How can I make my boyfriend cum really quickly?

Question

I really love having sex with my boyfriend but sometimes he's really horny and im just not in the mood so ill give him a handjob to ease his tension until I feel like sex.
Sometimes its a bit of a chore.
Does anyone have any tips or handjob techniques that will make him cum really fast so that I can get it over and done with?

Orkséncé · Accepted Answer

A major component of turning your man on is satisfying his ego (not just his penis.) When you are enthusiastic about sex, it’s a powerful subconscious signal to your man that you are attracted to him and turned on by being with him.

This is massively satisfying for his ego, which turns men on in an incredibly powerful way.

When you are not very responsive and involved during sex, you are doing the opposite. You are sending your man a subconcious signal that you are not that turned on by him and not that attracted to him.

As a result, you are saying to his ego that you don’t think much of him. This is exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to turn him on and make him cum hard.

Everyone has a fantasy, specific sex technique or position that turns them on much more than regular sex. You need to find out what your man’s fantasies are. This is going to make him orgasm and cum much harder than when you are doing plain old missionary position with him.

It could be something really normal like you dressing up and roleplaying or it could be a bit more out there. It’s absolutely vital that you keep an open mind and are not judgmental when discussing it with your man along with being excited to try something new with him.

Wishing you the best of luck.

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

No one knows how to please that boy like... that boy.
So... Watch him play with himself.

Study absolutely everything about what he does -- and copy it all meticulously. The speed, the rhythm, how he changes it up as he approaches orgasm... ALL of it.
(Then you can add yr own flourishes with yr fingers -- or, especially, yr mouth -- since he doesn't have those options to use on himself.)

It's weird how few women think to do this. It's like, hel-LO, girly! The answer key is right there! Lmao

Intraluminal · Accepted Answer

First, making sex, or having sex, when its a chore is a very bad idea. It tirns love and intimacy into a job. I really suggest you not do it. If he's horny, let him live with it.

That said, if you fell turning intimacy into a job is a good idea, then simply tease him beforehand. You don't even need to touch him. Just show off your body touch your breasts a bit show yourself off and get him going. Kiss him passionately, it'll be over fast.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Here's some ideas:

Soteris · Answer

Perhaps buy a fleshlight and jerk him off with that?

Miles101 · Answer

Alternate speed and rotate the wrist. Licking the shaft would be nice as well

ihateheroicleishin · Answer

Buy him overwatch.

i1T2daty · Answer

Get him ariused before hand so he's really turned on and hard. Use lingerie, behavior - a little whorish is good. Act out of character so he's surprised to see this lewd side of you. If done well, he should be ready to pop asap.

Spiorad_Aisce · Answer

Might not be for everyone but prostate massage will have him coming like a train.

Mesonfielde · Answer

I have a feeling if he felt that sparing some of his time to show you some intimacy is a "chore" and he should get it done as quickly as possible then you'd be offended beyond measure.

GingerGuy · Answer

Honestly, do something for yourself or have him do something to get you in the mood before hand so it's not a "chore" He probably senses that it's a "chore" for you and therefore it's delaying his orgasm a bit. He knows you're not into it. Good for you for doing it anyway by the way! :) But, try and get yourself in the mood more. Whatever you need to do. Otherwise this will become an issue between you in the future, if it hasn't already.

cth96190 · Answer

Use one hand to play with his balls and use the tip of your tongue to lick the V on the underside of the head of his penis.
Or. . . you could be a more loving girlfriend and suck him off, while playing with his balls.
No man can last long when a woman does that.

countrydude · Answer

Play with his balls as you are giving hand job. It you really want him to cumm fast do 69 him on his back you on top. Your ass and pussy right with in tongue distance let him play with you. You can use your mouth or all hands or both. Play with balls and perineum Trust me he will cum within minutes.