I want to try bondage, is it weird? Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to try it?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I watching porn, it's always bondage. My boyfriend does not know that. The idea really turns me on and it's something I want to try for myself. It doesn't have to be full on whips and gags or anything, but even just being tied up would be great. Is my boyfriend going to think this is weird? Is he going to judge me or look at me differently for wanting this? If I do ask him, how should I go about it? We've been together almost a year, our sex life is really good and we communicate about everything else really well. It's just something I'd really like to try.

[super_k_c]

I think you should you definitly try it with him. Like the others here say, talk to him about it. You can always ease into it by showing him pictures of toys on the web that'll lead to talking about it. I'm sure he wouldn't be opposed to it. Plus it will probably spicen up both your sex drives and make things a lot more fun in bed.

[AustinMan]

Is this helpful?

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7250-safe-words-how-do-i-get-my-partner-to-dominate-me-in-bed

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG!! How'd it go?

[Imbisexual19]

My husband knows I love it and he loves doing it to me! We have handcuffs too. A lot of people are actually into it. Just be like "baby, would you be interested in trying bondage? I'd really like to be tied up during sex." and see what he says. Just be open and honest 😊

[HeelLover]

Nope, tons of people do bondage. It's very kinky and fun.

[enis_Penvy]

No way to know if he'll think it's weird unless you ask him

[KeiranByrne]

Flexibility and openness to new experience is all good.

[didden6]

Woman have more extreme fantasies than men butt if he is a dominant type?
Than he will probably like bondage

[goaded]

Learn about safe words, and make sure he respects them.

[AhGojira]

If he'll pull your hair and fuck you hard, then tying you up fair game...

[AnonRom]

He might think its weird but he will probably also view it as a turn on (it is a personal thing you would know better than anyone here)

[badboy666]

Just straight out tell him you want to be tied to the bed and ravaged.

I think most guys would be fine with giving it a shot.

[gobsmacked3]

I would tell her to bend over my knee and spank her

Then bind her and have my way

[edgyfox]

It's normal and as long as you're safe there's no harm in trying new things.

[anonman32]

its no problem, its not weird. i would go about it like this. i would tell him you wanted to try something new, some experimentation. and ask him what he thinks about bondage. tell him you would love to try.

[Keith469]

If you can't talk honestly w him about ur sexuakl fantasies, your relationship is doomed in the long run.

[Dimmu]

Most of people not into these stuff in real
They may talk about how cool is it but in real they are not
So good luck

[Jeeevan]

Just bring it up and ask him if he's willing to give it a try.

[Jude_Wills]

Its hot you can go for a sub or Dom or both

[masterkamasutra]

problem with most men they dont understand this kind of feeling in females, you are normal and talk with him, if he is good understanding guy he would easily do with you. it surely a fun.

[Amur8711]

I wouldn't mind trying it with her.

[CitizenSid]

lol, ask him for that and he will love u even more than before
WE LOVE IT

[Anonymous]

Fuck if he chokes you then he'll yes he'd be into tying you up.

[Anonymous]

Go for it!