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For a guy's point of view it would be better to receive oral than handjob.
If I didn't want to have sex it would be awkward if she go down own be, but I would definetely eat her up and use my fingers.
P. S: No point in a woman doing a handjob for a man, in my opinion.1 0 0 0
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Honestly if my husband wants sex and I don't I usually just tell him to make it fast. He does all the work and I usually just lay on my tummy while he does his thing. We have a deal that if one us wants it we get it not matter what. Nothing worse than feeling sexually frustrated. My husband also had a lot of nude pictures of us so he can take care of business himself if needs be. That's just what works for us, may not be for everyone.
1 3 0 0You are in more understanding relationship... and that's great
If I am not in the mood for sex, I am not in the mood for any of it. To me, sex is all the sexy stuff we do, not just PIV.
I don't think of his sexual desires as something I'm always responsible to attend to.
Sex is for fun - not a chore people are supposed to accomplish. I don't want it if my partner is not into it.1 1 0 2sure. Once in a while if my boyfriend's feeling 'antsy' and I'm not because I'm stressed with school/work and whatnot, I'm fine to just give him head/a handjob instead.
He's usually fine with that, too, since it's not a recurring issue or anything.1 3 0 0Usually, if my boyfriend wants sex, I can get into it with foreplay. But if I know that I will not want to fool around, I usually do both oral and a hand job, or anything else we would do.
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13 54I always do oral and never do penis in vagina, so I'm always up for oral anytime he wants. That's one of the great things about oral, it's easy, fun, enjoyable and satisfying. :)
1 2 0 1Amen!
Good to have sex partner like u
Well if its a choice for him masturbating or me helping him out I would have no problem giving a guy a hand... or mouth as the case may be. Then again would he let me watch? lol
1 2 0 0I would rather him wait for me to want it.
1 0 0 1I would wait
My boyfriend actually doesn't like either of those. He'd rather go down on me, which I also prefer.
1 2 0 0Depends on the situation but if it was for sure a 'no go' night then I'd say when, tease him about how much I'd look forward to it, and keep to it.
1 1 0 0I have never turned down an offer of oral sex or a hand job.
1 0 0 0No I expect oral to be done to me as the main thing we'd do in terms of sex.
1 0 0 2Wow you sound selfish. You don't want to suck on a skin but you want someone to lick that sweaty slimy hole. The nerve.
@richardace_123 If it's any consolation, I'd make you rim me. Lmao.
Hahaha NO. Will never happen the vagina is filthy enough. Lol and I would personally tell that to a woman if she expects me to go down on her and won't on me. Luckily never encountered such a woman.
I don't ask. When I want my girl, I take her.
I cultivate constant sexual tension with her, which has become sort of an art for me, so she's usually excited and ready for the experience1 0 0 0I have given my boyfriend oral when I'm not in the mood, and he has done the same for me.
1 4 0 0I want both tonight oral and hand job...
0 0 0 0Sure. We don't always have to have sex, we sometimes just let the hands or the tongue/mouth do the work
1 0 0 0I dont like receiving oral sex. It doesn't turn me on much. I need to feel the tightness of a wet and creamy pussy around my 8 inch long/5inch wide black penis.
With that said, if I wasn't getting sex I'd rather give oral sex and forplay than recieve it. Giving pleasure is a big high for me.1 0 0 2Yes, i will blow him instead
1 3 0 0yeah I would, still got to look after his needs even if I'm not feeling it
1 4 0 0No you don't. You may WANT to. But you never HAVE to.
@MlleCake ok worded it badly
I'll accept that. Just - really not good if either partner thinks of sex as a "have to" and not a "want to", and I want to make sure people hear that message loud and clear. Not trying to make this personal about you.
I want to make him happy. I would do either if it satisfied him. If I was in the mood and he wasn’t he would do the same for me.
2 2 0 0Yeah I'm totally happy with getting oral/whatever if my girlfriend is too busy. I'm also happy with nothing. I can take care of myself if I need to.
1 0 0 0Yeah as you are still taking care of him
1 3 0 0Honestly, when you want pussy, there's nothing that will quite satisfy you. Blowjobs are nice, but they just aren't quite as good.
1 0 0 0Yep take the bj and the hj
1 0 0 0I don't mind giving HJ
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