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I am a hugless kissless handholdless virgin, why is it wrong for me to want a virgin?
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- Because your 23 by this time you’ll have to have sex with a 9 year old if you want a virgin in the 21st century0|10|0Is this still revelant?
Yes that is the issue, but if the age of consent was reduced to 9 it would just mean I'd need a 7 year old
Correct unless you want to find a Mormon or a 500 pound woman who’s been 500 pounds since she was 16 you’re not going to find a virgin anymore
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Yup so if you want a virgin your gotta go for a 9 year old, or you could move to Saudi Arabia, they kill there women if they have sex outside marriage
Define progressive Do United States was more right than Hitler Just weren’t authoritarian
Anonymous1 yIt's not but good luck finding one that isn't 14 years old.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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716- It's no more shallow than any of the things that women often reject men for so it's not wrong in that regard. You are allowed to have whatever criteria you want for a partner, but it's ill advised to talk about what your criteria is because you'll just be opening yourself up to criticism and attacks from people who are offended by your criteria. For example say you aren't interested in fat people , well great reject all the fat people you want just shut the fuck up about it and avoid letting them know that their fatness was a contributing factor to you rejecting them. Same goes for rejecting women based on their sexual history. You have nothing to gain from telling people why you reject them.
Last thing you need to be aware of is that any girl who is a 4/10 or higher can find a guy who is her level of attractiveness or even slightly higher to have sex with at the drop of a dime so the odds of finding a girl who isn't hideous, asexual or a religious nut and still a virgin are slim to none. Also most girls aren't exactly honest about their sexual history so you'll never really know how many guys she's slept with.
Rather than finding a girl who is equally as inexperienced as you, I think you'd have better luck trying to have a few casual flings to increase your experience to where the average girl is. Or maybe just stick to casual flings indefinitely.0|00|0 - Nobody says it's "wrong". You're insecure, understandably, because you're inexperienced. And you'd feel safer with a woman who's also inexperienced. But you also do need to understand that this will make chances to find a partner go from low to even lower. And the older you get, the lower your chances get with that. But As long as you're aware of that and don't complain, by all means, go ahead and stick to that criteria if you think that's smart.
I mean, it's really not smart. It's actually super dumb. But not "wrong".1|00|0Why would my chance be lower?
Could it be because all f*males are promiscuous whores?
(The answer is yes by the way)
- You can want whatever you like and you might get it but the older you get the less likely it is that you will find a virginal woman who is interested in you.
But mostly the guys who want a virgin are either insecure and afraid of being compared with some former boyfriend, or they view a woman as an object like a car and think they can have a brand new one.1|00|0Why would I not be likely to find a virgin woman? Because they're all promiscuous whores? (Yes)
And no, it's not insecure to reject used up beef flaps, STDs and attachment issues. I am a virgin and I want, and deserve, a virgin.As I said, you can want whatever. "Deserve" is not a concept that applies to dating. "Deserve" implies that someone is handing out rewards for merit. There's no one assigning women to men. It's all on you to attract a woman. Will your own virginity be attractive to 20-something virginal woman? Maybe, maybe not. I don't expect your unforgiving attitude and sense of entitlement will be very enticing.
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Keep telling yourself that and you'll be a 40-year-old virgin. Or you could work on your anger problem and become a guy women want to be with.
- Well, as long as you understand your dating pool will be way smaller...
I'm a virgin too and don't really care much about that with other potential partners.
As long as you keep that fact open and well known, then no one will have their time wasted1|10|0 - 0|00|0
- If that’s what you want, that’s fine. You will probably need to look for partners amongst more religious or conservative demographics. It limits your choices but if that’s your preference it isn’t wrong1|20|0
Not even the conservative demographic has virgins, religious you’d have to go with Mormons or Muslims, Mormon women are really disciplined in their behavior and tend to stay virgins till marriage but they get married young. Muslims will kill there women if they have sex outside of marriage, so women because of that fear don’t go out sleeping with a bunch of guys
That does happen in some countries but I wouldn’t say it in such a general way. Mormons do appear to stick to their belief system pretty strictly If they stay with the church so they are probably a good bet if one was truly set on being with a virgin. Non religious virgins exist, they may just not be very common or they may just not talk about it. I personally think it’s silly to put so much emphasis on something like that but everyone is different
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If you're going to refer to *women as whores then you need to refer to their partners the same way. Both men and women have sex freely in this day and age
Yea that’s a stupid statement there a difference between whores and people who make mistakes, most women loose there virginity to someone who they think there going to be with for life rarely is it because there selling it
A lot of women aren’t stupid some are but then again a lot of men are smart and some men are stupid. You don’t understand meant sleep around a lot more than women do.
@Stoner710 How is that a bad argument? There is nothing wrong with being a virgin or not being a virgin. I don't think women should be referred to as whores but their male partners not be. Both are having sex. Also, not all women who lose their virginity expect to stay with that person forever. Maybe they just liked them and felt comfortable with them and decided to take things to the next level. Both men and women have sex freely, why should one be degraded for it over the other? Would also like to make it clear, I don't feel either sex should be degraded, I just don't understand why one receives ire and the other does not
- Well not wrong but u can't expect other people to be like u, u can expect whatever u wan't doesn't mean ill ever happen0|00|0
- You should want a virgin girl you can share something very special with each other. You don't want used second hand crap.0|00|0
- It's perfectly acceptable. Why do you ask permission from people who you don't even know?0|00|0
Well I'm an incel and apparently it's considered a problem if I only want to see a virgin
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Stop looking for opinions on how to live you life, especially when you don't agree with them anyway. There is no law against wanting a virgin as long as she is of legal age and age consents.
If you are labeling yourself in ways that destroy all of your power, then you will fail. We as men are not defined by whether we can, or cannot attract women, despite what society likes to promote.
Except we are. Reproduction is the end game of human existence, failure to do that is to fail as a human
Adopting a label based solely on your perceived inability, will not increase your ability. It will not give you the power to change, improve, or overcome the reasons why you think you cannot, or cannot reproduce. It simply serves to make it less likely.
We are more than just vessels that reproduce.
- That’s creepy, sounds like you need to get some booty, already.0|00|0
- Want to know who said it is wrong? Don't see anything wrong with it.0|00|0
- Anonymous1 yIt’s acceptable since you are still one but going to be harder to find0|00|0
- Nothing wrong with that, but they are hard to find because they are rare.0|10|0
I was referring to girls in the USA. In other countries virgins may not be rare. The lack of virgins in the USA is largely based on our current culture and was different in the 1950s and earlier. For example, in almost every movie not made for young children, the main characters will hop into bed almost before they even have dinner together. Following the examples of movie stars in movies is what most young girls do. Furthermore, in our present culture, there is no shame in being a teenage single mother let alone having sex. On this site, many girls admit to having sex and don't bat an eye about it.
Current data appears to be misleading. However, based on the Center for Disease Control Youth Risk Surveys from 10 to 20 years ago, more than 50% of 11th-grade girls and almost 70% of 12th-grade girls have had sexual intercourse. The percentage for boys was less and I believe that is because girls demand exceptionally attractive sexual partners while boys are not choosy, Therefore, while average looking girls have many opportunities, girls reject average looking boys and in fact most boys, not in the top 20 percentile of looks.Ten years ago when the Center for Disease Control gave the results of the Youth Risk Surveys taken in January 60% of 11th-grade girls had had sexual intercourse and almost 75% of 12th-grade girls. The percentages were even high in the deep South. The percentage of males was less. Primarily because average and below-average boys had very limited opportunities. All the girls wanted the hot guys. Although the surveys didn't give data at graduation, by interpolating the data, likely about 80% of the girls has sexual intercourse by graduation. And, since most girls don't get married until several years after graduation, there are very few virgin girlfriends especially if you deduct the girls that never marry and never have sexual intercourse.
- It's not impossible but I think you're getting a little old for that1|00|0
- Anonymous1 yNothing wrong with that I'm the same and I want a virgin0|00|0
- It's acceptable to virgins. Nobody else matters.0|00|0
- It’s not wrong at all. I’m in the same boat.0|00|0
- Who said it was not acceptable?0|00|0
- Why am i following this troll ass account0|10|0
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