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Boyfriend asked me to hold his dick while he peed?

I don’t know if it’s disrespectful or him being comfortable with me? And is being comfortable a good thing?
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  • Did you feel disrespected at all by it?

    It's certainly not the most normal thing in the world to ask a woman to do, but it's not the craziest thing either.
    If you don't mind it and he enjoys it then there's no real problem!

    And to me, it doesn't sound like it could be a disrespectful thing, I'm not into pee, so I think it would be unpleasant for my personal tastes, but it seems that in this situation, he is the one in a vulnerable position and he wants to give you control of him in a moment of vulnerability!

  • Is it weird I want to hold my boyfriends penis while he pees to see what it feels like?

    Here you have an example of a girl who wants to do that. I think that most girls doesn't like, so I wouldn't ask a girlfriend to do that, unless she complains if I ever pee outside the toilet. It can sounds disrespectful, but I don't think he does it with that intention.

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  • This seems like a weird thing to me. First time I've heard of this too sooooo my brain is just kinda processing this.

    • First time I heard it too

    • The more I think about it the stranger it gets. Like in order for this to happen. You would have to be in the bathroom with him holding his dick as he pees. Do y'all talk during this? Stay silent? Is he holding up his pants? Are you behind him with your arms wrapped around him? Are you shaking it and putting it back in his pants?

    • These are all rhetorical questions by the way. Just where my brain went

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  • Not only is it hot (and, yes, being comfortable is a good thing), there are MANY women who love to do that and REQUEST to hold their BF's penis when he pees. This is because, as the urine is coming out, it illustrates the penis working - as if it is ejaculating. Many women are turned on by seeing ejaculations or sensing anything akin to it.

    • I don’t why but on some level I felt disrespected

    • That's OK and, you know what... you should. Until a man is really emotionally intimate - like spouses married a few years at least - a man should treat his woman with class as if she has class and isn't a slut. A request like the one he made wasn't classy.

    • I agree it wasn’t classy at all to ask me to do that

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  • That’s just weird, but guess it’s his kink. Pee and sexuality don’t make sense to me personally.

  • How do you feel about it?

    • Because he’s a good guy and shy too (also not a big freak sexually, I was confused about it

    • I see. Well, I'd consider it disrespectful to ask a girlfriend to do that, but in his case maybe he sees himself as trying to be less inhibited.

    • Yes that makes sense. That’s why I asked if it’s being comfortable with me seen as he’s a shy person

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  • That was a fantasy of mine too. Just do it for him. It isn’t any harm to you

    • Is it supposed to be disrespectful?

    • Not at all. It was a sexual fantasy

  • What's the context here? Was it sexual or did he need your help for some reason? Do you have reason to think that he did it to spite you or somehow make a weird statement?

    • We were getting hot and heavy and he wanted to pee first so he asked

    • That sounds so weird (not necessarily in a bad way). I only say that because I'm struggling to think of what the thought process of that might've been. I wonder if he's into watersports of any kind. Or maybe he was just trying something ^^ Given that you were getting it on, I'm assuming you two don't have any serious issues in your relationship. If he's not usually treating you in any abusive way, or you don't think that he somehow sees you as "less" either, I'd personally say it isn't disrespectful. He just asked ^^ Though I can understand why you'd be taken aback by it or wouldn't think that that's an appropriate question, but again I personally don't see it as being directly disrespectful. Ofc what matters more is what you think? I mean some people are into things like this. Doesn't have to be a bad thing.

    • We have something really good going apart from last night’s comment. He’s also a very respectful and good person and that’s exactly why I was shocked. He also doesn’t see me as less, if anything he sees me as being “out of his league” as he sometimes jokes. I’m guessing it was just a comment that was made in the heat of the moment. I will be watching him moving forward though

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  • ain't no way

  • I’m so confused, was it a sex thing maybe?

  • That’s weird plan and simple.

    • I’m not worried about it being “weird”, but more “disrespectful”

    • It’s all of it. Next he will ask you to wipe his ass

    • No lol

  • Wow! That is cool. Nothing to do with respect.

  • he's a weird duck

  • Just for giggles. Don’t read too much into it. I know a married couple who said they did some things like that and he was a really cool guy and she was hot. They stayed married and had three kids.

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