How can I stop thinking about sex? I lost my virginity recently and now sex is all I can think about?

this issue is making me frustrated because me and my boyfriend can't have sex everyday it depends on if his parents are at home or not. but that's not the issue , I lost my virginity to him 2 weeks ago and now i can't stop thinking about sex. I just wanna lay in his bed all day everyday and it's driving me crazy. how do I go back to normal? I don't want to keep thinking about this stuff all the time especially because we can't do it all the time. what should I do? is this normal?
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  • This is what G@Gers called the "Honeymoon Phase" of your sex life.

    Yes, it's normal.

    No, I don't think you can control your current desire for sex.

    Yes, unable to fuck is VERY frustrating.

    No, I believe that time is in our hands and we can make things happen.

    So my opinion is, make time for it. Start a "sex-filled lifestyle". You probably won't have another opportunity for such a phase anymore.

    Si enjoy it and make sex happen. Be happy, and have a lot of sex.

  • Get a motel room for yourselves and just go until you're both exhausted. Spend a lot of time in the saddle so he won't wear out.

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  • Yep, it can be pretty normal to new/young folks. Have you thought about masturbating? It's a given for men, but worth talking about for women.

    • it's not as satisfying I just crave my boyfriend 24/7 and I'm afraid he will get bored of it cause I want it all the time

    • Trust me he won't

    • A male getting bored of sex? That won't happen. A sex drive like yours is like winning the lottery for him.

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  • Some of these comments are gonna kill me! lmao

  • Self control lol it's not easy but that's all u can do

  • try to have an open relation ship and get more boys for youreself

    • never , my boyfriend is all I need and want

    • then try a toy whntile you meet him again, what about that?

  • And why people marry and live together. You have everything assbackwards. You're not even your own person yet.

  • That's pretty normal, yeah, it'll ease up as the novelty wears off. I'm glad you had a good first experience! All you can do is touch yourself in between sessions with your boyfriend.

  • Yeah, I heard this is normal
    Once you've had sex you start to crave it
    Just masturbate to relieve the tension and try to occupy yourself with other things

  • What's wrong In that? Sex is not a bad thing. Come to pm

  • Masturbate and watch porn, have more sex, and enjoy ur life

  • Move together or maybe do it in your home instead

  • Welcome to the world of sex. Now that you know what it's like it's always going to be on your mind. Over time you may gain control over yourself better but you will always remember. 😎

  • It is normal I was the same way. Now I look forward to the weekends where we can have sex

  • Do it once more. Then forget about it.

  • Embrace it

  • masturbate more.

  • Thats normal. Go get some :)

  • Find an online sex buddy to help! (Hint) lol

  • Just have sex frequently and don't push your lust back in... enjoy your sex drive

  • Fap, fap, fap, some release may help.

  • That's pretty standard.
    Once a female pops her cork, she usually goes on the cock carousel for a while.