Why don't women feel impulse for their opposite sex but why do they get married to their opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

Women's body arouse men it's a straightforward answer. But women feel neutral to men body because men body isn't as aesthetically pleasing as women rather women body arouse them because they find women body more sexually appealing and sexually arousing. After puberty guys instinctively feel intensive urge for their opposite sex. Whenever they see attractive, sexy girls their sexual impulse get activated and it's provoked their sex drive that's why they want their opposite sex, they feel urge for their opposite sex. But according to GaG girls, girls are totally different from guys. After puberty they feel mild urge for a guy only if they already have an emotional connection with him. But whenever they see sexy women they feel arousal because women body is much more sexier that guys. Women have sexual ornaments ex: prominent breast, curvy butt, smooth skin, sexy leg but guys have no sexual ornament in their body, they have disgusting hair in their body and their body is not soft it's rough. Before feeling aroused by a guy they have to know him, they have to have emotional connection with him other wise a guys can never be provoked their sex drive. Girls only see their conversant guys in sexual ways. They are incapable to see stranger in sexual way. Even their sexual instinct fixed for a guy not guys. After puberty they don't feel sexual arousal or attraction when they see guys they don't know or don't have emotional connection with them. They only feel it around their guys they have emotional bond/attachment. They don't feel any kind of sexual pressure or urge when they have no emotional connection with guy because girls only feel it to a guy they have emotional connection. If it's the case then before a guy approach them they feel neutral to guys? Why do they choose guys to be their potential partner? I get confused. Do girl only feel lust to their husband and boyfriend after marriage because before marriage any sexual contact is sin?

[JaniyaRose]

If that was true, there would be no market for sexy fireman calendars ;)

Women do find men sexual attractive. There are some differences in the attraction and to how women react to the attraction, but the sexual attraction is most definitely there.

I can't speak for all women, but for me my "lust" is a completely separate attraction to my "potential partner" attraction. The guys I feel lust for are generally big hot muscley guys. Pretty stereotypical =P But the guys I envision actually forming a relationship with are more the intellectual types. I find both types of guys sexy in their own way though.

But I need an emotional connection too. Sexy guys I might fantasise about, but if they don't do anything for me mentally/emotionally when I talk to them; then all the sexy disappears for me.

[Asker]

I don't know any women who is a fan of sexy fireman calendars. Lust and sexual attraction is same for women? See here most girls say when they see random guys in the street, shopping mall or tv they just appreciate this beauty same as they appreciate women's beauty. But they only feel attraction (don't know what does attraction mean to them) after knowing them, after a long term emotional attachment and it's a precondition. If they see guys but don't know him personally or have no emotional connection then they just recognize that the guy is hot. They feel lust only if they have emotional connection with him. I don't know why girls are too different. For me - I don't want to have sex with someone until I've formed some kind of emotional bond — but that doesn't mean I don't feel attraction sooner or my body don't react when I see hot women.

[JaniyaRose]

I myself am not the sexy fireman calendar type. But mostly because I have internet and netflix and things, so there's no need for another source of hot guys ;) Honestly, I don't know what to tell you. Maybe the girls you talk to have lower libidos, or are trying to play innocent. But every girl/women I've ever talked to about stuff like this definitely lusts after men. In boarding school, many of the girls had posters of hot guys on their walls. Where I work at in retail, the girls/women will often comment on hot male customers that come through the shop. Lust does not need an emotional connection. Lust is often purely based on physical attraction. And women are certainly capable of lusting after men. Building relationships is different though. Like I said, the guys who I feel Lust for are often completely different to the guys I actually date.

[Kooky1]

A big part of attraction is getting to know someone (could be their sense of humour that makes them hotter than hell) but thats not to say a woman. isn't attracted to a man without getting to know him.

[Asker]

@JaniyaRose Most GaG girls say this though they are straight girls, when they see guys they don't find them attractive or they may find them attractive but feel nothing, they just appreciate it same as they appreciate nice roses, nice car etc. Guys body do nothing for them if it's random guy and they don't know about their personality or sense of humor. But they can feel attraction or arousal if they have emotional connection with the guy or they already have chemistry with him, otherwise guys and girls are same for them though sexy girls arouse them and they don't need to know her personality. That's why I get confused.

[Asker]

@Kooky1 Do women feel attraction initially solely based on guys appearance if they see him in the street or shopping mall?

[Kooky1]

Im always horny and have always had a high sex drive. If i saw a guy that I thought was attractive I'd check him out if I could. Since I've been with my partner I dont even notice other men though. I love his body. And seeing him naked. Everything about him just makes me tingle. 😂😂

[Asker]

But when you were single you weren't feel anything when you see attractive guys? Every time when you see attractive guys what do you feel and what do you thing? Is it same when every time you see attractive women? No difference?

[ShaunaM95]

This your perspective of what girls are like. It's not actually what girls are like. As a girl, I can tell you that straight.

[Asker]

It's not my perspective. How did I get this idea if girls were not say this? As a girl, I can tell you that straight. - what does it mean?

[ShaunaM95]

It is your perspective, you've just stated it. As a girl, I can tell you girls don't work like that because I actually am one. You're not a girl so you can't go around saying "this is what girls do" when you're not even one yourself.

[Asker]

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***See here and tell. It's my perspective. All of them say they feel ***** after knowing the person, after an emotional connection. Before it they just appreciate them same as they appreciate women.

[Anonymous]

Marriage = Women getting acquisition of a male's resources. Unless you are in the top 20% in physical looks, women want you for the resources you have.

[Asker]

But why don't women get married to women? Women are more sexier than men ever they also earn.

[SarahsSummer]

When will it end? Here's a question, if men are only interested in women and their "sexual ornaments" why are men constantly talking about and comparing penises, theirs and other men's?

[Asker]

I don't know when will it end. I just know girls say this and behave like this. men constantly talking about and comparing penises I don't know why but here most women say they find penis unappealing and penis grossed them out. But never breast, butt, vagina grossed guys out. I don't know how girls feel guys.

[Anonymous]

You can only talk from your prespective as one. Not all men find women bodies more attractive. Not all women feel more attraction towards women bodies. I love men, every single thing about them. Females are God's most perfect creation in my opinion, but could never turn me on in the same level male body can.

[Asker]

[Females are God's most perfect creation in my opinion, but could never turn me on in the same level male body can] female body could never turn you on in the same level the male body can, so female body turn you on? May be not as much as male body, but does it turn you on? But guys body could never turn guys on.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no.. I wouldn't say it turns me on, cause it doesn't it inspires me. Motivates me to work on mine. But men, oh men, they turn me on. The back muscles, the strong arms, jawlines, neck, ass, legs, hands, everything!! I just love it all

[Asker]

But most straight girls here say they when they see guys they don't find him attractive or they may find them attractive but feel nothing, they just appreciate it same as they appreciate nice roses, nice car etc. The back muscles, the strong arms, jawlines, neck, ass, legs, hands do nothing for them if it's random guy and they don't know about their personality or sense of humor. But they can feel attraction or arousal if they have emotional connection with the guy or they already have chemistry with him, otherwise guys and girls are same for them though sexy girls arouse them and they don't need to know her personality.

[Opinion Owner]

That's bullshit when they say they can't feel anything unless they know the guys personality. Your look if my first opinion about you. Have a fit guy come to them and a fat guy and you'll see the truth. Men looks can do everything for me. Keeps me sane, blesses my eyes and cleans my soul.

[Asker]

But what do women feel when they see attractive guys? LUST/LOVE/NOTHING? What is the difference between seeing guys and girls? How much it different?