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Why is wanting a virgin girlfriend not acceptable?

I am a hugless kissless handholdless virgin, why is it wrong for me to want a virgin?
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  • Because your 23 by this time you’ll have to have sex with a 9 year old if you want a virgin in the 21st century

    • Yes that is the issue, but if the age of consent was reduced to 9 it would just mean I'd need a 7 year old

    • Correct unless you want to find a Mormon or a 500 pound woman who’s been 500 pounds since she was 16 you’re not going to find a virgin anymore

    • Nah even landwhales have orbiters now

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  • It's not but good luck finding one that isn't 14 years old.

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  • Well, as long as you understand your dating pool will be way smaller...
    I'm a virgin too and don't really care much about that with other potential partners.
    As long as you keep that fact open and well known, then no one will have their time wasted

  • Nobody says it's "wrong". You're insecure, understandably, because you're inexperienced. And you'd feel safer with a woman who's also inexperienced. But you also do need to understand that this will make chances to find a partner go from low to even lower. And the older you get, the lower your chances get with that. But As long as you're aware of that and don't complain, by all means, go ahead and stick to that criteria if you think that's smart.

    I mean, it's really not smart. It's actually super dumb. But not "wrong".

    • Why would my chance be lower? Could it be because all f*males are promiscuous whores? (The answer is yes by the way)

  • Well not wrong but u can't expect other people to be like u, u can expect whatever u wan't doesn't mean ill ever happen

  • It's perfectly acceptable. Why do you ask permission from people who you don't even know?

    • Well I'm an incel and apparently it's considered a problem if I only want to see a virgin

    • Considered a problem by who? Your family? Your friends?

    • Literally any article regarding incels.

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  • You can want whatever you like and you might get it but the older you get the less likely it is that you will find a virginal woman who is interested in you.

    But mostly the guys who want a virgin are either insecure and afraid of being compared with some former boyfriend, or they view a woman as an object like a car and think they can have a brand new one.

    • Why would I not be likely to find a virgin woman? Because they're all promiscuous whores? (Yes) And no, it's not insecure to reject used up beef flaps, STDs and attachment issues. I am a virgin and I want, and deserve, a virgin.

    • As I said, you can want whatever. "Deserve" is not a concept that applies to dating. "Deserve" implies that someone is handing out rewards for merit. There's no one assigning women to men. It's all on you to attract a woman. Will your own virginity be attractive to 20-something virginal woman? Maybe, maybe not. I don't expect your unforgiving attitude and sense of entitlement will be very enticing.

    • Attitude is irrelevant, only looks matter

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  • If that’s what you want, that’s fine. You will probably need to look for partners amongst more religious or conservative demographics. It limits your choices but if that’s your preference it isn’t wrong

    • Not even the conservative demographic has virgins, religious you’d have to go with Mormons or Muslims, Mormon women are really disciplined in their behavior and tend to stay virgins till marriage but they get married young. Muslims will kill there women if they have sex outside of marriage, so women because of that fear don’t go out sleeping with a bunch of guys

    • That does happen in some countries but I wouldn’t say it in such a general way. Mormons do appear to stick to their belief system pretty strictly If they stay with the church so they are probably a good bet if one was truly set on being with a virgin. Non religious virgins exist, they may just not be very common or they may just not talk about it. I personally think it’s silly to put so much emphasis on something like that but everyone is different

    • Why aren't they common? Oh yeah, females are whores

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  • It's acceptable to virgins. Nobody else matters.

  • It's no more shallow than any of the things that women often reject men for so it's not wrong in that regard. You are allowed to have whatever criteria you want for a partner, but it's ill advised to talk about what your criteria is because you'll just be opening yourself up to criticism and attacks from people who are offended by your criteria. For example say you aren't interested in fat people , well great reject all the fat people you want just shut the fuck up about it and avoid letting them know that their fatness was a contributing factor to you rejecting them. Same goes for rejecting women based on their sexual history. You have nothing to gain from telling people why you reject them.

    Last thing you need to be aware of is that any girl who is a 4/10 or higher can find a guy who is her level of attractiveness or even slightly higher to have sex with at the drop of a dime so the odds of finding a girl who isn't hideous, asexual or a religious nut and still a virgin are slim to none. Also most girls aren't exactly honest about their sexual history so you'll never really know how many guys she's slept with.

    Rather than finding a girl who is equally as inexperienced as you, I think you'd have better luck trying to have a few casual flings to increase your experience to where the average girl is. Or maybe just stick to casual flings indefinitely.

    • I'm short and ugly, there is no hope of that

  • Why am i following this troll ass account

  • You should want a virgin girl you can share something very special with each other. You don't want used second hand crap.

    • Based

  • Who said it was not acceptable?

  • Why is it that guys don't want to date virgins anymore?

  • It's not impossible but I think you're getting a little old for that

    • Why? I am a virgin.

    • Irrelevant

  • It’s not wrong at all. I’m in the same boat.

  • Nothing wrong with that, but they are hard to find because they are rare.

    • Why are they rare? Because ALL f*males are whores? (The answer is yes by the way)

    • I was referring to girls in the USA. In other countries virgins may not be rare. The lack of virgins in the USA is largely based on our current culture and was different in the 1950s and earlier. For example, in almost every movie not made for young children, the main characters will hop into bed almost before they even have dinner together. Following the examples of movie stars in movies is what most young girls do. Furthermore, in our present culture, there is no shame in being a teenage single mother let alone having sex. On this site, many girls admit to having sex and don't bat an eye about it. Current data appears to be misleading. However, based on the Center for Disease Control Youth Risk Surveys from 10 to 20 years ago, more than 50% of 11th-grade girls and almost 70% of 12th-grade girls have had sexual intercourse. The percentage for boys was less and I believe that is because girls demand exceptionally attractive sexual partners while boys are not choosy, Therefore, while average looking girls have many opportunities, girls reject average looking boys and in fact most boys, not in the top 20 percentile of looks.

    • Ten years ago when the Center for Disease Control gave the results of the Youth Risk Surveys taken in January 60% of 11th-grade girls had had sexual intercourse and almost 75% of 12th-grade girls. The percentages were even high in the deep South. The percentage of males was less. Primarily because average and below-average boys had very limited opportunities. All the girls wanted the hot guys. Although the surveys didn't give data at graduation, by interpolating the data, likely about 80% of the girls has sexual intercourse by graduation. And, since most girls don't get married until several years after graduation, there are very few virgin girlfriends especially if you deduct the girls that never marry and never have sexual intercourse.

  • It's not.

  • That’s creepy, sounds like you need to get some booty, already.

    • >being a virgin is creepy Ok normie

  • People assume she doesn't know how to have sex.

  • Want to know who said it is wrong? Don't see anything wrong with it.

  • It's not

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