Enjoy buddy!

[Anonymous]

You're fucking 18 years old not 80. And judging by the fact that you haven't gotten attention from any girls and the fact that your solution is a prostitute suggests you are a psychopath. Get help.

[Smoothguy23]

Don't be so harsh on your replys.. we don't know him as a person.. And also if your Guna slate people don't do it anon it's pathetic...

[Opinion Owner]

@Smoothguy23 Three other people seem to disagree with you on that. Who's pathetic did you say?

[Anonymous]

Just wait for the right girl dude.

[Anonymous]

you won't enjoy it as much as having a girlfriend you really love. having sex with someone you love increases the desire.(im a virgin., dont take it for granted)

[Anonymous]

Use condom