If you're woman but you have no emotional connection with (!!!), is that basically being asexual?

[Anonymous]

The most important types of attraction that women feel happen when you interact with them. They experience no sexual attraction until they're familiar with a person. Random guys are incapable of arousing their desire. Women get sexually attracted to people when they get very emotionally involved with them.

If they see guys (whom they never seen before/known/stranger) it's more like "Hey, it's some person." No tingles, no desire, no thoughts of sex or imagining them naked. It's like they're a bunch of dolls: the fact that they probably have genitals doesn't really enter into my brain.

It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. Sex is not physical for them it all about mental and psychological. Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction. at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if them show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?
If it is stranger and unknown guys whom them have never met before then they will not experience any physical sparks because hot body doesn't turn them on. They feel neutral when they see sexy guys. But after talking them, after interaction with them if they realize that the guy has a good sense of humor, good personality then they will experience physical sparks before that they feel neutral.

Same as when gay guys see hot women they can just acknowledge that the person is hot but wouldn't feel any physical sparks.
Actually how do attraction works for women? Are they totally opposite from the male form of attraction? Do all women feel exactly like this? What is the difference do you feel when you look at a pillar, pillow and your opposite sex (except their structural difference)

[natrickk]

Women get attracted to people pretty much the same way men do man. Women are not some weird sexually inert separate race. They're just people. Sometimes they see someone hot and get horny. Sometimes they meet someone really great and get butterfly's in their stomachs when they talk to them and make eye contact. Sometimes they meet someone they just want to fuck cause it's fun an sexy. Women are people man. Like you and me.

[Asker]

Nice fantasy.

[natrickk]

Every single woman I have been friends with or dated has reflected this outlook and fallen somewhere on the spectrum of normal human sexuality and attraction. It's not a fantasy mate. Women feel the same kinds of feelings men do when it comes to attraction and sex. Why is that so hard to believe?

[Asker]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2539273-do-you-require-some-sort-of-connection-before-you-find-a-person

www.reddit.com/.../

www.reddit.com/.../

Read this.

[natrickk]

I wouldn't call a gag poll and a couple threads on Reddit a solid basis to form your ideas about an entire gender around. Sure, there are women, and men, out there that base attraction on personality and emotional connection over looks. I'm not saying that's not the case.

[Asker]

I am not talking about exception. I am talking about on average

[Anonymous]

I get what you are saying, but that was incredibly badly written. But I am sure it is because English isn't your first language.

[unattractiveatbirth]

Emotional connections are made through long periods of physical and mental closeness. If you have never had any thoughts or never sought out sexual things before, or maybe you’re just disgusted with the idea of sex. You could be A-sexual.

[Asker]

It is widely said that women feel physical turn on only if they have some sort of connection with the person. Sex is not physical for them it all about mental and psychological. Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction. at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if them show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?

[unattractiveatbirth]

There are some people I’d have sex with because they are simply attractive. But otherwise if there more average looking I find a neutrality.

[Asker]

I am not talking about having sex, I am talking about "attraction" It's said that, If they (girls) see guys (whom they never seen before/known/stranger) it's more like "Hey, it's some person." No tingles, no desire, no thoughts of sex or imagining them naked. It's like they're a bunch of dolls. What is the difference do you feel when you look at a pillar, pillow and your opposite sex (except their structural difference) And what does attraction feel like for women.

[unattractiveatbirth]

At first glance, most of the time, it’s like they are just another random person. Attraction to me, is knowing you’re wanted. And later, finding out how human or a like the opposite sex is despite being aesthetically pleasing.

[Asker]

But when do you see hot guys in the street or any place you don't feel anything apart from neutral recolonization?

[Asker]

But when do you see hot guys in the street or any place you don't feel anything apart from neutral acknowledgement?

[unattractiveatbirth]

No. Not really.

[Asker]

Then, what do you feel when do you see random hot guys?

[unattractiveatbirth]

Mostly it’s just a “he’s cute” or “oh hello”.

[Asker]

Then what do you feel when you see random attractive women? (Mostly it’s just a “he’s cute” or “oh hello”)? Then what makes you heterosexual, gay?