Do women really fear men who watch porn?

[CasaNorba]

the other day I was bored and decided to check on my past opinions and stumble upon this question here.

Is it really too much to expect a guy not to look at porn while in a relationship with you?

if you read this individual's question from beginning you will noticed that she used "rape" to validate her point. so basically according to her logic men who watch porn are "desperately losers" who can't control their dicks and are more likely to rape women in site. you will also noticed if you read my opinion on that question from beginning to end she pretty much admitted this logic of her's even further in one of her comments.

anyways I think saying that all men who watch porn are potential rapists is no different than saying that all folks who listen to gangster rap more likely to shoot someone or commit other gang-related types of crime in their life time.

till then do women actually have this mentality nowadays?

ps: I really hope not because if they do then I guess we can say we are all doomed as a society.

[Drinkingcoffee]

I don’t think all men are rapists if they watch porn. That’s ridiculous. But I do believe that if viewed excessively in adolescent years it can buffer the idea of what non-consensual sex is. I think it’s very harmful for young men and women who don’t have an idea of what sex is, yet. In adults who view it from a neutral point, it’s fine and can be beneficial.
For teens, it can lead to girls thinking they have to do porn stuff and boys expecting porn stuff. That’s not good because while we adults know porn isn’t real, young people can view porn as a how-to manual.
I personally don’t like my partner watching porn. He’s okay with that, if he wasn’t there would be issues and we wouldn’t be suited to each other. We’ve been together four years, and I suppose a lack of porn means I have to have sex/give blow jobs at least twice a day and I’m willing to do that. i wouldn’t ask that he stopped porn if I wasn’t willing to fill that void.

[CasaNorba]

I agree, I started watching porn before my teens and it kinda distorted my perception on sex growing up. but I always knew about consensual sex because obviously I always understood there is no point on doing something with someone who isn't down because it pretty much contributes to harm. but that's good that you're not a control freak and you're willing to fill in that void since there are a lot of women out there who dont seem to understand this. that chick that asked that question I linked in my op was a major example

[Drinkingcoffee]

That’s true, I do believe everyone understands no however I do firmly believe teens shouldn’t watch it. Some disagree with me, but that’s my viewpoint. I mean, we can’t stop them but You know. Like, we wouldn’t learn how to drive from watching a fast and furious movie haha Thanks. I’m an insecure person and while I admit it and am working on it, I choose to believe my guy would watch porn as an aid rather than to jerk off to hot chicks. That’s it partly, I know it deep down but thinking of that would hinder my enjoyment during sea so I want to live in a fantasy land. But if I’m asking him (strong stress on the word “asking”) to not watch porn, I can’t expect to let myself get lazy if I’m his only sexual outlet. It’s more work for me, but I thoroughly enjoy sex more and we experiment with new things rather than watching and duplicating.

[Goodwifie]

Not really.
As long as you don't choose porn over your naked partner waiting for you in the bedroom. I see no problem.
As long as you don't have unrealistic expectations of what sex should be like. You're a grown man so I highly doubt it.

There is some pretty disturbing shit out there and I'm really not sure how some people get off on it.
Hide any rough shit and make up a collection of more female friendly porn that's easier to find and who knows she may actually want to watch it with you.

[Ant001]

Hell no I don't choose it over her. I want her all the time. But sometimes I get too self conscience because I have a curved penis and I think she may find it weird and unattractive

[CasaNorba]

true but I'll watch all the female friendly porn she likes in only one condition and that is if she watches the ones I enjoy with me in return. of course I dont like that hardcore disturbing type of things either, so no need to worry about me going that far

[ThatUnknownGirl]

No if anything they won't be as horny because they have masturbated.

Females also watch porn to so I wonder how she would feel about them, there's no difference... Sometimes people just need something other then there imagination to get off rather then have meaningless sex all the time.

[Ant001]

So does this mean a curved cock which is unnatractive makes the female need to think of something else to get off?

[ThatUnknownGirl]

@Ant001 I would imagine there would be no difference if it still feels the same... She can't see it when you're in her, also depending on how much it's curved she may not even notice

[Ant001]

Well it's a considerable curve which is noticeable so would this be an issue to u if u were in the situation?

[ThatUnknownGirl]

@Ant001 I don't know if it would feel different as I personally never have had one. But if you say it's just because of the look then she won't really see it while in her.

[Ant001]

That's a fair point. Although would u look at how curved it is and then see if it would be a problem?

[ThatUnknownGirl]

@Ant001 I'm not going to know what it feels like from a pictures

[Ant001]

No I meant to see if ud find it a problem

[ThatUnknownGirl]

@Ant001 No I'm fine thanks. If your girlfriend doesn't have a problem with what it looks/feels like is all you should care about :-).

[CasaNorba]

very true I agree all the way. luckily you women dont need to maintain an erection during sex therefore you guys will probably not have a problem during the sex even if you probably masturbated prior to the act

[Gedaria]

I not sure its fear more like expectation. But women watch porn as well , my first wife use to might still do. We hadn't been married long when she found a couple of old VHS tapes I had bought before we even met. I gets in from work and she is looking at them, I expected her to hit the roof , all she said they were a little tame. Couple nights later after dinner , she said I have a surprise for you , I got a couple of tapes from video store ,..
Well I must say she hit the spot , these were real porn , it put us in the mood , didn't see the end of the tape doing our own porn movie...

[CasaNorba]

I agree all the way! luckily there are a lot of women who are just like your wife and not like that control freak asked that question I posted in the link. because after all as much as they hide it they do like it as much as us.

[Ant001]

I'm in a relationship and watch porn. Although on a few occasions my partner has not been happy about it. I have a very high sex drive so surely this is better than ever cheating? Which I would never do

[CasaNorba]

I dont see how is cheating since you're obviously not doing anything physical with the girls you're beating off to. I'm guessing that maybe she got jealous in those few occasions because perhaps those girls you were beating off to were hotter than her.

[Pentagram_medallion]

No that's ludacrous. Most guys watch it anyways

[Penelope_]

Everyone should watch porn

[COCOCHANEL]

some

[CasaNorba]

so is there a certain degree or level?

[marish01]

Yeah. Porn addicts are creepy to me.

[CasaNorba]

you do know a lot of the nations that have the highest rate of rape are usually those where porn the most tabooed at, right?

[marish01]

So if a man doesn't watch it then he become a rapist.. Interesting.

[CasaNorba]

that's not what I said, but it can't be a coincidence that porn is consume by billions of people around the world yet very few of these billions of people are actually rapist. but it can't be more of a coincidence that rape occurs the most where porn is in fact the most banned

[monkeynutts]

Yeah dude, read a book or have a practice and respectable Hobbie. and hide the fact you watch it, you should feel a mild amount of shame about watching it, most girls don't want to know about it.

[CasaNorba]

i'm pretty sure they watch it as much as I do in their spare time since its been proven numerous of times that women consume it at the same rate as us so I dont see any point in hiding it.

[monkeynutts]

Yeah I have dated girls who got indignant about my porn interest in the past. I had a feeling she went through my collection when I was not looking. But she feigned an angelic sense of proprietary very well.