What comes next after making out?

Question

Me and my boyfriend make out. We're not gonna have sex, so we always stop it. I keep my hands above the waist, usually running them all over his upper body and through his hair, grabbing it sometimes. His hands are anywhere from either on my butt, on my boobs, running up and down my back, or cupping my face/back of head. He grabs my butt over clothes, except for the other day when i had on yoga pants and he slipped his hands a few inches down the waistband, then when I had running short on and he slipped them up the shorts to grab my butt. He grabs my boobs too - either over clothes, on top of bra, or pulling the bra down to just get skin. My bra or shirt hasn't come off yet. The other day I was laying on the couch with him on top while we were making out and he pulls my shirt up to show my bra, starts kissing my stomach and chest, and then pulls the bra cups down so he could kiss and suck on my boobs a little bit. He's told me before on different occassions that he likes my boobs, or that he likes my butt, or "You should probably leave because I wanna take your shirt off." and then the other day we were making out and he whispers "I wanna see you naked." 

I get a little nervous about all this. What is he gonna try to do next? What's the normal progression? Remember we dont want to have sex, but I kinda just wanna know what normally would go from where we are now?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Every couple is different, but I think "normally" it would go to taking clothes off, and then some sort of sex - whether it is oral, intercourse, whatever. But obviously all couples go at their own pace - and if you don't want to have sex yet, that's okay!
If you feel comfortable, you could go further with nudity but just set limits. So you could start to make out with your shirt off, but keep your pants on. Or you could take off shirt/pants, but leave undergarments on. It's really whatever you are comfortable with.

Cmasterson · Accepted Answer

Well it's really up to you, you have to set your own boundaries on if your'e ready to make next steps like being naked and still making sure you will be able to stop and not let things go further than you want it to be. Are you saving sex for marriage and or too soon? Does this choice include oral sex and fingering?

Azara · Accepted Answer

you set the boundaries. he can't just do whatever he wants. you shouldn't be nervous as if whatever happens happens. TALK to him.

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

Sex is what boyfriends are for. If you don't want sex, don't have a boyfriend.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Your next step is to realize that although you have set a rule of no sex till marriage, that is actually what you are both getting so hot towards doing. You are both physically mature enough to desire sex. Add that you have a relationship that is adding to that. And then you allow things to happen as they are and you are heading toward having.

And why not? What is your reason for wanting to wait till marriage, and why are you not getting married yet?

godfatherfan · Answer

If your this far you would "normally" already have been having sex. Your 20, why would you wait any longer? If you already let him touch you and see you , what could possibly be the issue?

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Hand jobs.. fingering Bjs and him eating you out then sex PIV or anal

BonitaChica · Answer

Oral comes after making out!

CHARismatic110 · Answer

If you don't wanna have sex then you should probably stop doing all the heavy groping and such because that's what comes next.

bubbakong2006 · Answer

He’s definitely going to want to see and feel your boobs and will want to feel your pussy nothing wrong with letting him play with you mayby once your comfortable with him seeing or feeling you he could cum on your boobs and play with your pussy you can both cum without actually having sex and it feels great he wants you you know that