It's a none issue for me and in my relationship, I'm the one with the high count. I've really never cared enough to ask my girlfriend what her was, but she volunteered the info one day, 1 prior to me, and then she asked me mine. I told her without pride or regret that the count is roughly 19 (I say roughly because I used to do A LOT of drugs and those years are really foggy). Her reaction was to ask if have I been tested since my last partner before her (yes, because I'm not a douche) and she stated that my past experience explains my openess about sex.
I'm fully aware that every woman I have been with had a life before me and with that comes past experiences. I love my girlfriend for who she is in the here and now not what she was doing in previous years
I wouldn't call a high body count bad. I judge a girl based on what she does with that information not the information itself. For example I don't trust women who feel the need to lie about it. If you don't want people to know just don't tell them. Assuming that I want to hear a high number or a low number is the quickest way to push me away. I don't hang around women who flaunt it. I really dislike people in general that like reminding you of how much (or how little) sex they've had. Whether it be 50 or 0. I have never asked someone their body count yet so many people decide that's information I NEED to know about them. It's best to just not bring it up unless someone asks then just be vulnerable and tell them the truth.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The way I think about it is if it was the other way would it bother me? But even if it does if I really like the girl I would be able to get pass that no problem
When it comes to sexual history, the best policy is don't ask, don't tell.
EXCEPT when it comes to STDs and whether or not one's a virgin...
@Sapioit STDs yes, V card, absolutely not!
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7582-giving-up-your-v-card-avoiding-a-lifetime-of-misery
Well, in some cases knowing if it's a virgin you're dealing with can make a bad sex seem not as bad... by lowering expectations...
Promiscuity isn't a bad thing but there is cause for concern about if she is clean. When it comes to dating, it might be harder to trust that the promiscuous girl has renounced the sexual conquests proven by her "body count" to the girl who has only ever given herself to previous boyfriends, assuming she even had any. I know many women in their twenties that are not interested in abandoning the weekend stupors and sleeping around when they can. I imagine you probably aren't done yet either.
Otherwise, I think most men probably know that if you're to have a one-night stand with him, he most likely wouldn't be the first.
Just don't talk about it, and lie when you're asked to.
Personally, I believe anyone should be able to do what they want sexually, as long as it's consensual and legal.
Most guys wouldn't agree with that though.
I don't care as long as the persons clean and gets tested regularly.
As far as I'm concerned yes it's bad, why would I want a girl that had 14 guys on her?
I could do 14 in a week, and the following week still be just as horny as before I did them.
No.
It is not bad in and of itself but it is a deal breaker for many guys, me included.
Are they really referring to it as a "body count" now? smh
Yes. She will be worn out in 10 years. The wear is in her heart and mind.
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