Boyfriend says he can't tell if came or not?

[Anonymous]

Okay so my boyfriend have been having sex for a couple weeks now. I was a virgin, he was not. I recently got on birth control but before that we were mostly using the pull out method. When we were doing that, it was pretty obvious when he came. But now that he knows he has nothing to worry about, he suddenly says he can't tell if he came or not. How can he not know? It makes no sense. He said it felt so good the whole time, and that he thinks he came. Part of what gets me off is knowing and seeing/hearing him come, so it's kind of discouraging to have him not know. Does it mean it doesn't feel that good for him? Which wouldn't make much sense because at one point he said he was shaking from how good it was. Guys is this normal? How can you not tell?

[Anonymous]

Orgasm doesn't really equal ejaculation. He won't miss ejaculating, because well, that's very physically noticeable to us. As for an orgasm, he might just be so lost in all the pleasure that he's not chasing that big O.

You should be able to feel it when he ejaculates though, can't you? XD

[Jack_S]

Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Very rarely, men can do one and not the other.

Also, of course he still enjoys it. Even if he doesn't orgasm there are so many other womderful things about sex

[NJ_Casanova]

He would still feel the contractions and orgasms.. so I have no idea of what he's talking about.

[Marttinez]

he's full of shit.

[TonyRyan]

Oh, he knows, he's just not admitting it, lol.

[Anonymous]

I have ALWAYS known when I had an ejaculation. This doesn't make sense to me.