Why do guys like slapping a girl's butt during sex?

Guys slap a girl's butt even when not having sex. But that's playful and understandable... but I think they act rough and aggressive when slapping during sex. Why? Is this because of porn that they saw or it's instinctive and they like doing these things for odd reason.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It may well be partly to do with what a guys think u want irrelevant of where the influence came from but if you don't like it just tell him what you like more... this is why sex is only a fraction the mportance of character and personality... we can teach our lovers and mould them ;)

  • I blame the butt. It stares into my soul and whispers "slap me bad boy" and it has to be done.

    • lol.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think its instinctive personally. I've never had sex but that would be something I'd like to happen

  • I don't think it's a porn thing but a release of sexual energy in a way.

  • Because it can be incredibly hot and a sign of dominance.

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  • My girlfriend loves it, so I've never really questioned it.

  • That's what they are into.

  • I like seeing it jiggle and to cause her pain. She likes pain.

  • Possibly both or it also could be because the girl likes it as well

  • It more has to do with dominance and the fact that women like to be dominated and enjoy pain in some instances like being choked, spanked, hair pulled etc.

    • I don't know, only if you're into those kinds of things would you like it. I'm not into having pain.

    • I said a lot of girls not necessarily you ^^ it's not for everyone but most of the girls I know enjoy being dominated in such a way. Course I'm a masochist so I enjoy pain myself but not all guys like it. Same like you don't but others do.

  • Because they usually ask me to do it

  • Because men are naturally aggressive and rough we aren't women after all. Its a caveman instinct, we are all still cavemen no matter how many layers of behavioural rules society puts in place.

  • Don't ask me, is the right hand that did it, not me.

  • I dont do it because of porn. I do it because it brings more intensity to the whole act. Its a bit animalistic if i may say. I also like grabbing and smacking my girls ass, why not do it during sex too? Plus my girl loves it when i do that. She gets wild.

  • Cuz its coo'

  • thats spanking, and i love spanking her

    • but i'll do it only when we are having sex

    • is it bc you've watched porn? and are you in s & M?

    • nope, because i like that, or it could be because im into bdsm. if thats makes any sense

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  • Odd reasons

  • I just love seeing her ass jiggle.

  • its about dominating.

  • during sex you love to see how the man do actions and use you for sex, that slap is one of the part of it to show, i am riding you.

  • because it feels great

  • We like your butt

  • it depends on the what shape the butt is.. some are too sexy and round.. where we do feel like spanking it.. in a naughty way.. and the sound of the spanks turns us on... its nothing to do with porn.. porn stars do what we have in mind... what about you? do u like the act?

    • I don't know, it doesn't really turn me on. Just wondering why guys love to do it.

    • ask him not to hurt you... just small touch a and caress would work then..

  • they have it in their nature

  • Guys like to do it to a cute girl they like yeah

    But do girls like it or let less decent guys get away with more? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a26543-every-women-is-slutty-unveil-the-inner-dirty-girl-within

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