You can give your self affirmations, such as I am a good as anyone else, I deserve whatever, just as much as anyone else. You also can act in a more confident manner, even if you don't feel it. Acting this way, will actually help your increase your confidence. Also, don't let these 'tapes' in your brain, run through your head. When the tape says 'is he pretending to like this', refuse to let the tape play. Force yourself to refocus on something more positive. When the tape says 'is he pretending to like this' tell yourself he's hard and in me, that is proof that he likes it. And that is quite true, he likes being in you, or he wouldn't be hard, and wouldn't be in you. When the tape runs 'why is he quiet', force into your mind and focus on, 'he's quiet because it feels so good to be in me, that he just wants to focus on the feelings' and be quiet. In other areas of you life, act confident, whether you feel confident or not, and you will tend to be more confident. It doesn't happen over night, but you can change some of those tapes in your brain, with new tapes, that affirm your worth. And try not to compare yourself with others, as this tends to make a person feel less than, or feel arrogant.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!As a guy, this is what I hate about my gender: that we in general, lose interest in a girl if the sex is not good.
Sex need not be perfect, but if it lack certain "standard" we can be quite fast to move on.
Hence you can be sure your boyfriend likes having sex with you thus far.
Regarding improvement, learn to be sexually confident. Not slutty.
It means, do all you can for now and look at sex as an expression of love.
Then learn to communicate.
It's ok to make noise and encourage him to do so. Simple statements like "you like it?" can get a lot of response. So learn this skill.
Finally, pick up skills in fellatio and giving hand jobs. Even strip tease. There are no shortage of such info in the web.
So rest assured. You're doing fine. Just be confident and start improving.
some guys like the shy additude. its a thing. and it is cute as fuck. imbrase your shyness
Make sure you're enjoying it. I'm sure all he wants to do is please you. If you're having fun he's having fun.
You are over thinking this. He is having sex with you. He is enjoying your body. If he didn't enjoy being intimate with you He wouldn't have sex with you
Well u can ask him in what way can u make the sex better between u an would he be willing to take u an show u.
God Bless
Trust me he's enjoying it
Know that whatever u do is hot to him, eye contact is sexy
How often do y'all have sex together?
A lot lol, but he's away for work right now and comes back in 5 months, im going to see him in 3 days
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